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Love is unknown, and love is deep.
We don’t know when we will fall in love with someone, and we are not sure how long we can fall in love with each other, but the process of love is real, and those feelings and memories are also real.
However, such a relationship may not be able to end. If you find someone saying that he loves you but never asked you some questions, then you need to doubt whether this love is true love.
Because of loving someone, he will think about being with the other person for a long time. If he only cares about the present, it means that he may just be playing around.
Especially the following two questions. If a man has never asked you, it means that he may not be sincere to you. After seeing through it, don’t give stupidly.
1: I have never asked your opinion on marriage
Love can be simple, but marriage is complex, because marriage is not a relationship with only two people, but a relationship with two families.
Marriage not only means that you become someone’s husband or wife, but also means that you become someone’s daughter-in-law or son-in-law, and in the future, you will also become a father or mother.
It can be said that marriage is just a ritual. What is really important is the various new roles that marriage gives you after the ceremony is completed. One role is a relationship, and all of these relationships need to be managed and maintained with care.
So people who are truly visionary and who truly understand how to be responsible for marriage and are also responsible for themselves will definitely ask the other party about their views on marriage before this.
Only in this way can we determine whether the other party is the one who is suitable to marry you and live your life from now on.
If a man says he loves you but never cares about these things, it means he may not necessarily want to marry you.
Maybe he thinks you are not the right person for him, but he can't find a better one for the time being, so he just makes do with it. So he will not ask you when you plan to get married, whether you have ever thought about marrying him, nor will he ask you how you will deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, whether you will have children, when will you have children, etc.
In fact, sometimes, if a person does not love you, it will be very obvious, but you don’t dare to face it yourself and dare not admit it.
2: I have never asked you about your specific plan for life
If a man has a true love for you, he will inevitably think about spending the rest of his life with you. At this time, one of the questions he has to care about and care about is what kind of plan do you have for the future.
For example, when will you decide to get married and have children, or do you plan to get married and have children; for example, what plans and arrangements do you have for your career; for example, if you get married in the future, how will you balance your family and career...
These are all plans related to the future of two people. If a man doesn't care or care, it only means that he has not considered that long-term, or that he has not thought about going so far with you.
In the TV series " Thirty Only ", Liang Zhengxian never cared about the future of Wang Manni , because he never thought of having any future with her from the beginning.
Liang Zhengxian is a non-marriager. He doesn't want to be bound by a certain relationship. He just wants to live freely, so he has been in love with his girlfriend for many years but has never gotten married.
Not only that, he also had improper contacts with different women during his relationship. Almost every time he went to a place, there would be such a woman, and Wang Manni was one of them.
A man doesn’t want to have a future with you, so he will naturally not care about your plans for the future.
He may love you, but this kind of love must be selfish, and selfish love is not true love, so after all, he still doesn't love you.
Since there was no ending from the beginning, why not let go like Wang Manni, after seeing through it? The more you get entangled, the deeper you get, the deeper you get.
Those who truly love you will give you a visible future and plan you into their life. He will ask you what you think about marriage and what you plan for the future, because it will affect whether you will be the same in the future.
If he hasn't asked you and never cared about it, then you might as well think about it carefully whether he really loves you.
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