Recently, a woman always posts her husband’s fault on her Moments, complaining about the other person every day, always saying that this is not good, that is not good
Regarding this, I want to say:
No one can enjoy the fruits of marriage. If you want a good husband and a good wife, you must first become a good wife and a good husband. If the other person’s little depression, you will look down on the other person. No matter what the other person does, you will be disliked. You will compare your lover with other people’s lovers.
Then I have a problem. You look down on the other person so much. Why did you choose the other person? Maybe you would say that it was not like this at the beginning. The other person was so good at the beginning, but it gradually changed later. Do you scold him if he changed a little bit? Can you eliminate him? People are emotional, nothing is unchanged. His little change, maybe he is suppressed for the hard work of this family, and his little failure may require you to respect him. You can show your understanding of your lover in front of the other person. Let the other party feel the love and tolerance of a husband or wife instead of scolding each other all day long, and gradually get farther and farther away from the other party, find other opposite sex to talk, find other opposite sex to chat ambiguously, and find other opposite sex to drink. Do you think other people understand you? In fact, other men just use your thoughts to play with their feelings
At the beginning, maybe because you came back late after drinking, you would call you and videotape with you (this is the most common thing that is said to be checking the post. Usually women will think that they have no freedom and no space for themselves) will ask where you are. And you just paranoidly think that there is no freedom.
If one day he is not asking where you are, and who you are with, he will not ask what you are doing. At this time, maybe he knew that there was someone outside you and didn't care about everything you did outside. Then congratulations, you have successfully lost the person you think you hate.
The relationship and marriage between you are no longer regained, and the ending is only one, and it won’t take long to get a divorce.
You look down on the person you have loved and always tell in front of other opposite sex that this is the fatal stupidity of a person. Do you think other opposite sex really cares about you, but cares about you? In fact, they just want to play, because everything about you, the rest of your life, has nothing to do with him. One day I will push myself into the abyss and into a terrible look.
One day, you will be with the so-called soulmates outside, the people who understand you. Are they gradually becoming more and more disgusted with you and more and more avoiding you? Stay away from you?
Save some fun, don’t look at the mountain high, do you think other opposite sex understands you and admires you. You think others like to live happily with you, and you show off your dates, eat, drink, sing and have supper with countless opposite sexes. You feel very proud. How superior. In fact, in the hearts of others and in the eyes of others, you are no longer the one who can share the joys and sorrows with your lover. In the eyes of others. It's just stimulation, just toys, or even cheap (think how many people divorce their lovers, others will divorce and choose to form a family with you? Too few. They just want to be fresh and exciting). The problem of people nowadays is chatting on social software, thinking that others understand themselves, but they are wrong. You tell your other half is not. The other party has been thinking about how to deal with the troubles you mentioned several times. Even if the other party has the shortcomings you mentioned, it will be blinded and unable to touch the problems you mentioned that cause misfortune in marriage.
