I have to say that compared with other domestic dramas, the selection of " Heart Rippling " is quite interesting - the three women in the story of
, whether they are divorced and single, Zhang Fan, interior designer who no longer believes in stable relationships, or the gold medal insurance salesman Pan Xiaochen, who is experiencing the seven-year itch of love, and Luo Xiaoxiao, a pet blogger who has never experienced love, their emotional experiences can be shot for dozens of episodes if they are taken out alone.
Of course, as a film and television work, it will definitely amplify the contradictions in life. In our real life, although we may not meet such strange men as they meet, I think their emotional experiences also reflect the emotional state of people in real life.
Compared with Pan Xiaochen's boyfriend Wang Jun seems even more bizarre. At the beginning of the plot of
, gold medal sales champion Pan Xiaochen and her veterinary boyfriend Wang Jun came to this time point of the seven-year itch.
Girlfriend carefully prepared for this seventh anniversary, the temptation of the teaching director's uniform, hip skirt , deep V shirt, metaphor of "Reproductive Health" on page 23 of the biology book, and a bathtub full of roses .
This ambiguous atmosphere is self-evident, and it belongs to the interests of adults.
, compared with his sexy and passionate girlfriend Pan Xiaochen, his boyfriend Wang Jun looked like a "die" who was forced and kidnapped throughout the whole process, and his desolate aura filled his whole body. I even need to hide in the bathroom and take a small blue pill to finish my "homework".
frankly, when I saw that scene in , I felt sorry for Wang Jun for a few seconds, and felt that he was shocked by Pan Xiaochen's strength; later I realized that in this relationship, Wang Jun has always been a "desergeant".
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This point has been revealed many years ago.
At the beginning, the two graduated from college and according to the normal plot, they should have entered the marriage hall naturally like most young men and women.
Perhaps because Pan Xiaochen is too strong, Wang Jun wanted to escape when he mentioned marriage, so he went to graduate school.
Of course, this is not a guess out of thin air, because until now, Pan Xiaochen is still very strong, even to the point where her colleagues can't stand it.
To a certain extent, Wang Jun does conform to the image of "a pity". Pan Xiaochen is the sales champion every year. He works every day and treats customers as excited as "bloody".
At the same time, she used this "bloody" method in life, motivating her boyfriend to be motivated and buy a house everywhere. Even in the small nest of two people, there was a small blackboard with the words "Make money to buy a house". The colleagues of
have all joked that it is difficult enough to be a colleague with someone like her. It is unimaginable that Wang Jun has lived with her for seven years.
Pan Xiaochen has a strong personality, a higher salary than Wang Jun, and a stronger career aspiration. He strictly controls his boyfriend Wang Jun like a director, which has become a huge invisible pressure in Wang Jun.
Of course, the reason why Pan Xiaochen became like this is actually Wang Jun's place -
At the beginning, Wang Jun wanted to study for a graduate school. In order to help Wang Jun complete his studies, Pan Xiaochen had to give up his corresponding job and instead sold insurance. Only then did Wang Jun successfully graduate and become a veterinarian.
After Wang Jun graduated from university, she immediately put the matter of buying a house and getting married on the agenda. Not only did she work hard, but she also forced Wang Jun to work hard.
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For a long time, Wang Jun has been using various reasons to escape home.
To be honest, as both men, I can understand Wang Jun’s inner aggrievances - I finally survived until graduate school, but my income was much less than my girlfriend.
It would be nothing if it was just like this, but Pan Xiaochen had a strong desire to control himself. Even Wang Jun's interest in food, clothing, housing and transportation, she had to hold all of Wang Jun's interests in life.
For Wang Jun, in addition to treating his pets at work, there is also a little happiness. As soon as he goes home and sees Pan Xiaochen, he will be surrounded by the pressure brought to him by Pan Xiaochen, and he will feel like he is about to suffocate.
When facing Pan Xiaochen, Wang Jun couldn't say anything tough. After all, everything he had now was earned by Pan Xiaochen for him.
So, he is particularly looking forward to working overtime every day. Even after get off work, he will have to Moji for a long time before he can go back.
