Whether a person will live a happy life depends not only on yourself, but also on who you are with.
Who gets married often means who you have spent your whole life with.
No matter how aggressive you are, you will never look back when you meet someone who is lazy and delicious;
No matter how kind and optimistic you are, when you meet someone who is violent and dark, your days will fall into endless darkness;
No matter how much you love and give, you will never cherish someone who doesn’t care about you.
After entering marriage, if you are not happy, it is often not because you are not good enough, but because you have not met someone who loves you.
Life is short, you are precious, don’t fall into the dust for someone who doesn’t care about you, turn around and leave, he is not worthy of your love.
Life is not long, you must be with the person who loves you.
Love is a kind of pain
In a movie, I was deeply moved by a line, "The most beautiful thing in the world is to love someone, be loved, and love each other."
Real love is to feel sad for the other person from the bottom of your heart, protect him, warm him, and give him all your happiness;
The best marriage is to love each other, hold each other's hands, walk through the ups and downs of the years together, help each other, and help each other.
On a show, a 20-year-old girl was sent home with her 70-year-old boyfriend, and his father kept a kind smile without his knowledge.
The father knew that his daughter was going to marry him, so he asked the man's age. The man said he was 70 years old. My father's expression gradually became solemn and said:
In theory, I don't want to say age difference or something, but as a father, my answer is no.
My daughter likes you very much now and wants to get married because she is still young.
But to be honest, can you take her life?
Can you grow old with her, have children, take care of her, hug her, carry her, and accompany her for 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, 90 years, 100 years?
If I can't do it, I can't forgive.
When my daughter and I were about the same age, I also felt that as long as there was love, it was enough.
But this is not a problem, some things that love can't do. Marriage is not only about talking, but also about living together for twenty or thirty years.
The so-called husband and wife are not just like this. They help each other. No matter how poor they are, they can support each other, help each other, and live together to be called husband and wife.
The so-called marriage is not a compromise of one person, but a mutual cherishment of two people.
When passion gradually fades, life is surrounded by trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil and salt. I still feel sorry for the other person and I leave the best to the other person. Get rid of white hair.
A true couple is not a temporary passion, but a lifelong protection, mutual support, mutual support, and never give up.
Those who care about you must cherish
In life, not all love can be responded to, and not all efforts will be cherished.
If you don’t love you, you won’t get any sincerity.
People can be affectionate, but don’t be affectionate, practice by themselves.
No matter how moved you are, you can’t move someone, just let him be a passerby. A person’s love is limited, don’t spend it on people who are not worth it.
Apart from your parents, there are very few people who really care about you.
I read a story about a couple running a food stall. The husband cooks and the wife delivers the meal.
On a day, my wife accidentally hit her by a customer for serving the soup, and her hands were burned out of water. The husband ran over immediately, with a look of distress, and said to the guest:
"I'm sorry, my wife was burned. I want to take her to the hospital. It's closed today."
The wife said: "I don't care, it's just a minor injury."
The husband still insisted on taking his wife to the hospital. On the way, my wife complained that she had earned hundreds of dollars less today.
My husband said: "I will make money tomorrow, but you are burned. I feel uneasy. I can't let you live a good life and let you suffer with me. I'm sorry." For you."
The wife smiled and said, "If it doesn't hurt, how can it be bitter? "
Yes, it is worth meeting someone who loves you no matter how hard or tired it is, because he remembers your preferences, cares about your warmth, takes your joys, sorrows, and happiness in his heart, and will never hurt you. At the slightest. .
There are many things in life that are unpredictable. Meeting someone who loves you is the best blessing. You must cherish it.
Love you People can live for the rest of their lives
In this world, there are many people who laugh with you, many people who love you, but few people who cry with you.
People pursue love and long for marriage, but in fact they hope to find someone who loves them for the rest of their lives.
He understands your anxiety and fragility, and has been by your side silently, fighting with you the cruelty of life and the coldness of the world, telling you: "Don't be afraid, I'm here. "
Who would like to spend your life with someone who doesn't care about them?
blames you for being listless, but never cares about whether you are tired or not;
makes a mess of the house, but never helps you with housework;
blames your child for not studying well, but never helps your child with homework...
If you don't cherish your contribution and squeeze you for granted, how can such a marriage continue?
Duras said:
If a person loves you, there will be doting in his eyes. If he doesn't love you, then there is only desire.
Only by being with the people who love you can we share weal and woe and live a good life.
Worries are mutual, and one's efforts cannot change the relationship between two people. For those who are indifferent and do not know how to cherish, turn around and leave.
The world is very big, and your life is still long. In the dark, there will always be people coming to you thousands of miles to love you, love you, care about you, and give you the warmth and touch of life.
May you spend the rest of your life with those who love you deeply, watch the flowing water in the morning, watch the sunset in the evening, cherish each other, warm each other, and in the firewood, Oil and salt.
