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Introduction:
A 49-year-old man said, "When I was dancing, I met a single woman of the same age. She lived by herself after her divorce. We danced as dance partners and had a good relationship. But later she asked me to lend me 60,000 yuan to buy a car for her child. I refused at that time, but not long after, she confessed to me. I really don't understand why she confessed to me, which made me confused, but it was impossible to treat me as an ATM." What kind of thing is it? Let’s take a look at Mr. Wang’s story together.
Self-reporter: Mr. Wang 49 years old
I am 49 years old this year. I run a hotel myself and my business is still very good. I now have 3 restaurants, all of which I own. I am quite successful in my career, but I failed in my marriage and relationship. My wife divorced me and also distributed my 400,000 yuan property, which still hit me a big heart.
I am a very honest man. Although I am honest, I still can't keep my wife's heart. I don't look good, but I'm just black and ugly. So I was in my 30s when I got married, and many women were unwilling to marry me. My wife decided to marry me after seeing me open a restaurant and earn money, but her life after marriage was a mess.
Although my wife and I are husband and wife, we live their own lives. She doesn’t want to sleep in the same bed with me, and she doesn’t want to be with me when she goes out to eat. The relationship between us is actually very ordinary. She often makes a big fuss with me over trivial matters, but every time I buy her a gift to calm the conflict.
Later, she might have lived with me enough, so she proposed to divorce me. In fact, I knew that she should have found a good family. She felt that I couldn't get it out and was not a good match with me, so she proposed to divorce and divided half of my property. I actually didn't want to divorce, but seeing that she was so firm in her attitude, I didn't need to keep it.
Later, I began to focus on business, and my restaurant made more and more money. I hired the store manager to help me manage the hotel business, and I took time to dance or play cards to cultivate my sentiment. Because I was so tired of doing business, I needed exercise. When I was dancing, I met a female dance partner, who was the same age as me, looked pretty and had very white skin. She looked like a woman in her 30s and had a very good temperament.
We are dance partners. She dances better than me. I often ask her for advice, and she is happy to teach me, so I made rapid progress and we gradually became good friends. As long as the weather doesn't rain, we will go out to dance together. Friends who don't know think we are a couple when we dance together. After several embarrassing things, we feel embarrassed.
Later, she started crying with me. She said that she was incompetent after the divorce. Her son found a girlfriend and despised her son for not having a car. After the divorce, her ex-husband didn't care. So she proposed to lend me 60,000 yuan to buy a car for her son. Although I saw her crying sadly, I didn't lend her money. I said, "It's okay to ask your son to buy the car. It's a material woman. It's better to separate earlier, so that there will be many conflicts in the future." So I refused to lend her money.
But not long after, she proposed to go to my house for dinner, and she also cooked a table of dishes herself. Only two of us could eat, and she couldn't finish it. While eating, she confessed to me. She said, "Brother, we are the same age and are both single. We have a good relationship with each other and we all know each other. We also need to have a companionship with each other and take good care of each other in life. You see, I am not bad, or we can live together. I will live in your house tonight."
I was actually quite shocked. Although I had a good relationship with her, I didn't mean to marry her. I also politely rejected her confession at that time. She asked me to think about it carefully. I really thought about it carefully. I think she might be with me for my money. I don't look outstanding, and many women avoid me. Why don't she mind marrying me? The more I think about it, the more wrong I get, I rarely contact her. In the end, I don't go to dance.
I don't even look down on any of those women who have the idea of making a fortune. What I want to find is a woman who really lives with me and wants to play with me. Eyes, I will not be cheated, don’t even want to take away my money, there is no way.
Today’s topic:
In my opinion, the woman may not have so many other ideas. You can learn about each other and get along with each other. If you have the same values and are a virtuous woman, it may be a good thing. You can’t take everything so stingy. Open your mind and you may usher in your own happiness.
Do you think Mr. Wang should lend her money? Should Mr. Wang agree to her confession? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section below to discuss.
