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Love brain girls are the most sad. They often touch themselves but make others happy.
Shen Na (pseudonym) is an unrealistic love brain.
2Shen Na is a girl with perfect conditions in all aspects. Not only does her family have superior conditions, but her own conditions are also very impeccable.
Shen Na looks sweet and has a high temperament. She is also a top student and has an enviable iron rice bowl. Such a perfect person, she willingly married Du Lei (pseudonym), an ordinary worker who has nothing.
Perhaps it is precisely because Shen Na has always lived a life of food and clothing that she does not value material life and is focused on pursuing unrealistic love. However, in real life, money is everywhere, and details will eventually defeat love.
When Shen Na and Du Lei first dated, they started to have many difficulties. They were first strongly opposed by Shen Na's parents, and then they quarreled over some economic problems during the interaction.
But none of this made Shen Na retreat. She was unmoved and always insisted on her relationship with Du Lei. Even if he had different values from her, Shen Na didn't care at all.
It can be said that Shen Na and Du Lei went through a lot of hardships before finally getting to the point of discussing marriage. However, Du Lei's family is not well off, and he can't afford to buy a house to get married, let alone provide Shen Na with a guarantee of life.
In order to marry Du Lei, Shen Na was even willing to marry Du Lei naked, but Shen Na's parents couldn't bear to let their daughter get married so shabby. In order for their daughter to be happy, they not only stopped asking Du Lei for the bride price, but also bought a wedding house for their daughter in full.
In this way, Du Lei married Shen Na without spending a penny. Their happy life was hard-won, but Shen Na's sacrifice and the compromise between Shen Na's family did not make Du Lei feel grateful. Not only did he not know how to cherish it, he also did things that were contrary to humanity.
Shen Na's life after marriage was not satisfactory. The two people with huge financial strength often quarreled because of their different values, and Du Lei deliberately alienated Shen Na because of his damage to his self-esteem.
The two just got married, and Du Lei became often working overtime and on business trips. At first, Shen Na thought it was Du Lei who finally figured out that he had to start working hard, but she did not expect that overtime was just an excuse for Du Lei to escape from her.
Shen Na disagreed and was still full of expectations for the future of the two people. However, Du Lei had already started a new life. He gradually lost his love for Shen Na because another person entered his life.
The drama is that when Shen Na discovered all this, she had just rushed back from the gates of hell, while Du Lei and his lover were nurturing new life.
One day Shen Na went out to work and was hit by a speeding car to the ground. Fortunately, the car first hit the isolation belt on the side of the road, and then hit Shen Na again because of inertia.
Although Shen Na was not seriously injured, she was still taken to the hospital by an ambulance. Just as she was about to undergo a closer examination, she suddenly found a familiar figure in the hospital.
Du Lei's appearance surprised Shen Na, because Du Lei should be on a business trip outside at this moment, and what Shen Na even more unexpected was that there was a big belly standing beside Du Lei, and the woman was holding a prenatal check-up report in her hand.
Du Lei saw Shen Na panic and shook the hand of the woman beside him, then walked straight towards Shen Na, and tried to explain to Shen Na everything she saw.
But no matter how Du Lei defends, the facts and evidence are already in front of him. The facts and evidence of Du Lei's cheating is a solid evidence.
At this moment, Shen Na forgot the pain on her body, because the heartache had already covered everything. She did not expect that the person she would rather suffer than marry was now someone else's father.
The tearful Shen Na slapped Du Lei hard despite the eyes of everyone, and then walked out of the hospital with a staggering pace.
After Shen Na returned home, she threw all Du Lei’s belongings out of the house, and then sent a message to inform Du Lei to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce procedures tomorrow. Then she blocked all Du Lei’s contact information, and then cried alone for a long time.
In this way, Shen Na and Du Lei divorced, ending this short but unrealistic marriage.
3The most important thing for two people to interact with each other is to have the same three views, because only when the three views are consistent can the two sides have common topics and goals; the second is the gap in economic conditions. The bigger the gap, the more conflicts will be. Only when the economic conditions are not much different, the two people will not have a gap when they get along.
Through Shen Na's story, we should understand the following two principles:
1. Two people want to get married, but in fact, it is very important to have a good match.
Perhaps many young men and women nowadays do not pay attention to being a good match. They think that the most important thing in marriage is feelings, not money. Those who value money are material people, and they are people who do not understand love.
However, in real life, money is everywhere. As long as people live, they must involve money. The more they escape the issue of money, the more likely they are to suffer heavy losses.
Some people have said that love without material things is like a plate of loose sand, and the wind will dissipate with a gentle blow. This is true. A few of the young men and women who were arrogant and naked after marriage were beaten up by reality.
Although two people get married based on feelings, material things are also essential. We should neither climb high nor be humble.
Only people who are similar to themselves in all aspects are the people who are most suitable for them. If rich and poor people insist on combining together, they are purely asking for trouble.
Rich people can't stand the life of the poor. The poor cannot meet the material needs of the rich. Such two people will not only not be happy, but will become more and more painful when they live together.
Because of these two people, their original living environment and living habits are different, and their attitude towards life and their understanding of life are also different. If two people don’t even have the most basic values of the three, how can they maintain the longevity of their marriage?
Especially rich women. You must not look for people who are inferior to you in all aspects, because no man is willing to live under the shadow of a woman.
So when you find a partner to get married, you must find someone who is not much different from you in all aspects. Only when the gap is not big will the conflicts between you become less and less, and the relationship between the two will become more and more stable.
2. Women with love brains often regret their impulse.
Women with love brains don’t end well, because they are too emotional and even give up everything they want to go deep into the depths. The lack of rational thinking is their fatal weakness.
There are many girls like Shen Na. For the sake of so-called love, she completely ignored the importance of material things and would rather marry naked than marry Du Lei.
However, Shen Na's sacrifice was not cherished by Du Lei. Instead, the huge difference in strength between the two put pressure on Du Lei. In order to avoid marriage, Du Lei actually gave the mistress a chance to take advantage of loopholes.
In the end, Du Lei's cheating and betrayal gave Shen Na a fatal blow. Shen Na finally misunderstood because of her emotional behavior.
Those women who are blinded by love are like Shen Na. No matter what kind of person the other person is, they will become an impeccable and peerless man in their eyes.
They are willing to give willingly to each other, and even abandon everything they have for each other. Even if the other party is a pauper or a playboy, they are willing to jump into this fire pit without any scruples.
When I was awakened by reality, it was too late to regret it no matter how much I stopped losing. Even if I broke up with the other party in time and divorced, then in the end, I was the one who suffered losses and was injured.
For our own happiness, we must reject the love brain, choose our own partners reasonably, and deal with emotional issues rationally, which is our responsibility to ourselves.
text/Wiwen
