often see netizens complaining online, why is that boy so scumbag? Instead, there are a group of women who are flying into the fire, rushing to be his girlfriend.
I am a peerless good man like me. I don’t smoke or drink. Instead, I never get the favor of women. Those women cannot see good men.
If a woman is abandoned by a scumbag, many netizens will even take the blame. After all, who told her to like scumbags and not want to choose a reliable good man.
In fact, complaining about being jealous of others is to some extent envy, but many people are just unwilling to admit it. Instead of complaining about others all day long, it is better to study why they are so popular among women.
In fact, boys have methods to pursue girls. If you use the right method, you will get twice the result with half the effort. If you use the wrong method, you will get half the result with half the effort, and even a counterproductive effect will occur.
reminds boys that when pursuing girls, remember not to have the following manifestations, because these are all score reductions in the eyes of girls.
The first manifestation is that over-pleasing women
When choosing a spouse, women actually admire the strong. The so-called Chang Muqiang means admiring the strong. They always want to find a man stronger than themselves to rely on.
For example, there are many older women nowadays. They are already very good. They can find a man who is similar to them or is worse than them to live a good life, but they just want to pursue a better man than this, but they were deceived into being.
In fact, monogamy is also protecting vulnerable groups. Otherwise, many girls would rather be wives for rich people than marry ordinary people.
So when boys pursue girls, they must not try to please the other person too much, and they must not be so humble that they lose their principles and bottom line, as that will make girls look down on them.
What girls prefer is a man guiding themselves. In fact, many girls don’t understand what happiness is at all. Boys should learn to create this kind of happiness for girls, and this is the kind of man who can only please them and never understand.
The second manifestation, uncontrollable love
Many boys were deceived by one sentence, that is, they must be shameless to pursue girls, but this is not the case in real life, especially women nowadays.
Many of them are no longer as reserved as women in the past. When they meet boys they like very much, they will be very proactive and can make up any ridiculous reasons.
But when they meet men they don’t like, they often become very cold. So when girls act coldly towards you and even ignore them, they are mostly useless to you.
Some things do not want to reject you, embarrass you, and some are even more vicious, just want to hang you. If you chat with the other person and the other person ignores you, don’t take the initiative anymore. It’s really boring.
Don’t think about pestering and bombarding the messages. This will not attract the attention of the woman, but will only make the woman dislike you more.
The third manifestation is that you don’t know how to stop loss in time
The elderly say that you must pester girls. At first, she may not like you, but if you lie next to her every day, she will slowly appreciate you.
but you have to be scattered. If the other party hates you very much, or you have no good feelings for you, it is useless even if you are pestering you, it will only make the other party hate you even more.
If the other party is not so resistant to you, but doesn’t like you very much, you can continue to persevere at this time, but persistence and fighting are definitely two different things.
If the woman has clearly rejected you, then you must learn to stop the loss in time and not to stick to it, because that has no effect at all.
If you don’t like it, it’s not like it. Especially for people nowadays, everyone’s lives are very busy and they don’t have time to act with you. It’s already not easy to live your own life well.
