There are no four seasons in life, only two seasons. Working hard is the peak season, and not working hard is the off-season. People’s lives are not smooth sailing, they always have to go through ups and downs. Behind every successful person, there is a hardship that others don’t know. Want to go up to a high building to avoid sorrow. I am worried and follow me to the tall building. ——Song· Xin Qiji " Quail Sky·To go up to a high building to avoid sorrow " When encountering difficulties, escaping is not the foundation of solving the problem. It will always be with you. When you meet him next time, you will still fail, so we must defeat it.
When you are in a glorious position, there will be many people who will be sad for you, and when you are down and out, they will stay away from you. When people are at a low point, how should we overcome it? What should you pay attention to? This is what my ancestor said "I don't think of three people in the downturn, and I don't touch the three arts when I am poor."
Don't think of three people
Don't think of noble people
When people are down and out, they always fantasize that there will be a noble person to help themselves overcome difficulties. It is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is difficult to provide timely help. iceberg is hard to rely on. tells us that we cannot rely on long-term power and cannot rely on it. We must support ourselves.
People's hearts are unpredictable. No one can keep you relying on, and no one is willing to help you all the time. It is his affection for others to help you when you are in trouble. It is his duty not to help you. We are not qualified to ask others to help you. "It is better to seek yourself than to ask others" Instead of giving up some face to seek help from others, it is better to get out of the difficulties by yourself.
If you have mountains, rely on them. If you don’t have mountains, be your own backer. When there is a difficulty, it is naturally good to have someone to help, but when there is no backer, you still have to rely on yourself, and only yourself is the most reliable.
Don’t think of lovers
When your career is prosperous and your life reaches its peak, there will be many confidants around you. Once a person has money, he will expand and raise his lover. There is no shortage of greed and vain.
Once you are down, they will leave each other, avoiding you if you are anxious and not caring about any affection. "Everyone flies in the face of disaster" is what it means.
If you want your former lover to help you, it is simply a fantasy. They will not only not help you, but will also put down the wrong things. After all, for them, you are just their wallet. If you are down and out, it will not affect them, so don’t look for them, as you will only increase your sadness and even become depressed.
Don’t think of enemies
People will know many people in work interests disputes and will offend many people inadvertently. These people are waiting to see your jokes. When you are down and out, they will be so happy.
When you are at a low point all of a sudden, the contrast is very big and the mood will be very bad. If you still think about your enemy and think about how to retaliate against him, this will only make you fall into a vicious cycle and it will be difficult to get out of the predicament. Some people even seek help from their enemies to reach cooperation, which is even more inappropriate. Some people will mock and humiliate you when you see you in a down-and-out manner, and some people will use you to achieve a certain goal and throw it away after using it, causing secondary harm to you.
When you are down and out, don’t think about your enemies. Relax your horizons, solve the current predicament first, work hard to be yourself, and don’t give your enemies the chance to joke.
People who are poor don’t touch the three arts
"Three arts" At first glance, people will think it is craftsmanship, but in fact, it is not. This refers to business, which means that no matter how poor people are, they cannot do these three businesses.
Illegal business cannot be touched by
Sometimes people will embark on the road of no return when they are extremely short of money. The road of no return here refers to illegal things. China is a legal society, and we must not let go of any illegal and irregular behavior. What is prohibited by law is our bottom line.
Even if people are down and out, they cannot be impatient and embark on the road of illegality. day net is vast and does not miss . Don’t be lucky. Even if illegal things are hidden, one day you will be thought of. "A gentleman loves money and gets it well" We must always stick to the bottom line and obtain our results through our own labor.
High-risk business cannot be touched by
No matter the size of the business, as long as it is an investment, there will be risks, and returns and risks coexist.
When people are down and out, they always want to earn back through investment. They believe in the principle of "will earn as much as they invest" and "seek wealth and honor in danger" . They invest all their money in it to see if they can turn the tables against the wind and dream of getting rich overnight. But they forgot that the greater the investment in business, the higher the risk. If they succeed, the return is considerable, but once they fail, they will fall into the abyss.
Never try "Teat medical treatment in an emergency " because of adversity. Be calm down, keep your feet on the ground, start from scratch, and will always succeed.
Partnership business cannot be touched
No money to find a partner to do business, which solves the problem of funds. It looks like a good choice. When you succeed, the relationship between the two may be broken due to the involvement of interests; if you fail, you will feel that it is the other party’s responsibility. At that time, not only will the business not be completed, but the relationship between the two may also be broken. Wouldn’t it be worth the loss?
As the saying goes, "Brothers can settle accounts clearly" , let alone a businessman who is a partner.
Summary
When you are in a downturn, don’t rush to achieve success, calm down, summarize your previous experience, and start over. In ancient times, there was Goujian lying on firewood and tasting gall for ten years, Han Xin humiliation under the crotch , "A little impatience will cause trouble for big plans" The more you are, the calmer you are, down-to-earth, and you will definitely make a comeback.
