Someone once told me that adults’ collapse should be hidden. After all, they are all adults. Do you vent like a child? Actually, I don’t agree with this view. Adults do not become adults because of hidden collapse, but can vent in normal and understandable ways. However, the reality is that adults’ collapse is just a moment.
Once I took a taxi and chatted with the driver. The driver said that a man in his 40s had just gotten up and cried loudly when he got on the bus. The driver quickly asked what happened?
He said:
"I just got promoted for 3 months and the company went bankrupt. Although I received compensation, I have been looking for a job for 6 months now. No one wants him. My wife has just been pregnant with two children and has a mortgage to pay. Now I don't know what will happen in the future, and I'm particularly collapsed. A person who hasn't cried for a long time, doesn't know how to face his pregnant wife and daughter when he thinks of going home, I feel that life is too difficult."
The driver didn't know how to comfort him, so he could only comfort him:
"There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. Keep looking for a job so that you can get out of the predicament."
In fact, adults' collapse is in a moment. During their growth, people often tell you that you are an adult, you can't be as casual as before, and you can't shed tears no matter how hard or difficult it is. In fact, this is not the case. Adults also need ways to vent.
