81-year-old father-in-law, who was sick at the age of 81, made me feel disgusted and collapsed. The words of the 6-year-old grandson made me feel ashamed of
I am Aunt Ju, I am 58 years old this year. I was born in the countryside, with an older brother above and a younger brother below.
When I was 23 years old, I married my husband. My husband lived in a small town. At that time, my family was still well off. When I was 24 years old, I gave birth to my son, and my husband and I only had one son.
My son is 36 years old this year and has his own son, and my grandson is 6 years old. Now my mother-in-law and my husband have both died of illness, and my son and daughter-in-law have all gone to work in the city, and there are only three people left at home, including me, my father-in-law and my grandson.
My father-in-law is 81 years old and suffers from Alzheimer's disease. He has severe cerebellar atrophy and is extremely poor. His hands and feet are not coordinated. He often shakes unconsciously. He has difficulty walking and cannot hold things firmly.
often falls inadvertently and breaks things, and has a poor memory.
At noon on the weekend, I cooked a bowl of noodles for my father-in-law. After I brought it to him, I went back to the kitchen and started to make lunch with my grandson and I.
I heated the pan and heated the oil. When I was about to cook, a "bang" came from my father-in-law's room. I knew that he had smashed the bowl again.
I was so angry that I rushed over and scolded him. Every time I was busy, I caused trouble for me.
My father-in-law has been ill for more than a year. This kind of broken bowl happens every day, which makes me very impatient and very collapsed. I dislike him very much.
Seeing that I was cursing to my father-in-law, my grandson ran over and said to me, "Grandma, don't scold my great-grandfather, he didn't mean it."
I became even more angry when I heard this. Even my grandson scolded him and asked him to play with him, don't cause trouble for me. I smashed a bowl every day, and it also cost money to buy it.
When the grandson heard this, he ran away angrily.
When I was about to go to see my grandson for lunch, I searched for him and couldn't find him. When I came back, I found that he was helping his great-grandfather clean the rotten bowls and noodles in the ground.
When my grandson saw me coming, he said to me, "Grandma, I just arrived on the street and bought two iron bowls with my New Year's money. In the future, great-grandfather will not break the bowls and will not make you angry."
I was about to praise my grandson's intelligence, but before I could say anything, he then took an iron bowl and handed it to me.
and said to me, "Grandma, I bought you an iron bowl by the way. This is for you. Grandpa, one for you."
I said I'm fine, but I won't break the bowl, why am I using the iron bowl?
The grandson's eyes suddenly filled with tears, and he said with a sob: "Grandma, you will get old too. When you get old, your hands and feet will be unsuccessful, and it will be time to break the bowl.
So, I bought one for you, so that I can't wait for you to get old. My parents will also dislike you, just like you dislike my great-grandfather now..."
I was stunned when I heard this. I really didn't expect that my 6-year-old grandson would say such a thing.
I feel that my grandson, although he is only 6 years old, is more sensible than me. It really makes me feel ashamed. I will never dare to dislike my father-in-law again.
@Muziyan Story : Aunt Ju, your grandson is so smart! He is indeed more sensible than you. You have to take care of your grandchildren and the elderly, and you have to work hard for you.
In fact, parents and elders are role models for children. He sees everything you treat the elderly.
has something to say: The old man’s today is your tomorrow. How do you treat the elderly now? When you get old, your children will treat you. Good wishes!
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