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Another thing is, that is, "reputation". Furthermore, the credibility of noble people is generally guaranteed, while scammers have no credibility, because scammers are used to not keeping their word, used to being sloppy, and used to being trustless.
So, If we want to distinguish between noble people and liars in real life, we can also start with the word "reputation" and can tentatively see if someone can say it.
It’s like some people say to us: “In a few days, I will definitely help you do something.” However, after the agreed time, he always pushes back and perfunctorily deal with us, then he may be lying to us and hiding something from us.
Just like some people say to us, "You work with me, how long will I get you a car or a house after that." When we really believe his words and really go to work with him, we have worked for a long time but got nothing, then such a person is not trustworthy.
In addition, there is a relatively core logic. In the process of dealing with people, 4 people usually give without asking for rewards, while scammers will use various means and routines to make us pay for them, but never think about what kind of benefits and benefits they will give us.
This is like some factories forcing employees to work overtime but not paying employees overtime. In fact, this is essentially equivalent to a liar's behavior, which squeezes employees' labor and fills their own pockets. For such factories or enterprises, it is only a matter of time before they can be defeated.
similarly, for most ordinary people, if we meet a noble person, he will never say to us: "You take out something first, and then I will help you...", but will pay more attention to: "What can I help you?" This is the thinking logic of noble people.
And what about the scammer? The thinking logic of scammers is usually what they ask for, "What do I say to you and what kind of things can you give me." They have no thinking and mind to help people. They just think about "How to deceive people? How to fool people? How to deceive others? How to deceive other people's good things into their own hands?" This is the thinking dynamics of scammers.
So, if a person is just under the name of "helping us", in fact, revealing the behavior that induces us to take some action, then he may be lying to us.
Generally speaking, scammers have no helping heart, while noble people have a strong helping heart.
Changyan Changyu:
How to judge whether you are meeting a noble person or a liar? If the other party is always helping us but rarely tells us how to repay him, then he is most likely our noble person. In this case, even if the other party does not want us to repay him, we must also know how to repay him.
If there is always a word between the other party's words, "You have to give me some...", there is always a tendency to "receive what benefits from us" and not "help us do something", then he is most likely lying to us. In this case, no matter what the other party promises us, we should not believe it easily, it is best to stay away.
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