Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason.

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Let’s say that, there is no free lunch in the world, everyone has their own purpose, if people are not only treating you well, there must be a reason. Just like this woman in the article, she cut her salary by 5,000 yuan. Is it really true love? If you meet such a woman, would you be with this woman? If it were other elderly people, I guess many elderly people would be fooled. When facing such a thing, we must learn to refuse, otherwise 100% of the waiting for you will be a tragedy. Why did we say that? Let’s take a look together. The 37-year-old nanny has to marry the old man if she cuts her salary by 5,000. The nanny: I really like you, the old man: Get out of

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

case story sharing person,

77-year-old Mr. Lin:

I told Xiao Zhang, hurry up and leave, I don’t want to see you. I originally thought that Xiao Zhang would find me so heartlessly, but Xiao Zhang stood at the door and looked at me stupidly. What was going on? I have done it clearly. I don’t like him and don’t want to be with him. Why is he still here? Xiao Zhang told me helplessly, my feelings for you are real, I really want to be with you, why can't you give me a chance? Just give me a chance, give me a chance to give you happiness.

I told Xiao Zhang not to joke. Our age gap is so big, how could we be happy? I don’t want to make trouble anymore. Xiao Zhang told me, "I'm not like this. I'm serious. Give me a chance. You will definitely not regret it. Just say that. It's the same for you to hire a nanny. It's the same for me to stay. And I can promise you something, which is to show that I am sincere to you."

From now on, my salary has become 1,000 yuan. In other words, from the original 6,000 yuan per month to 1,000 yuan. 1,000 yuan per month is nothing to you. In the past, you could give me 6,000 yuan, but now you can give me 1,000 yuan. This is a big deal. I am sincere, so I agreed.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

Faced with such cheapness, I think many elderly people will agree. After all, Xiao Zhang is a young and beautiful woman. Now he told me that he doesn’t have a salary of 5,000 yuan, just 1,000 yuan. Where to find such a good thing to face these good things, many elderly people can’t refuse, but I told Xiao Zhang, do you think I will believe what you said? But Xiao Zhang told me that I was serious and would not lie to you. There are the documents I wrote and the signature on it, which means that you can give me 1,000 yuan in the future.

But the premise is that you have to promise to be with me. Is there really such a good thing in the world? Xiao Zhang's behavior scared me. The more you are like this, the less you can agree. There is no such good thing in the world who is greedy for small gains, and in the end you will always be ruined by greedy for small gains. I have interviewed such things before.

almost hurt myself, so forget it, I will never agree. I told Xiaoda that you would go back wherever you came from, but Xiao Zhang refused to leave and quarreled with me at the door. Xiao Zhang said I was serious, so you can give me a chance, otherwise I won’t go anywhere, and I will not leave here. I am helpless. I told Xiao Zhang that if you insist on staying, then that’s OK, but I have 5 requirements. If you agree, I will let you stay. If you don’t agree, you can leave.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

The first requirement is that my property has nothing to do with you.

The common property of a husband and wife is a problem with you. I borrowed money from you and did not have it together. In other words, the property in the past has nothing to do with you. This house, car, and savings are all left to me by my wife. It is all jointly owned by me, my wife, and my children, and they have nothing to do with you. Maybe you think I'm ruthless in doing this, and you also think I don't treat you as a family.

How can I share this clearly after getting married? What I want to say is that I am just responsible for myself when I do this. The money, houses and these things really have nothing to do with you, so I will never give you these things. And you just told me that you are really with me, and it is probably not for these things that I have with me.

If you are with me for these things, then you plan to give it to you. Even if I donate this thing to you, not to mention that I have two sons and a daughter, they also need it. In the end, I will definitely leave it to my children, or donate it. Anyway, I will not give you this thing, and these things have nothing to do with you.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

The second requirement, you can't mess with me after you are together.

Women are very open nowadays, especially when you say something bad at your age, and I am old, and if you toss me, you will kill me. Although I want to bother with you, I am here, I am not in good health, and I am older, so I will not be able to fight with you, so don’t look like a dragon. I will not be good for you to me. If I have to struggle a lot, I am very likely to fall here because of this. If that happens, what will you do in the future?

Forget it, avoid this tragedy, just stop tossing me, don’t bother me. Of course, I won’t bother you. I am at this age, and I know whether I am in good health. I won’t do those things. Don’t bother me, and I won’t bother you. We are like this now. Hello, I am all you can. Just take care of me. That’s a normal thing, we won’t do it, just live a good life.

The reason why I say this is because I think you are too young and have that need, but I will never be able to talk to you. I know my own problems, and I also know that I cannot make trouble when I am old. I mean to explain it to you a little bit, for your own good and for my own good.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

The third requirement is, we do not get the certificate.

