Yesterday a girl sent me a private message and said:
"Recently, she finally added the WeChat of a boy she liked through a friend, but found that his circle of friends was set to be visible for only three days.
is a thin horizontal line, and she can't find any clues, and she doesn't even know how to find the topic."
made the girl feel very sad. She said she subconsciously felt that it was impossible for her to get along with him.
I believe that many people have the same idea when encountering this situation. Because of this small action, you will feel that there are thousands of mountains between you and him.
But if you think about it carefully, maybe for some people, the circle of friends is an important bond to maintain feelings.
But for some people, Moments is just an additional feature of social software.
We are always used to turning the circle of friends of the person we care about and trying hard to understand the other person’s past life trajectory.
If you want to know the other person’s preferences and whether you will be like your own interests, you will decide whether to get along further.
However, this feeling of being somewhat peeked at privacy has also made more and more people set their circle of friends to "visible in three days".
From a certain level, the circle of friends can be seen in three days more or less satisfying some of the sense of security of contemporary young people.
Perhaps, the other party doesn’t want you to know very much that your life is actually boring;
or perhaps, the other party just wants to live quietly in a small unknown planet.
"Always be happy before others, always be lonely after others."
This seems to be the biggest feeling brought to me by life as an adult.
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Previously Moments
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Now Moments
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People are emotional animals. Funny people will have moments of unscrupulousness, and calm and introverts will also have moments of unscrupulousness.
For a real person, his circle of friends should not only be poetry and distant.
will still have misfortune, some will be unbearable, and some will be incompetent. But after a certain moment, when the tide of emotions fades, there are some things I don’t want to look back on. I feel embarrassed to put
there, but I feel reluctant to leave it when I delete it.
Whether you have watched or participated.
is all the memories of my fresh life, but I don’t want to put it in front of everyone forever, and I prefer to leave it alone when I am alone.
The sadness that no one was around, the toss and turns that could not be insomnia in the middle of the night, the unhappy emotions that wanted to express them were all locked up by us.
none of us want to show others the fragility we have before.
After all, the joys and sorrows of people are not in common.
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Previously Moments
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Now Moments
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"The sign of a person's maturity is the loss of desire to talk."
About everyone has experienced this stage more or less.
What fun and funny things you see? Post it on Moments, I can’t wait to hope someone comments and likes them;
What unhappy and boring things you encounter? Post it on Moments, I am extremely eager for someone to listen and comfort me.
However, you will never know what you have done or which circle of friends you have posted, which will step on others' pain points and be bored by others.
Your happiness may be the source of other people's worries, and your sadness may also be the jokes of others.
What you feel in exchange for is contempt and contempt.
So later, I became less and less willing to express it.
After all, you have to consider the words when posting on your Moments, spend time editing pictures, and consider how others feel when reading. This is too tiring.
no longer wants to share what you like with people who don’t understand it. Only I know the photos and status of
before.
Live your own little life well, even in the eyes of others, my circle of friends is a horizontal line.
In the past, we always wanted others to understand ourselves, but now we just hope that we can protect ourselves.
, which can be seen in three days, is not only the social circle, but also the inner monologue.
