As the saying goes, you should not have the intention to harm others, and you should be careful of others. In the process of interpersonal communication, even if you need a little sincerity, if it is just false, you will not get a true relationship.
In fact, in today's society, everyone has their own little thoughts when dealing with interpersonal relationships, such as for the so-called interests, they choose to date someone.
In this process, everyone needs to see through one's sincerity and falsehood. After all, not everyone can treat others as well as you.
has a kind of harm, maybe not obvious, but it makes people unable to guard against it. Most of the people who come to harm you will have these jokes, and I don’t know.
01, always playing with you
is all friends, everyone plays together, it is harmless to make jokes, but some jokes are too much, just consuming this relationship.
In front of others, you are not that important in your heart, because true friends will not embarrass you.
Some familiar people can tell some jokes, but the most fundamental thing is that the two people have a certain trust relationship, and that the other party will not hurt themselves.
If you often open some jokes, you will overdraw your relationship.
Maybe everyone has heard of the story of beacons and fires playing with the princes . King You of Zhou lit the beacons several times for the beauty Bao Si, but when the real enemy army arrived, no one came to help him, and finally the country also went to destruction.
No matter in ancient times or in the present, you cannot overdraw the trust between friends at any time, otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will come to an end.
02, there are too many concerns about money.
people live in reality. Money is indeed very important, but it is not that important. The value of it lies in a person's inner measurement.
Everyone is more cautious about money. After all, it is a necessity for our survival. Who doesn’t want their own money bag to be bulging.
During the interaction process, you cannot go completely for the benefit, but any relationship has certain interests. At this time, you must pay attention to the boundaries of interaction.
When people speak and do things, they must be cautious about money, otherwise, if they touch other people's interests, they will cause unnecessary trouble to themselves.
There is actually no need to publicize your wealth. If someone happens to borrow money from you, you are unwilling to do so at this time. In fact, it is quite entangled and may even destroy a relationship.
03, always poke others' shortcomings
I have heard this saying, don't persuade others to be good without the suffering of others.
Surviving in this society, in fact, everyone has some difficult past events and some pain points in their hearts. At this time, don’t watch these jokes, otherwise it will be really hurt.
Everyone has some embarrassing things. If you expose other people's things because of some jokes, it will bring you some unnecessary hatred.
There is really no need to cause a lot of trouble to yourself when walking in this society. If you cannot learn to tolerate others, it will be difficult to go far.
See a person clearly and you will know things from a young age. Only by choosing to interact with the right person can you have more life experience.
author, Ran Xia Yingzi, a freelance writer, focusing on self-media operations, writing and live broadcast business. Welcome to follow and consult.
