Question: How can I receive such articles every day?
Answer: Just click "Follow" in the upper right corner.
The taste of loneliness and helplessness is not many people who can understand it except the elderly who put themselves in their shoes. Don’t say anything that empathizes. There is no right to speak without experience. Some elderly people say the words in their hearts can express many words that are difficult to speak in the same situation.
A Ms., 60 years old, I have been divorced for more than ten years. I haven’t felt it in the first few years. Instead, I feel that life after the divorce is easy and fresh. But now my child has started a family and started a business and works in other places all year round. I seem to be empty at home alone. Whether in or outside the house, I feel empty.
Last year I got sick and had a minor operation for this. Although my children were still able to take a break from their busy schedule to see me when I was hospitalized, as soon as I was discharged from the hospital, my children hurried back to work. While recuperating, cooking and washing were both difficult. I was already sixty years old and had to let my mother, who was in her eighties, serve me. Now I have healed, but my scar has healed and I have not forgotten the pain. I still want to find a suitable man to be my wife. When I am sick, I can at least serve a cup of tea and pour a bowl of water.
B, 65 years old, my wife has been away from me for twenty years. The reason why I haven’t remarried in twenty years is because I haven’t met a suitable partner, and the other is that my children were still young at that time. Now I need to think about the future for myself. I think it is not wrong for the elderly to remarry. After all, children with a whole family are not as good as couples.
Whether men or women, they will face empty nests when they are old. My children will form new families and will work hard for their respective families. Even if they are filial, they cannot wait by my side from morning to night, so they cannot replace the role of their spouse. I have been together with my children all year round, and I have nowhere to say anything in my heart. In fact, single elderly people still have the right to enjoy love. If they can find a suitable personality and support their other half, it will be a wise choice.
C Ms., 70 years old. After my wife left, I tried my best to find her husband again, and I was moved at some point. After deepening my understanding, disappointment made a relationship end before it officially began. Although I am old, I have always considered myself to be a relatively independent woman and do not want to rely on men. When talking about marriage, I will experience the reality of society. Both parties will weigh whether each other's conditions match, so it is full of uncertain factors.
Later I calmed down and imagined a life of remarriage: after entering marriage, the passion will soon be exhausted, and the food and food will replace the love and love, and marriage is very likely to enter a boring situation. I was afraid that my efforts would end up in vain. Now I occasionally feel lonely, and I feel hesitant about this, and I am still undecided today. In fact, it is good to have high-quality remarriages, but you won’t force them without high-quality remarriages. You should let them go when they are natural.
Conclusion: Children cannot understand the loneliness and helplessness of their father or mother. If they choose major events in life again, they need to listen to their inner voices, and they need to weigh the pros and cons.
Please like the article, thank you for your support, and welcome to express your opinions in the comments!
pictures are from the Internet, and the pictures and texts are irrelevant.
