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Born as a human being, no one is an isolated island. As long as you survive in this society, you will inevitably have to deal with others. It is very important to have high emotional intelligence at this time.
People with high emotional intelligence are often more at ease in various complex interpersonal relationships than people with low emotional intelligence.
They know what to say on what occasions, what things can be done, and what things must not be done. Not only do they have a good reputation, they can also be more easily convinced, and will be of great help in their careers, so that they can go smoothly.
In the process of interacting with people, they know how to think about others and know that there is the most basic sense of proportion and boundary between people, so they have always done something and not done anything.
People with real high emotional intelligence generally do not visit the following three types of people's homes, while people with low emotional intelligence often go.
I hope you are in the ranks of high emotional intelligence and don’t step on these interpersonal pitfalls.
1: If you don’t want to visit your confidant’s home, you will easily be misunderstood
Confidant is hard to come by and is an extremely important part of our lives. If you can get a confidant in your life, it is a great luck.
But if you are in love or have already started a family, then don’t go to the family of a confidante or a confidante easily, especially when the other party is not single. If you get along alone without any scruples, even if you are pure, you will be misunderstood. This has an impact on the reputation of both parties.
People with truly high emotional intelligence will not do such a sense of indecision.
Because he knows to think about himself and the other party, you are just pure friendship, and both sides have families. What's the matter? You have to say it at home?
maintains the most basic sense of distance between each other and is the best protection for this friendship.
2: I will not visit my home with patients or children at home, so as not to cause trouble for people
People with high emotional intelligence will not only think about themselves when doing things, but about the other person.
In fact, it is easy for us to consider problems from our own perspective, only care about our own needs, and ignore the other person's feelings. For example, if you want to visit someone's house or visit him, you are kind-hearted, but you have never thought about whether this kind-hearted intention is what the other party wants, and whether it is possible that it will cause trouble for the other party.
If so, then you are doing something bad with good intentions.
If a person has a patient or a child at home, if you don’t say hello and go to visit him, it will only cause trouble for others. Because they don’t have so much energy to receive you, but they are afraid of disrespecting you, so they will feel embarrassed.
If you are neglected, you may think too much; if they do not entertain you well, they will inevitably feel embarrassed.
This is a trouble for both parties.
It is better to think more about others, don’t go to other people’s houses to disturb him easily and cause trouble for him in vain. There are many ways to express concern, and it may not be the only way to visit.
3: You can't visit relatives who are snobs. There is no need to maintain this superficial relationship
If a relative is snobs, you still have to work hard to maintain your relationship even though you know this, that is, you are troublesome and too confused.
For such relatives, keeping a distance is a wise choice.
You may say that you cannot ignore these relationships. After all, you will see each other without looking up in the future. It will be good for anyone to have a quarrel.So in order to maintain superficial harmony, you visit each other's house from time to time, trying to enhance feelings and ease relationships, but do you know what others will think of you?
is very likely. They will look down on you more and get tired of you more because your hypocrisy is meaningless and will only add burden to others.
People with high emotional intelligence will not do face-saving work to maintain superficial relationships. They will only be sincere when they can get along with each other and will decisively keep a distance when they cannot get along with each other. This will be good for each other.
In dealing with people, people with high emotional intelligence and low emotional intelligence are often two different existences, and naturally they also have different popularity and live different lives.
Emotional intelligence is not born, but acquired. Sometimes, if you think more about others and be less selfish, it will be more attractive in the eyes of others.
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