The candy in my hand was delicious when I suddenly reached out and licked it a few times. What do you think? I guess I will throw it away and stop eating it.
This is the feeling that marriage cheating gives people, and it is also the unacceptable reason.
The harm of marriage cheating is much greater than this. If the candy in your hand is eaten, it will be thrown away at most. However, the marriage cannot be so straightforward for various reasons. But the harm of cheating is fatal. If you encounter cheating unfortunately in a marriage, whether you divorce or not, remember to get these two things back.
1. Get back the dignity
A partner cheating is actually trampling on your dignity and despising your self-esteem.
One person’s respect for another is to make him comfortable. The respect between husband and wife in marriage is to abide by the rules and fulfill responsibilities.
The warmth of marriage is that I understand you, the love of marriage is that you are the only one in your eyes. If all this disappears and is given to another irrelevant person, the nature of marriage has changed.
Once a marriage cheats, everything in the past will be subverted, and the cheating person will become cruel, ruthless, and his selfish nature will be fully revealed. A cheating person has no partner in his eyes, nor does he respect his partner. The existence of a partner is a burden to him, and he just wants to get rid of this burden.
When one person has no other person in his eyes, how can he respect him? He hates him less and avoids him. In reality, the first harm a cheating person causes to his partner is to despise him, do whatever he wants, and never take care of anyone else.
So, once the marriage cheats, the injured person must not think that a low attitude can be exchanged for his warmth, and do not think that being generous can keep his footsteps.
For a cheating person, he will not care about any behavior of his partner. He will only be indifferent in marriage, but want to keep the deep affection outside.
A person is hurting you, but you are still thinking about him turning back. Are you too stupid? People's hearts are easy to change, and the person who has changed his mind is no longer the same person as before.
So, if your marriage cheats and your partner cheats, don’t try to make any struggles. It’s better to take back your dignity first, don’t beg, and don’t do anything that hurts you.
In this world, people must respect themselves and respect them. The more others disrespect you, the more you must respect yourself.
2. Getting back love
People are emotional creatures. The two people may not get married because of love, but after spending time together, many kinds of feelings will arise, such as family affection, husband and wife's companionship, and other kinds of emotions that cannot be expressed in words.
The simplest sentence is, no matter if there is no real relationship between husband and wife, because of the privacy, exclusiveness and absoluteness of the marriage, it is still unacceptable when an extra third party appears.
is like a toy. Even if I don’t like to play, I’m not happy to let others play with it, because this thing belongs to me and only me.
Of course, many couples still have feelings. Because of their feelings, their partner's cheating is fatal. Many people become haggard due to changes in their marriage, and have a state of self-denial and self-doubt.
It is not scary to have a cheating marriage. What is scary is that the injured person can't get out and is still struggling and waiting.
If a partner cheats, he doesn’t love him anymore. It is very hard to love someone who doesn’t love you. Therefore, when a person no longer loves you, you can be sad, but you must take back the heart that loves him, love yourself well, and love someone worthy of love.
Love and dignity are actually two sisters. Only with love can there be dignity, and only with dignity can there be love. On the contrary, there will be nothing.
So, if your marriage cheats, remember to take back your dignity, take back your heart of loving others, love yourself well, and respect yourself well.
ending
Marriage cheating is something that many people are unwilling to face, but when the facts have already happened, they have to face it even if they don’t face it. Facing is not to give up on yourself, but to awaken yourself, awaken your independent self, take back your dignity, take back your love partner's heart, and treat yourself well from now on.
