I, a Korean, worked as a model in China for 7 years, married a Chongqing girl, and first met my father-in-law to send kimchi
narration: Zheng Zhiyuan
compilation: Mr. Xiao Han
picture: from the Internet, delete
I am Zheng Zhiyuan, a Korean, now the owner of a Korean restaurant, settled in Chongqing. When I was 19 years old, I came to China with my dreams and worked as a model for 7 years. Here I met my wife Han Xueqi. She is a typical hot girl in Chongqing. She has a hot temper and carefree, but she is kind. We have been together for 6 years, which often touched me.
At that time, my career in China was not going smoothly and I didn’t have much money. I remember that after a year of dating Han Xueqi and I went to see my future father-in-law, and I asked my friend to mail me kimchi from South Korea. Unexpectedly, my father-in-law said directly, “It’s not as delicious as I cook at first glance.” It was really embarrassing at the time, but I still chose to endure it.
My father-in-law has a good impression of me, saying that I am honest, responsible, and polite, but I didn't mention anything about Han Xueqi's marriage. At that time, I was afraid that my father-in-law would disagree. It was the New Year at that time, and I spent more than half a month together. The assessment results for me, a foreign son-in-law, were pretty good. I agreed to let us get married. When Chinese and Korean girls get married, they pay attention to bride prices. At that time, all my belongings were less than 100,000 yuan, and my father-in-law accepted them together, and he was not polite at all.
However, after marriage, I lived with my parents-in-law and took good care of me in daily life, so now we are a happy family of five, living a simple life.
In 1992, I was born in an ordinary family in the southern district of Gwangju, South Korea. I lived in a smoky family atmosphere since I was a child. My father was drunk and family violence was . My sister and I were even more unavoidable. My mother worked diligently just to raise us to adulthood.
When I was six and a half years old, my father came home drunk. He first punched and kicked my mother, and then insulted her verbally. After I begged my father not to hit her again, my father took the broken ashtray and cut my ears into half. However, this time my father was really scared and took the initiative to carry me to the hospital. Fortunately, the treatment was done in time and there was no serious consequence.
In my heart, I have no respect for my father, only fear. As I grow older, I am not only studying but also working, and my body becomes stronger and stronger. My father dares not provoke me and my mother. Every time I insult a few words, our family is used to it.
I dropped out of school and became a model before I graduated from high school. In order to escape from my family, I started to learn Chinese because many Korean actors have achieved good results in development in China, so I also want to go to China. I am 182 cm tall and have been amateur model since I was 16 years old to earn money to support my family.
19 years old, I came to Shanghai and formally cooperated with my Chinese agent, which also started my career in China.
developed in Shanghai for three years and did not achieve very good results. Therefore, he left his agent and went to the mountain city Chongqing alone.
Before coming to China, I heard that Chongqing’s food is very delicious, especially hot pot. In fact, in Korea, many people are very good at eating chili peppers, and I gradually became better and better in my career here, and I even fell in love with the makeup artist girl.
Her name is Zhang Hui. She is a beautiful Chongqing girl with a hot temper. However, she is very gentle in life. He doesn’t dislike me for being down and out, and I don’t dislike her for being short and 22 cm tall, which makes us look very interesting. Dating Zhang Hui is a very brain-burning thing. She doesn't speak much and always asks me to guess.
usually looks bumpy, but in fact, we have a good relationship. After a while, we planned to get married. The Chinese New Year was about to be celebrated. In order to bring gifts to our future father-in-law, we specially asked my friend to mail Korean kimchi. In this way, I took a box of kimchi to my future father-in-law's house.
Father-in-law ignored me, but my mother-in-law said that I am handsome and tall, and I am quite fond of me. At that time, I not only spoke Chinese well, but also could understand Chongqing dialect .
When I gave the gift to my father-in-law, he saw it was kimchi and said, "It's not as good as me." Only then did I remember that Sichuan and Chongqing like to eat kimchi, but I completely forgot about this. However, I still spent the New Year at my father-in-law's house peacefully and had a good impression of me after spending more than ten days together, but after I asked for a marriage request, I asked for a bride.
At that time, I didn’t have much money, and the whole body was only 100,000 yuan, and I gave it to my father-in-law in one go. In the end, Zhang Hui and I got married. My father-in-law knew that I couldn’t afford a house, so in order to save money, we let us live at home.
Over the past few years, Zhang Hui and I have had our own children and opened an Korean cuisine store, and the business is pretty good. However, all the money I earned was in my father-in-law's pocket. Many neighbors who knew me said that I looked like a son-in-law. I didn't understand at the time, but later I thought it was good to be a son-in-law. After all, my parents-in-law only had Zhang Hui, and they were good to me.
Father-in-law is very strict with us and helps us take care of our children. My wife and I work hard every day. The family of five has a lot of happy time together, which makes me feel the warmth of home. If I have been staying in Korea, maybe my life is another scene.
I really thank China, thanks to my wife.
