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Have you ever encountered such a situation:
is chatting with someone, and the other party suddenly does not reply to the message, no reason, no explanation, and it will take a long time to wait for the other party's reply.
If it's just a chat, most people don't mind; but if something really happens, it's easy to make people anxious and angry.
has such a behavior, and it cannot be said that the other party doesn’t care.
After all, no one can stand by 24 hours before the phone. Everyone has their own life to live, so it is natural that they can't reply messages in seconds forever.
But I have to admit that chatting with such people always makes people unable to like them, especially those who are obviously nothing but deliberately fail to reply to messages in time.
is easy to find that those who are willing to reply in seconds, at least respond in time, and reply well are always more popular among the crowd.
So, congratulations to those who can reply to WeChat in seconds, they have accumulated a lot of "invisible wealth" for themselves.
Life is more efficient because of "shortly back"
Have you ever been when you are too busy and don't even have time to view WeChat messages?
Some time ago, the company was in a lot of trouble and was busy running around every day. When I went to meet a customer, I subconsciously put my phone in my pocket and was anxious to check the information.
At that time, my inner thoughts were very simple. The mobile phone was not important. I was busy with the things in front of me first, and then there were still a lot of things to be completed.
However, after finally taking the car for 40 minutes, I found out that the customer changed the meeting time an hour ago and sent it to my phone, but I did not check it on time.
It seems that I am not willing to read WeChat messages to save time, but in fact, I am not looking up information in time, which is a waste of energy.
Because today's life is always in the process of rapid progress, I do need to seize the time to rush, but I also need to occasionally check whether the direction of my progress is correct.
Most of the time, WeChat messages are not that important. They may just be some greetings from family members and some gossips from friends.
But no one knows whether the next sentence of unvalued news is the key to affecting their own decisions. Replying messages in seconds can avoid regrets and make life more efficient.
Friends are stronger because of "returning in seconds"
Remember There is a sentence on Weibo : "Really good relationships are called "returning in seconds"."
There are many copywritings of the same type, and some people say "returning in seconds do not need money to test", "returning in seconds do not need to be accommodated everywhere", "returning in seconds do not require too much sense of ritual"...
When I first started to come into contact with these copywriting, I felt that it made sense, but after thinking deeply, I felt that maybe a really good relationship can not "returning in seconds", but the relationship that can "returning in seconds" will only be stronger.
It's like something happened to a friend.
When she and her husband first got married, the two were not in good condition. She didn't receive any gifts during holidays. She always said indifferently: "It doesn't matter whether there is a gift or not, just love me."
Later, the lives of the two of them got better and better. After her husband succeeded in doing business, he gave her a lot of gifts, and she would post them on Moments every time.
I teased and said, "It's okay if you don't say there is no gift now?"
She said, "It's OK, but it's definitely better to have gifts. Which woman doesn't want to receive flowers and gifts from her partner on Valentine's Day?"
Many principles in the world are common.
"Return in seconds" is not a criterion for judging whether a relationship is reliable. It may be able to "Return in seconds" and keep it fresh for longer.
Characters are more reliable because of "returning in seconds"
Some time ago, I chatted with an old friend and talked about "returning in seconds". He had been working hard in the workplace for many years and said: "People who don't return in seconds are mostly unreliable."
At that time, I laughed at him for his comments so casually, and he told me a story.
Before, when he was just the department head, he arranged an employee to deliver the materials. After the arrangement was made, the other party refused to reply, and did not even "received" and did not answer the phone.
More than three months have passed before I found the employee. When the other party was asked what he was doing, he said with confidence: "Didn't you ask me to deliver the materials?"
Indeed, this employee did things but did not know how to "upload and send them", which was actually disrespectful to people.
Someone once said: "What is a reliable person? In fact, it is very simple. You can explain everything, make every matter, and respond to everything."
people are all social animals, destined to interact with others, and learning to "reply" messages in seconds is a kind of respect for others and a correct attitude of taking responsibility in a timely manner.
This does not mean that you have to go back in seconds at any time, and people are too busy.
However, people who try to "return in seconds" as much as possible will definitely be more reliable in interpersonal communication, making people who come and go with others more at ease.
I have read a passage:
"The four difficult moments in life are that you have to wait for food when you eat halfway, you have to wait for water when you take a bath when you take a shower, you have to wait for advertisement when you watch videos, and you have to wait for the other party to reply when you chat for a day."
1927, Soviet psychologist Tsai Gnik discovered that people always remember unfinished work compared to the work that has been completed.
When a person starts chatting with you, it is actually equivalent to starting a job.
If you always don’t reply and make the other party obsessed with you, it is actually irresponsible to others. Such a person is difficult to be welcomed, and it is easy to suffer losses because he does not know how to reply to messages in time.
for more than one life, I hope we can all be a person who can "return in seconds" as much as possible, and reap our own happiness in "return in seconds".
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