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How difficult is it to be a second marriage? Let’s take a look at the real second marriage life of these two ladies. I guess you don’t want to divorce after reading it. .
The first Ms. Liu:
My husband and I are a second marriage and reorganized family.
He has a son and I have a daughter. It’s between me and my second-married husband. Because I am older and I are not in good health, I don’t have any more children after marriage.
A few days ago, my husband and I had a fight. His 15-year-old son actually rushed up and wanted to hit me.
And in order to protect my mother, my daughter pushed his son. From then on, my husband has been glaring at my daughter with a beard. One hundred dissatisfactions.
Before junior high school, my daughter had been living with her grandparents. My husband and his son have always gotten along very well.
My daughter is in junior high school and needs to go to her household registration location, and her parents are also older. I took her back.
My second-married husband was not happy and said that the family can barely live in three people with two bedrooms and one living room.
After my daughter came back, she set up a small bed in the living room.
It is said that the house belongs to our family. But I treated my husband's son as my own son, so I didn't want my son to give up the room, and I felt wronged with my daughter.
Everyone feels it is inconvenient to live in. My second-married husband's attitude towards my daughter is getting worse and worse. The daughter became depressed.
There are more and more quarrels between us. Most of the causes are because of my daughter. I can only intervene in the middle to mediate and comfort me, hoping that my husband can tolerate it.
I told him that the child will live on campus when he starts school. Then you will be out of sight and you will be upset. There is no need to look at the child all day long.
Unexpectedly, my second-married husband gradually became more and more angry and never told me anything he did. During this quarrel, his son actually had to do something.
I really don’t know what to do with such a marriage. If my daughter’s father is, I will never let the child suffer such grievances.
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The second Ms. Li:
I am 32 years old this year, and my daughter returns to her ex-husband after the divorce.
Two years after divorce, I met my current second-married husband. He was also divorced and brought an eight-year-old boy, but he was considerate to me. I went to pick me up from get off work regardless of wind and rain.
After spending a year together. I feel that having a man who loves me is better than anything else. He also thought we were quite suitable, and both wanted to get married, so he got married.
I didn’t expect that the nightmare would begin after marriage. He actually planned every day, beware of me.
Two people often quarrel over money, and he didn't even allow me to see my daughter, for fear that I would spend his money on my daughter.
Once, I brought my daughter over the weekend. His son wanted to eat hamburgers. He ordered hamburgers, but his son actually ate a chicken leg burger worth 47 yuan, and my daughter ate a chicken leg burger worth 38 yuan.
I felt very uncomfortable. The two of them had a big fight over this matter and ignored each other even more.
His son often wants to find his mother, so whenever he has time, the family of three will go out to play, and sometimes he won’t come back.
I now feel that my life is particularly complicated. It seems that I have a home, but it doesn’t seem like home.
I can’t feel love at all in this family, and my second-married husband has no sense of responsibility to me. I never thought that we were a family. He won't let his daughter see him. I also want to serve them as a cow and a horse.
When I miss my daughter, I will compare my second-married husband with my ex-husband. Suddenly I feel that I can reach a lot of consensus with my ex-husband in the past. It seems not to be at the point where it must be separated.
If I do it again, I will definitely not divorce.
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In fact, whether it is first marriage or second marriage, you need to operate it.
I hope that those men and women who want to divorce must not think that divorce can solve the problem. Especially those with children, don’t divorce easily. Marriage is not easy and cherish it!
What do you think is the difference between first marriage and second marriage? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area! I am Liuyue, follow me to learn more about emotional life!
