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One person loves or does not love another person, which is actually as obvious as black and white.
When you love you, you will feel sorry for you, care about you, tolerate you and respect you. If you don’t love you anymore, you will treat you as transparent, and you will not care about it at all, and choose to ignore it directly.
If you have loved it unforgettably, once this love disappears, how can you not understand it?
is the same for men. If they really change their minds, several changes will be extremely obvious. Although he didn't say it directly, every performance of his words implies you: I don't love you anymore, and I've even fallen in love with others.
Women know it later and make plans early.
1: I started to be perfunctory to you, and became less and less patient
When we were deeply in love with each other, even if you put on an extra punctuation, even if you inadvertently say a wrong sentence, even if you make a micro-expression that you don’t realize, he will guess a lot and interpret it for a long time.
Because he loves you and cares about you, he will not only not perfunctory you, but will also take you extremely seriously, for fear that you will feel a little unhappy.
But later, this love fades or disappears, and he will start to treat you perfunctorily.
You take the initiative to send a message, but it responds very slowly, or it doesn’t reply at all. If you continue to ask, he will become impatient, and sometimes he will say directly:
"Are you annoyed? Are you finished? Can't I have some space for myself?"
If you get angry and continue to make a big fuss and ask him if he doesn't love you anymore, he will say irresponsibly:
"You can do whatever you want, I can't do it if you have to think so."
In fact, this kind of perfunctory and coldness means not loving you anymore. If you have seen him love you, you will know how much he cares about you and how patient he is. If you don't love, nothing will exist.
2: It is easy to become irritable, lose your temper at any time, and your tolerance towards you is zero
If you love someone, you will choose to be tolerant, because you know that everyone is unique. She has her own temper and personality, and has her own persistence and pursuit. It is because of this that you will be attracted to her and fall in love with her.
So even if there are frequent conflicts and differences between you, you will be as tolerant as possible and give in to her. This is proof of your love for her.
However, if this love disappears, tolerance will no longer exist.
So you will find that a person used to be very gentle to you, but later he gradually becomes very irritable. He is becoming less and less patient with you, no longer tolerate you, he always loses his temper at all, and he doesn't care about you at all.
This means that his feelings for you have changed, love has disappeared, and tolerance and tolerance have naturally disappeared. If you love you, you will care about you. If you don’t love you, you can’t even pretend.
3: There are more and more secrets, I am guarding against you everywhere, no longer caring about you
Many times, a relationship becomes worse or deteriorates, but in fact it starts with no longer having a heart-to-heart talk.
When the other party is in front of you, there are more and more secrets and less frankness, it means that in his heart, you may no longer be the most important and trustworthy person.
The same is true when a man changes his mind.
In the past, he had no secrets in front of you, nor had any concealment, so you can watch his phone casually. He has a clear conscience and no worries. But later, he locked his phone and didn't know what the password was, and he wouldn't take the initiative to show it to you.
At this time, you should know that perhaps something between you is changing quietly.
When he starts to beware of you, when he no longer cares about you, it means that he has changed his mind. His feelings and focus may have shifted, so you need to prepare early.
Flowers bloom and fall, many things in life cannot be forced. All we can do is cherish the fate when it comes, and give up decisively when the fate is over.
Don't waste too much time, energy and emotions on someone who doesn't love you, it's meaningless.
Faced with a wrong person, someone who no longer loves you, say goodbye bravely and let go decisively, and you will meet a better person and a more beautiful love.
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