are actually some people who have been eliminated in the marriage market. These people are helpless and passively single.
Sometimes the requirements for choosing a partner are too high, which leads to singleness.
But the high conditions for choosing a partner do you mean that you have an incorrect understanding of yourself and overestimate your popularity in the marriage and love market. For example, if you don’t have a correct understanding of your appearance, money-making ability, and whether you can provide emotional value, you will be single.
people are all very ignorant and don’t know the risks of being single when they are single. I always think that in the future, I can continue like my youth. Young people can't even imagine the difficulties they encounter when they are old. Blurred eyes, white hair, wrinkles, etc. Young people simply cannot imagine that such a day will come to them.
Young people still think that their fertility can last until they are seventy or eighty years old. They don’t believe in the saying that women are elderly mothers after 35 years old.
When single, there may be someone who is willing to live with him for a short period of time. But no opposite sex is willing to live with him for a long time.
When you get single, you basically live alone. When you get older, you will encounter a lot of risks. If you accidentally fall, no one will help him up, and no one will call 120 and take him to the hospital.
Because a person falls, sometimes he can't get up. You don't even have the ability to make 120 calls. If you faint, you can't make a phone call. Singles never want these huge risks and always think that they will not fall.
From the perspective of being single, few people are actively single, and they are passively single.
The only benefit of being single is freedom. There is no housework, no need to compromise, no need to make concessions, everything is done according to your will.
This freedom is in exchange for a person living alone for a long time and losing the ability to cooperate with the opposite sex to build a family.
When you get old, you need someone’s company. Most elderly people accompany their children.
Because I have no children, no one is willing to accompany them. They can only live alone.
Young people are freedom, but what they are brought about is the loneliness and helplessness of old age.
