Marriage is like shoes, and people who wear it with their feet know the best. But in reality, many people's marriage is obviously inappropriate, but they will be settled for various reasons. Many people are obviously very wronged in marriage, but their relatives and friends around them advise them to be patient. Some marriages have long been empty, and their partners are like strangers, but there are still people who stubbornly stick to them.
These people who stick to marriage did not wait for the result they wanted in the end, but time was exhausted while waiting and wasted their lives.
In fact, it is better to let go of your hands and let each other go than to force yourself. After all, the forced melon is not sweet, it makes others embarrassed and you will suffer yourself. Why bother? Nine out of ten things are unsatisfactory in life, failure is common. Although the cost of marriage is huge, there is nothing wrong with admitting failure. Only when facing failure can you get back on the road.
1. The sand that cannot be held is raised
Marriage is a matter of two people, not the persistence of one person, family is the efforts of two people, not the hard support of one person.
If a family, a person is selfish and completely unwilling to give in his marriage, and he is even more unwilling to abide by the contract spirit of the marriage, without responsibility or responsibility, such a person will be like this in his ultimate life and will not change.
Some people's hearts are like stones, and they will never be covered with heat.
There are also people, like the free wind, wandering around and unwilling to be stable.
In marriage, meet someone like the wind and someone with a heart like a stone, it is useless to give as much as the other half. Such people do not know how to be grateful and are unwilling to stick to their marriage.
When you meet such a person, it is better to let go of each other and be free to each other. If you can't hold the sand, you will lift it.
2. Only by knowing how to put aside can life be sublimated
Many people’s lives are trapped in face and live for face.
Many marriages are clearly left with empty shells, but there are still people who stick to it for the sake of face and are unwilling to let go.
There are many people who stick to marriage, and they stick to the people around them and their relatives. I met a lady who had just gotten married at an older age. After a few years of marriage, her partner was unfaithful and her relationship with her husband had long disappeared. Her friend advised her to divorce, but she said that she had just gotten married at such an old age and her children were still young. If her parents were worried, their relatives and friends would also make fun of her. It would be better to just live. Maybe in a few years, her husband is tired of playing and will come back to live a life.
Many people's idea of sticking to marriage is similar to this lady, not for themselves, but for the people around her, for that little pitiful face.
There are successes and failures in life. It is really nothing wrong to admit failure. If a marriage fails, although you can’t start over again, giving yourself freedom can better live the rest of your life. Is it difficult to waste your time in an unhappy marriage?
3. There is no need to stick to an unhappy marriage
Marriage is the effort of two people. If one of them is lazy, don’t spoil it. Some people become more proud of themselves the more they are, especially in marriage.
If a person lives very tired and hard in marriage, he must have asked himself because he doesn't know how to leave. In this era of freedom, if you do not have the ability to act, you can only bear the pain left to you by marriage.
Unhappy marriage, marriage that cannot be kept, there is no need to stick to, because it may still be impossible to keep anything until the end. People's hearts are complicated, and once they change, it is difficult to go back to the beginning.
Please believe that some people and some things have ended here, maybe it is the arrangement made by God, and it must be the best ending.
So, if the marriage cannot continue and if the marriage can no longer be held on, it is better to leave bravely and admit that there is nothing wrong with failure.