If we get the certificate, we will be a family. To put it bluntly, what if one day after I leave, what should you do if you use this identity to find my child? My children have a difficult life, and it is already very good that they can live a good life. Where can I help? What if you use this identity to ask them for help?

will harm my children at that time. I can't help them. I don't want to harm them because of my affairs. And they have already told me clearly that I can hire a nanny or go to a nursing home, but I won't remarry me. This is the problem they are worried about. What if I leave and you use this identity to make trouble for them? If this problem is not handled well, it is very likely that it will harm a family.

In order to avoid this tragedy, we should explain it to you in advance. It is our ability to marry you or be with you. What I have said clearly is that we are just together if we don’t get a certificate. If you think you have any objections, then forget it. If you don’t have any objections, then don’t get a certificate together. If you don’t get a certificate, I will be nice to you. Just like now. Of course, if you dislike or think I have taken advantage of it, it doesn’t matter if you don’t want to be with me.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

The fourth requirement is, you still have to pay back the money you owe me.

lent to you before, and my child had an objection. He borrowed so much money to you, but it has been so long since. Have you given me a penny? Not only did I not even tell me this, but my child almost broke up with me because of this. Now you have to pay back the money when you are with me. After all, this is not a small amount.

At that time, you told me that your child needed surgery, and then asked me to borrow money from thousands to tens of thousands at the beginning, and then borrowed more than 100,000 yuan. Now, it is almost 250,000 yuan. This money is a lot. After we get together, you have to pay back the money. You will deduct it from your future salary, slowly, and until 250,000 yuan. Don’t think that I am very ruthless. No one’s money is blown by the strong wind, don’t you?

After all, this money is a lot, and your child has nothing to do. You cheated me for money, and I don’t know where the money was spent. I don’t want to care about the past things, after all, sometimes I can’t control so much of some things, so I don’t care where you use the money, but after we get together, I still need to pay back the money.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

The fifth requirement, you can’t make things difficult for me after being together.

I will do what I want to do myself. If I don’t want to do it, you can’t make things difficult for me, force me, or threaten me, I will find a way to do my job well. Although we are together, I will never make things difficult for myself because I am with you, or I will still take care of me like now, and I will give you money. This is enough. If you think the money is low, I can add more to you, but I will never make things wronged me because I am together. I also know what you think.

Your parents need money to support your elderly care, and your ex-husband also needs money to do business. Since your children also need to study, you are with me probably for these reasons. I will never let myself down for you and others, and I will not make you embarrassed me.

If you really do that, don’t blame me, and I won’t give you a chance. I will say this in advance. If you can accept it, you will be together. If you can’t accept it, then forget it, I don’t care. Anyway, if you can accept it if you can't live together, then forget it, it doesn't matter.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

These are my 5 requirements. If you agree, we will be together. If you don’t agree, forget it. Although you are young and tempted me, and you also cut your salary by 5,000 yuan, these temptations are indeed quite great. But I will never be tempted by you. If you can agree with my request, we will be together. If you can't agree, then forget it. I told Xiao Zhang this on purpose, with the purpose of letting him retreat naturally or testing his sincerity.

Xiao Zhang told me that you are too unreasonable. I sincerely have already cut my salary by 5,000 yuan. What else do you want to do? It’s not me that makes things difficult for you, it’s you that makes things difficult for me. I smiled and didn't say anything. Xiao Zhang saw that I didn't say anything and then got angry, threw things and threatened me to agree, otherwise I would say that I did something bad to him. Only then did I know what Xiao Zhang was thinking.

It turned out that I was not really with me, but for my money. Otherwise, I wouldn't treat me like this now. Since this is the case, I have nothing to say. I drove Xiao Zhang out and told Xiao Zhang that all the things I just said have been recorded. If you don't believe it, you can watch it. I have sent it to you. You have left. Otherwise, don't blame me for calling the police to deal with it. Therefore, the elderly must learn to refuse when facing these tests.

Let’s just say that, there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone has their own purpose. If people are not only good to you, there must be a reason. - DayDayNews

Conclusion:

is indeed the truth. Many times we must learn to reject many things, especially these tests, especially when the elderly face these tests. If they cannot refuse, 100% of the waiting for the elderly is a tragedy. You think it's a happy opening. What I want to say is that even if it's very far away or it won't happen to you, you should pay attention to these things. Not only that, don't think that this thing is very far away from you.

won't happen to you. What I want to say is that even if it's very far away or will not happen to you, you should pay attention to these things. Not only this, but other forms, other things are also possible. We should not take advantage of others and others cannot take advantage of us. Do you understand?

Where is such a good thing in the day? Even if such a good thing is not going to fall on you. If it falls on you for no reason, then you should pay attention. It is also possible that these things are just a disaster. It is very beautiful at the beginning, but it will definitely end in the end. It will be too late to regret it at that time, so it is absolutely not possible to see that it is cheap. Do you understand? All the elderly must reject these temptations.

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