htmlMa Jianjun Teacher 2 has known Teacher Ma for twenty years. The first time I met Teacher Ma was in 2002. Teacher Ma gave me the feeling that she was kind and had no airs. Teacher Ma and his wife Liu Yumei were both educated youths. Unfortunately, when Teacher Liu Yumei was in the army in Inner Mongolia, she was ineffective and married Teacher Ma for many years. The two have never had children, but this did not affect the relationship between Teacher Ma and his wife.
Teacher Ma had a relationship before marrying his wife. Teacher Ma was reluctant to mention this relationship because it was the pain of Teacher Ma’s life. The first time Teacher Ma told me about his experience was in 2005.
In March 1969, Ma Jianjun responded to the call and went to the first production team of Majiagou, Suide County, Yulin City, Shaanxi Province. Before going to the team, Ma Jianjun hoped to join the army, but during the physical examination, he failed, so Ma Jianjun chose to go to the countryside to go to the countryside to join the army.
Before coming to northern Shaanxi, Ma Jianjun had never traveled far away. His mother was afraid that Ma Jianjun would not get used to life in northern Shaanxi, so she gave Ma Jianjun 100 yuan before leaving, and asked him to go to northern Shaanxi to buy something he liked to eat.
After coming to northern Shaanxi, Ma Jianjun was actually a little disappointed. Although Ma Jianjun was mentally prepared, after seeing the life of his fellow villagers, Ma Jianjun was still very touched. Ma Jianjun has lived a worry-free life since he was a child. He did not expect that the life of his fellow villagers would be so hard.
The cave where the educated youth lived was not powered up yet, so they could only use kerosene lamps to illuminate. Before going to bed, Ma Jianjun would take time to read a book for a while. When he first came, everyone was not used to the rural life. Ma Jianjun often had insomnia at night and was not energetic when he worked during the day. After more than three months of adapting, Ma Jianjun gradually got used to life in northern Shaanxi.
The first year in northern Shaanxi for the Spring Festival, the captain Zhao Shuanzhu arranged for the educated youth to spend the New Year at the home of his fellow villagers. As the Chinese New Year approached, Ma Jianjun had been living in the home of his fellow villagers Wang Youcai. Wang Youcai was a son-in-law from the home, and had three daughters. Two daughters were already married. The youngest daughter Wang Xiaoling was only one year younger than Ma Jianjun.
Before the New Year, every household had to buy New Year's goods. The fellow villagers had been busy for a year, and they were willing to improve their food only during the New Year. Wang Xiaoling took Ma Jianjun to the market. The markets in the countryside were much more lively than in the city, especially during the New Year.
Ma Jianjun has never had the opportunity to spend the 100 yuan given by his mother. Ma Jianjun planned to take advantage of the Chinese New Year to improve his food. The educated youth usually eat vegetarian dishes, and they can't eat a few meals of meat all year round. For the first time, Ma Jianjun bought a lot of things. Wang Xiaoling felt that Ma Jianjun would not live, and spent a lot of money. She also said a few words to Ma Jianjun. When the two went back, because Ma Jianjun bought too many things, she hired a carriage.
Ma Jianjun was a little restrained when he celebrated the New Year at someone else's house for the first time. Fortunately, Wang Youcai's family is real and takes great care of Ma Jianjun. The New Year's Eve dinner was cooked by Wang Xiaoling. Although there were only four dishes, it was already very rich for Wang Youcai's family. Wang Youcai took out his own soju wine and drank it with Ma Jianjun. The first time he drank, Wang Jianjun got drunk.
Ma Jianjun lived at Wang Youcai's house for ten days. Although the time was short, Wang Youcai's family left a deep impression on Ma Jianjun, and Ma Jianjun and Wang Xiaoling became good friends because of this.
1972, when Wang Youcai went up the mountain to chop wood, he accidentally fell off the mountain and broke one of his legs. It was Ma Jianjun who hired a carriage to take Wang Youcai to the hospital and paid the medical expenses for Wang Youcai. Because Wang Youcai was seriously injured, the doctor said he wanted to have an operation immediately. Wang Youcai's family's life was already very difficult and he couldn't afford the money for the operation. Wang Xiaoling found Ma Jianjun and hoped that Ma Jianjun could help her.
At that time, Ma Jianjun had no money on him, so he had no choice but to borrow money from the educated youth who had been in the army. In order to raise money, Ma Jianjun also bought his favorite pen and a watch at a low price. He borrowed 200 yuan from all over the place and paid for the operation on Wang Youcai.
Wang Youcai's family was very grateful to Ma Jianjun. In 1974, Wang Youcai found Ma Jianjun and wanted to betroth his daughter to him. After careful consideration, Ma Jianjun rejected Wang Youcai's kindness. Although Ma Jianjun liked Wang Xiaoling in his heart, Ma Jianjun did not intend to stay in northern Shaanxi. Moreover, before coming to northern Shaanxi to work in the army, his mother specifically told him not to fall in love with a rural girl.
Ma Jianjun knew that even if he was willing to marry Wang Xiaoling, his parents would not agree. Seeing that Ma Jianjun disagreed, Wang Youcai would no longer be embarrassed for Ma Jianjun.
In 1975, Wang Youcai hired a son-in-law for his daughter. Before Wang Xiaoling got married, she also looked for Ma Jianjun, but Ma Jianjun refused. When Wang Xiaoling got married, Ma Jianjun did not go, but hid alone in the dormitory and wiped tears secretly. If Ma Jianjun was born in the countryside, he would not hesitate to marry Wang Xiaoling, because Wang Xiaoling is indeed a good girl. Wang Xiaoling is cheerful, gentle and kind, and is also beautiful. It’s a pity that she and Ma Jianjun are destined to be destined to be together, and it is difficult for lovers to get married.
1977 After resumed the college entrance examination , Ma Jianjun was admitted to Peking University and returned to the city. After graduation, Ma Jianjun and Liu Yumei got married. The only regret is that because of Liu Yumei's health, Ma Jianjun and Liu Yumei have been married for more than 40 years and have not had children.
Now Ma Jianjun and his wife have retired. After many years of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife has always been very good. Wang Xiaoling, who is far away in northern Shaanxi, died of illness as early as 1996. Ma Jianjun said that only when he is old can he understand that companionship is the longest confession.
