text/Wei Tingting
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Whether a woman loves someone is often expressed through her usual language and actions. She is unwilling to do something with you, and does not want to refuse intuitively, and is afraid of hurting the other person's self-esteem or affecting your relationship.
But most men mistakenly believe that women express rejection, rather than literally, and mistakenly think that women are acting spoiled.
Of course, women sometimes use slander to express their intentions when they act spoiled. At this time, what she expresses is the opposite of the literal meaning.
When men are in love, they are always in a more positive state. For men, it is their goal to achieve their wishes as soon as possible.
When women are in love, most women enjoy this process and do not like to overdo it to the next moment as soon as possible.
And men are doing many things to lay the groundwork for relationships.
women are extremely disgusted with this.
After all, for women, feelings become stronger and stronger after getting along with each other. The more I love you, the more I hope that after getting to know each other, I will give it to you wholeheartedly.
So, when a woman makes a request to develop further relationships, most women will refuse because she is not ready yet.
In order not to hurt each other's relationship, most of them will use the following information to hint you, don't be stupid and don't bother her when she doesn't want to.
1. When replying to you, use an unsure tone
When a woman is not ready to be with you, when you make that request, it is not easy for her to reject you directly. After all, she still has a little feeling about you, but she thinks that you have not reached that point.
At this moment, she may ask you, isn’t this good? Maybe I will refute you in an uncertain tone.
Don’t think that her tone is not firm. Not sure, it’s just shy and has the meaning of compromise. Most women are actually disgusted at this time and you have brought up close contact.
After all, when people are with people, they should understand and contact more. If you are really moved by you, you are willing to give yourself to you.
If you can't understand what she means and make some offensive actions, she may be disgusted with you, and even think that you are good to her just to get her and do not love her.
After such an experience, she will leave you, alienate you, and be unwilling to get close to you again.
At this moment, she judged that you have a bad character and is not worth dating, so she will no longer love you.
2. When you get close, she avoids
Between men and women, love begins with the moment of heartbeat.
But it is only a moment, and it is impossible to keep you highly excited all the time.
So, while contacting and understanding each other, you can always make the other party feel that you are not bad, and you are close to your ideal type.
And, you must not let women think that you were disguised before because of some mistakes, otherwise, when you approach her, she will avoid your touch.
This is a signal that a woman is disgusted with you and is unwilling to have close contact with you. Even if she doesn't say it out, she can be judged through these behaviors.
If she doesn't like you to get close to her, don't like being touched by you, and refuses to contact you, then she is telling you that I don't like you doing that, I'm angry, I reject your proposal, I don't like you very much, you are no longer a safe distance person in my heart.
And, I don’t want to develop a relationship with you, and you don’t need to get too entangled. I am willing to meet you and get to know each other. This does not mean that we can develop an intimate relationship.
So, at this time, a man must understand her hints and don’t wait for her to tell you directly, as it will be irreversible at that time.
3. Friends who don’t want to take you to see her
If you have been with a woman for a while, she still doesn’t want to take you to see her friends, which means that you have not yet reached the point where you can develop an intimate relationship.
At this time, you should not ask about intimate contact.
Women are generally more cautious than men when making friends because this society is not as tolerant to women as men.
For example, the rumors around you will make women feel uncomfortable. A man can take many women home, and relatives and friends won’t say anything. Even if he wants to say it, he still thinks that men are capable. At most, I think men are fickle.
But women are different. If a woman has brought multiple boyfriends back, the rumors outside will be enough to make women become the flowery woman they say, a shameless woman.
So, when a woman is unwilling to take you to see her relatives and friends, it means that you are not yet able to see your family in her heart.
At this time, you want to go further, not to develop a relationship with her, but to let her see your sincerity and let her feel that you are a reliable and worthy of trust.
so that she will be willing to hand over herself to you.
Tingting said:
Getting along with men and women is a process of getting to know each other. Women are naturally cautious, do things more delicately, and lack a sense of security.
When one thing is uncertain, I always think about protecting myself, so I will hesitate and even over-protect myself.
And women do this, which is also a way to be serious about their relationship. Sometimes they alienate each other by refusing to develop relationships. In this way, let each other calm down and think carefully about whether they are the ones they want to live their lives. The way of handling
is also a manifestation of serious and responsible relationships.
Men should understand women’s worries more at this time. After all, it may be difficult for a woman to get out of her life after she truly makes her comeback.
On the contrary, it is relatively easier for men, and the wounds of love will be difficult to heal in the rest of their lives.
So, if you love her, please give her some time. If you love her, you must understand these hints of her so that your relationship can be further improved.
