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people are difficult to cherish when they have not completely lost a person or something, because they are used to it and will subconsciously believe that the other party will never leave him, so they will hurt them unscrupulously and pour out all the weaknesses in their human nature.
It was not until one day that the other party's patience reached the limit and he directly chose to leave, that he would be completely dumbfounded and suddenly realize: No one has always been spoiled by himself, and it turned out that he was nothing great.
At that moment, regret gradually came and felt unrest.
It’s a pity that everything is too late. This is his retribution and the cruelest punishment God gave him.
This is true for Old Chen. He filed for divorce with his ex-wife at the age of fifty, and he thought that the second spring of his life had come. But who knew that the young girl outside of marriage was just for his money and had no intention of marrying him.
So when he saw that he was serious, he immediately ran away with the money.
At that moment, Lao Chen was completely confused. For her, she abandoned her wife who had been with her for many years, and she did not hesitate to turn against her children, but she just played with herself?
But now that's it, there's nothing I can do, I can only admit that who makes me so easy to be deceived at such a young age?
It’s just that Lao Chen didn’t expect that divorce was the beginning of his miserable life. It was only after the divorce that he realized that in the second half of a man’s life, the real fight for his wife.
If you don’t know how to cherish it, you will be destined to regret it.
1: If you don’t take your wife’s efforts seriously, you will be rewarded sooner or later
Lao Chen is a typical machismo and has never had the respect she deserves to be with women, especially for his wife. In his usual perception, there is no difference between marrying a wife and a free nanny. She never expects her to make any money. She just needs to be able to manage her family well.
So over the years, my wife worked hard, took care of her parents-in-law, raised her children, and took care of all the housework alone, taking care of her family inside and out in an orderly manner.
And Lao Chen is only responsible for making money and doesn't care about anything.
Over the years, he has been on business trips and often worked overtime. When his child was young, he could not see him for a long time. But no matter how late, his wife would wait for him to come home, cook a bowl of noodles for him, or cook sober soup for him when he was drunk.
Not only that, his wife knew that he had stomach problems , so she also put stomach medicine in his bag regularly and urged him to take it on time.
But he didn't take all of these seriously, but he just thought that this was what she should do as a wife. Even when she reminded herself to take medicine, she felt that she was very long-winded and would be violent to her if she didn't agree...
Now, now, after divorce, no one cares about herself, no one cooks for herself anymore, and she is waiting for herself to go home no matter how late she is. Old Chen is still in business, still returning late, and still drunk, but after returning home, he feels empty and uncomfortable.
It turns out that he misses his wife. It turns out that it really won’t work if he leaves her.
2: It turns out that in the second half of my life, the real fight is my wife
In the past, many people envied Lao Chen.
Everyone always thinks that his wife is very virtuous, and Old Chen has no worries about working outside. When I got home, I had food, so I lay down after I finished eating, and I didn’t have to do anything. When I got up and went to work the next day, the breakfast was already done, and even the clothes and shoes were arranged.
When friends or colleagues come to visit their homes, they always praise Lao Chen’s wife, saying that she not only cooks good food, but also sets the house warmly and cleans it spotlessly.
Everyone says that Lao Chen has such a wife, which is a blessing he has cultivated in his previous life.
It can be said that in everyone's eyes, Lao Chen is a person who fell into a honey pot, and only he himself cannot feel this sweetness.
So after the divorce, he ate takeout for a week. The garbage in his house was piled up, and he often went to bed late and got up late, which led to late arrival at work. He was unable to eat breakfast on time and suffered a stomach disease. He was directly admitted to the hospital... When these retributions such as
came one after another, he completely realized: it turned out that what really supported the whole family and really made him go so smoothly over the years was not himself, but his ex-wife.
Understand that when he came over, Lao Chen cried bitterly. His home was really gone. The person who had always loved him really left. He was estranged from his children day after day. His parents also moved back to their hometown because of their heartache and were unwilling to contact him again.
He has been riddled with holes in his life, so who can we blame?
I just hope we can learn from it, manage our marriage and family well, and cherish our partner, otherwise it will be meaningless if we really lose it, and it will be meaningless to regret it any more.
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