My name is Li Fang, I am from Guangxi, my husband is from from Sichuan, and my husband and I are in a free relationship.
Because of marrying far away, my parents strongly opposed us being together, but I am a stubborn person. I always thought that as long as I had love, there would always be bread. I was still with my husband despite my family's opposition and gave birth to a son for him.
My mother-in-law has a son and a daughter. My husband is the eldest and his sister is married in Sichuan. My sister-in-law and I were pregnant at the same time. The expected dates of the two were a month apart. At that time, my mother-in-law wanted to take care of her daughter when she was taken care of me after the confinement period, and I happily agreed.
Who knew that I had just been admitted to the hospital with a stomachache, and the guy in my sister-in-law's belly came out in advance. When my mother-in-law learned that her daughter was going to give birth, she immediately told my husband to come back from the construction site to take care of me, and she went to take care of her daughter overnight.
The next day I gave birth to a son. My mother-in-law called to greet me and told me that my sister-in-law had a cesarean section overnight and she also gave birth to a son. My mother-in-law said: My daughter has no mother-in-law, and the child is born prematurely. Her husband can’t ask for leave. I have to take care of her. I ask my son to take leave to take care of you.
My husband is a construction site contractor and was very busy during that time. After all, he had a quarrel with his parents' home, so it was impossible for his mother to take care of me. My mother-in-law arranged for my husband to take care of me, and my husband was very angry and spent money to let me live in the confinement center. He said: Since you chose me, I can't be wronged. Since my mother doesn't want to take care of you, I will spend money to serve you.
Later, my mother-in-law stomach disease hospitalized and needed someone to take care of her. She didn't dare to call me. My sister-in-law called: Sister-in-law, my mother is sick and hospitalized. I can't take the child away. Can you take care of her? Your mother has no need to take care of you for giving birth. I know you hold a grudge, but I really can't go, even if I beg you!
I said angrily: My child is also young, and I can’t get away if anyone helps me take care of it.
My sister-in-law hung up the phone angrily. In the evening, my husband came back and said to me: My mother has no need to take care of you during confinement, so she doesn’t know how to ask you to take care of you. I have hired a nurse to take care of her. After all, I am a son and I have to be filial, but I can’t let you down!
I know my husband is in a dilemma. Although I feel sorry for his money, I would rather let him open money to hire someone than take care of my mother-in-law. If I go to take care of my mother-in-law, it means that I can be under the command of my sister-in-law and will be even more angry in the future.
If the mother-in-law doesn’t take care of you during confinement, will you take care of her when she is old? Everyone is welcome to leave a message!