Even after returning home, he kept playing games to avoid contact and communication with Pan Xiaochen. Even if he didn't play games, he would focus all his energy on taking care of the pet turtle. There was something wrong with the pet turtle. He was so nervous that he was so nervous that he never knew what his girlfriend liked.
It is true that modern people are under great pressure, and it is nothing to escape from one another occasionally, but doing this often makes this relationship basically no longer necessary.
obviously doesn't like it, but he never proposed to break up. It's not that Wang Jun loves Pan Xiaochen, but that Pan Xiaochen has paid too much for him over the years, and he himself feels a little uneasy.
It was obvious that he was not confident, but he pushed all the mistakes on the other party. Although Wang Jun didn't say it, deep in his heart, it may not be necessary that he had long regarded Pan Xiaochen as the root of all his misfortune.
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Of course, the most uncomfortable thing Wang Jun did is that he found someone to "green" himself.
Wang Jun wants to get rid of Pan Xiaochen's control and start a free life. However, when facing Pan Xiaochen, who is strong and dedicated to his family, he can't say anything about breaking up.
So, he found his friend Yang Wanqing to help him: let Yang Wanqing chase Pan Xiaochen. When Yang Wanqing succeeds, Pan Xiaochen will change his mind, and then Pan Xiaochen will propose to break up.
To be honest, because I don’t play games, I don’t quite understand Yang Wanqing’s choice. He originally didn’t want to get into this muddy water, but when Wang Jun promised to give him a game account with top-quality equipment after his work was done, he was immediately moved.
In order to match Yang Wanqing and Pan Xiaochen, Wang Jun took great pains to match -
That day, Pan Xiaochen and he agreed to have dinner together after get off work, but he actually found Yang Wanqing and created the opportunity for Yang Wanqing to meet Pan Xiaochen by chance. Not only that, he also told Yang Wanqing all his preferences, just to help Yang Wanqing win Pan Xiaochen's favor.
In order to get the game account and money, Yang Wanqing put the flowers that Pan Xiaochen likes in the gym where he works, and played the songs that Pan Xiaochen likes in a loop.
Of course, it also made a mistake later because of the "black towel" - Wang Jun thought Pan Xiaochen liked black towels, but he didn't know that Pan Xiaochen didn't like black towels at all, and she didn't like other black things.
As Yang Wanqing said, the reason why Pan Xiaochen likes black towels is just because it was given to her by Wang Jun. In her opinion, it is all witness to Wang Jun's love for her, and she must like it.
is just a pity. From beginning to end, Wang Jun did not realize this and regarded everything Pan Xiaochen gave him as a kind of burden.
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Of course, Pan Xiaochen also has a certain responsibility for this relationship, that is, she is too strong, but Wang Jun is a lying flat person. It may not be much at the beginning, but as time goes by, such personality differences have become a rift between the two.
But from another perspective, if Wang Jun could work harder, maybe Pan Xiaochen wouldn't need to be so strong.
There has never been an absolute standard answer to how to get along with a couple, but one thing is certain, that is, it is difficult to have an absolutely perfect couple getting along with a couple in the world.
As the older generation said, teeth and tongue are so loving, sometimes teeth will bite the tongue.
From the text on the Internet, seeing that Yang Wanqing and Pan Xiaochen are getting closer and closer, Wang Jun finally realized what he was about to lose and wanted to terminate the transaction with Yang Wanqing, but he didn't expect Yang Wanqing to say that he wanted to compete fairly with him.
Of course, Pan Xiaochen knew everything they did. The reason why she followed the flow was to see if Wang Jun had herself in his heart.
It is said that in the subsequent story, Pan Xiaochen accepted Wang Jun's apology and returned to Wang Jun's arms. However, such an ending does not seem to be what we want.
Although I am also a male and can understand Wang Jun's lack of confidence, I still want to say that Wang Jun is not worthy of Pan Xiaochen's deep affection for him. Even if he really doesn't love him, he should break up on his own initiative instead of using such a detrimental move.
To be honest, I don’t know what Pan Xiaochen fell in love with Wang Jun. He was deceived and teased by him like this, but he still never left him. Bi, being as outstanding as her should be worthy of better.
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