01
Today I was ruined by a few grapes.
When I got off work, I bought a few bunches of grapes from an aunt's stall on the street. After weighing it, I was about to pay. The aunt said it was almost ten yuan, so I could add a little more. I agreed. The aunt quickly took a small bunch from the side and put it in.
When I got home, I opened the bag and prepared to wash the grapes. The small bunch of grapes put in by the aunt had lost half of their moisture. They were soft and had changed color. This kind of grape that had no taste and was on the edge of the brokenness instantly destroyed the mood.
When I meet this aunt on the street again, I will never take care of her business. People who are greedy for small gains always want to treat others as "fools". Little do I know that I am the stupidest one. The road ahead is getting narrower and narrower, and in the end I am the only one left in the circle.
There are many people and things like this in life, and no one is confused. Be lenient to others, what you gain is the trust of others. On the contrary, if you plot against others everywhere, you can only get other people's guard. Over time, there is no blessing to say.
02
I still remember when I was a child, there was a neighbor in my hometown who was famously tricky.
This short old lady, who is good at calculating, has two sons and one daughter.
Other people's daughters are all held in their hands, and they are pampered like a little princess. At the very least, there is love. This old lady is not right. She can sacrifice her life for her two sons. If her daughter dares to eat an extra egg in the morning, she can curse with her ears for two hours.
A person who can be so cruel to his own daughter does not expect her to be friendly to her neighbors at all.
is very good as long as you don’t cause trouble.
When I was a child, I often saw her quarrel with her neighbors around me, but most of the time it was trivial.
She secretly picked other people's vegetables and was caught, and she still wanted to bite others stingy.
Someone’s hen ran to her vegetable garden to lay an egg, but she didn’t return it to her when she picked it up, and she also blamed her chicken for eating her vegetables.
is such a young old lady who everyone respects her three points. She is so spoiled to her two sons.
The two sons were also raised by her and caused trouble in school every day.
What is her situation now?
Last time I saw her sitting in a wheelchair and basking in the sun at the door, the momentum of being powerful back then disappeared, and the person collapsed in an instant.
Half of my life was exchanged for a half-paralyze in my old age, and my wife had already died of cancer.
The two sons didn't take care of her, they just gave her three meals a day.
The daughter who was bullied and tortured by bullying had already married a distance of 1,000 kilometers away from her family.
What is the blessing of people?
Those who love love come back. Kindness does not depend on whether each other is relatives, but how your heart thinks and how you do it.
03
In contrast, the boss of a small supermarket has a prosperous business and is also related to kindness.
This small supermarket is a street from my community and the store is not big, but the boss is a gentle person and always smiles. Anyone who asks her for help will agree happily. I have also seen someone store pets in her place, and she helps with her care without bothering.
Their supermarket will hold special activities from five to six o'clock in the afternoon, especially in the dish area, which is very strong. Every day, the small supermarkets are crowded, and I don’t understand why they all sell them so cheaply.
Once I asked the boss's wife, and the boss's wife still smiled and said, "The dishes are not fresh overnight. Everyone will be happy to eat fresh vegetables. When people are happy, they will be energetic to do anything." Even if the vegetables that were not sold the day before, they will not sell the next day. I asked her how much money they would not make in this activity. She replied happily: "Those vegetables are not as good as giving them cheaper than they can't sell them. Look at me, but I don't make much money. Although I earn enough money to make it, everyone has bought fresh and affordable, which is good."
Yes, I admire the wisdom of the boss's wife. It not only allows everyone to buy Xinyi's fruits and vegetables, but also makes money, and makes everyone like to come to her to buy vegetables. Everyone can't help but praise her when she mentions it. Some people would rather go more than come to her house to buy.
The ancients said: Great wisdom is like foolishness, great cleverness is like clumsy. Really smart people know the value of long-lasting flow. Sincerity is exchanged for sincerity, true feelings are exchanged for true feelings. Only by keeping others in your heart can you get sincere rewards.
There is a saying that says, "Be kind to others, even if the blessing has not arrived, the misfortune has been far away. "If you think about others and give to others, what you take back will definitely be blessings!
