Love is a matter of mutual willingness. Only when both parties appreciate and love each other can they develop the so-called love, otherwise it is unrequited love. However, in our daily lives, in many cases, we may not be able to be with the person we like, because we cannot guarantee that the other party will also love ourselves.
How to pursue love is not a difficult problem, but how we face and face each other's rejection, and how to put our position and mentality are particularly important. persistence may touch love, but persistence in perseverance may not only not seek true love, but may bring endless troubles to the other party, but we are completely unaware of it. This is the most terrifying behavior in the process of pursuing love.
17-year-old Xiao Wen (pseudonym) is a typical post-00s generation. He just came out of society and didn't know a lot of things. In order to make a living, Xiao Wen turned his attention to the electronics factory. After some trouble, he finally found a job as an electronics factory.
Fortunately, Xiao Wen knew a female master who took good care of him. took Xiao Wen to the factory on the first day, helped Xiao Wen get his luggage together, took him to his dormitory, and helped Xiao Wen, who had just left the society, lay the bed sheets. It can be said that the master was like Xiao Wen's sister at that moment.
In addition to taking good care of Xiao Wen at work, she is also very caring about Xiao Wen in life. She said bluntly that everyone is a migrant worker who is wandering away, and everyone has their own difficulties. She also came through hardships from Xiao Wen at that time, so she knew very well that Xiao Wen had just left the society and went to work in an electronics factory.
Gradually, in the process of getting along day and night, Xiao Wen developed an inexplicable favor for this master who took good care of him. Although he tried hard to control his emotions, for Xiao Wen, who had no love experience, his inner favor for his master was increasing day by day.
At the same time, Xiao Wen learned through his understanding that the master born in the 1990s is also single, especially in an electronics factory where boys and girls are more labor-intensive. Due to his own social circle, it is actually difficult for the master to find a suitable boyfriend.
But even so, Xiao Wen's repeated temptations to the master, master firmly stated that the two were impossible. After all, the two were quite old and she could not accept the love model of siblings and brothers from the bottom of her heart.
What's more, the master admitted that she had always regarded Xiao Wen as her younger brother to take care of her. She felt sorry for Xiao Wen, who was only 17 years old, was forced to go to society to make a living because she was not good at school. So she thought it was a little bit to help, and people needed to help each other.
However, the master's clear statement did not stop Xiao Wen from pursuing his master's crazy pursuit. In order to impress the master, Xiao Wen repeatedly ignored the obstacles and broke into the female dormitory where the master was in. He took the flowers he had prepared long ago and asked the master to agree to be his girlfriend.
Not only that, Xiao Wen also insisted on taking the initiative to hand over his monthly salary of 6,000 yuan to his master. As long as the master can be his girlfriend, he is willing to do anything.
In addition to thinking about giving flowers to the master, seeing that the master refused to agree to date the two, Xiao Wen became anxious. Once, the master returned to the female dormitory after work and lay down to bed. Xiao Wen directly broke into the master's bed despite the obstacles, and insisted that the master agree to be his girlfriend. once again asked to hand over his monthly salary of 6,000 yuan to the master.
Master bluntly said that Xiao Wen will definitely meet the girl he likes in the future. After all, he has just left society and still has a lot of not understanding of society and love. She cannot do anything to hurt Xiao Wen and does not want her momentary impulse to ruin Xiao Wen.
What makes people speechless is that Xiao Wen is like being possessed and can't listen to anything. Even if the master is about to rest, he still stands in front of the master's bed with ignorance, constantly patting the master's calves and feet with his hands. It seems that if the master doesn't agree to be his girlfriend, he will not leave.
Xiao Wen's approach made the master feel embarrassed. She neither wanted to have a relationship between the two, nor could she impulsively agree to Xiao Wen's innocent and childish confession. Xiao Wen's crazy pursuit made the master feel a torment when meeting every day. She didn't know how to make Xiao Wen completely give up unrealistic ideas.
is obvious. The master is very distressed about Xiao Wen's crazy pursuit. But for the sake of face, the two have good coworkers. She can't say many inhuman words. However, she just blindly considers Xiao Wen, and in the end she lets herself live in troubles every day.
For Xiao Wen, as a young man who has just left society, his love for his master comes from his care for him in daily work and life, which makes him feel a sense of natural intimacy, which gradually turns into admiration. It is undeniable that this feeling may give birth to true love, , but any true love needs to be based on the premise of both parties' voluntary.
Whether it is for age or other considerations, since the master has expressed his rejection attitude many times, he should also know how to withdraw. cannot use his impulse to kidnap the master's intention, which not only makes the master feel extremely embarrassed, but also seems very humble.
To be fair, if a man can gradually become mature and steady, then a woman will see it. A naive and innocent personality is the biggest hidden danger to love. This may be deeply understood by the masters of those who have experienced it. They will barely get true love, but may also destroy the original ordinary coworkers relationship between the two parties.
Love is not complete possession, nor disturbance, nor is it a kidnapping. If you truly love someone, you must understand the other person's psychology, understand the other person's wishes, and persistence may result. At least not disturbing at the moment is the best love for the other person. If you truly love someone, you must make her feel free enough space to breathe. When the time is ripe, love will naturally come naturally. The kidnapping pursuit will only make this potential fate gradually disappear.
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