There is an old saying that goes: Only by raising children can you know your parents’ kindness .
When you become parents, you will understand how hard and difficult it is for parents to raise themselves. They have paid a lot, especially for mothers. For the sake of their children, they often give all their .
When we lament the greatness of maternal love, there are some women who also desire to be mothers, but due to physical reasons, pregnancy is a luxury for them. Among them, there is a woman whose body is not a normal person, and is a "half-piece" .
Lu Juan
Her name is Lu Juan, she is a "post-80s" and comes from a small village in Hubei . When she was 4 years old, she started her single parent life due to her parents' divorce.
Although the family is broken and the mother's care is lacking, the father's wholehearted care has not made Lu Juan feel that she has any shortcomings. She is still growing up happily like other children.
But tomorrow or accident may not necessarily come first.
When Lu Juan was in junior high school, one day after school, she walked home with her friends as usual, but suddenly rushed out of the lane opposite and drove directly towards her. Suddenly, she didn't even see clearly, and she was hit out, but the car didn't stop after hitting her. Then she pressed over Lu Juan again, just pressing her legs, and Lu Juan fell into a coma on the spot.
Lu Juan, who thought she would never see her father again, woke up and she burst into tears when she saw her father. Her father looked at the weak Lu Juan and kept crying with pain.
It's been fine all day, why did this happen after school as usual?
After she slowly regained consciousness, she wanted to sit up and drink some water, but she felt that her legs could not use any strength. When she pulled her pants with her hands, she suddenly found that her legs had disappeared, and both legs were gone. It was like a dream!
She tried hard to call her father, and her father cried and hugged her to comfort her and said, "Children, you have to be strong. With dad here, dad is your legs..."
It turned out that the driver who hit Lu Juan was driving under the influence of drunkenness. When he hit Lu Juan, he didn't realize that he had hit someone. It was not until he pressed Lu Juan's leg that he realized that he had caused trouble. but it was too late .
, and Lu Juan's legs were seriously injured and lost too much blood due to , and the doctor could no longer save her. For the sake of her life, the doctor had to notify her father in an emergency and amputate Lu Juan, so that she could save her life.
Which father can accept the reality of losing his daughter? There was no choice but to follow the doctor's advice and sign the surgery consent form. He cried and begged the doctor, "Doctor, you must save my daughter. She is still young, you must save her!"
In the end, Lu Juan's life was not serious, but her legs could never come back.
When encountering such a thing at the age of the flower season, which child can easily start over? , who was originally cheerful, instantly became self-pitying. She had to sit in a wheelchair every day. Whenever she was in a physical education class, she watched her classmates' happy activities in the playground, and her heart was like a knife.
, like everyone who encounters an accident, will have a process of venting and accepting reality. Lu Juan is the same, but fortunately, Lu Juan's classmates encouraged her together, chatting with her every day and helping her activities, and her father kept encouraging her. Slowly, Lu Juan regained her confidence again, no longer complained, and actively lived .
"half person"Lu Juan
Although she is physically disabled, she does not want to be a burden to her father for the rest of her life. She wants to support herself with her own hands. Although she cannot move as conveniently as a normal person, she can do some work within her ability.
She feels that everyone's life is inseparable from mobile phones, and if the mobile phone cannot be shorter, there will be some failures. If you can learn to repair your mobile phone, you can also support yourself , and your physical condition is also suitable for this kind of work, so she wants to study hard.
After she told her father what she thought, she didn't expect that her father was very supportive and took her to Wuhan to find a good school to study. She also said to her, "Don't worry about doing what you want to do."
got the support of her father, which made Lu Juan feel full of confidence. She said to her father: "Dad, I will definitely study hard. In the future, I will not only support myself, but also support you."
Lu Juan at work
Facts is just as Lu Juan said at the time. She studied very hard and serious. Later, after she finished her studies, she found a job to repair her mobile phone. Although she didn't earn much, she worked actively every day. Gradually, not only earned enough money to support herself, but also gave her father some money every month .
Seeing that her daughter was at the age of her marriage, her father told her, "If you meet someone you like, you must speak up boldly."
But she also joked about herself, "Who would be willing to marry a disabled person."
It's a coincidence that when Lu Juan was working,
l1 joined a forum for disabled people . There is such a person in the forum. When chatting, is very special, very positive and optimistic . After a period of chatting, slowly, and they chat more and more, and they become more and more familiar with . Sometimes she still fantasizes that it would be great if she could meet, and maybe there would be a different intersection.
House He Shoukui
One day she boldly sent a message to the other party: "Do we want to meet?"
Unexpectedly, the other party replied quickly: "Okay." This made Lu Juan very happy.
This netizen is a young man from Northeast China named He Shoukui. He also has some physical disabilities. When he was 7 years old, he suffered from polio and was disabled in his right leg. He usually had to walk with crutches, but he was positive and sunny and often told jokes to make Lu Juan happy, which made Lu Juan’s boring life give some light.
Knowing the misfortune that Lu Juan had encountered, He Shoukui understood it very well, and Lu Juan also understood it very well that He Shoukui had been unable to grow up. In the tacit chat with each other, both parties unknowingly developed a good impression and dependence on each other .
After all, you can't hide it if you love someone.
On the day when He Shoukui agreed to meet Lu Juan, He came to Lu Juan's house early with a crutch in one hand and flowers in the other. After Lu Juan came out, he still knelt on one knee with difficulty and gave the flowers to her.
This is the scene that moved Lu Juan to tears. Not long after, the two held a wedding.
wedding photos of the couple
After marriage, He Shoukui took care of all the housework and took care of his wife carefully. The couple spent every day laughing and joy.
After marriage, Lu Juan discovered that He Shoukui seemed to like children . Whenever relatives and friends brought their children to their homes, or neighbors came to play, he would patiently take them to play and cook them with delicious food. This scene made her secretly decide in her heart that She also wanted to give birth to a child for her husband .
Later, she went to the hospital for a series of examinations. The doctor said: "Your physical condition is naturally the chance of pregnancy is relatively low, but you can try IVF, which may be successful, but with your physical condition, it will be much harder than ordinary people after pregnancy."
Lu Juan
Later, Lu Juan told He Shoukui about her wanting a child. She said that her parents divorced when she was very young and had no maternal love, but she longed to be a mother. She usually saw He Shoukui liked children so much, and she even wanted to have a child for He Shoukui .
But He Shoukui was very opposed. He couldn't bear to let his wife go through the pregnancy period The pain of ordinary people does not want their wife to risk having children. After Lu Juan patiently comforted her husband, He Shoukui finally agreed to in his wife's "soft and hard bubbles".
Disabled people like her will not be so smooth in pregnancy.
When doing IVF, Lu Juan needs to get a lot of injections, and many of them cannot use anesthesia and painkillers. Fortunately, IVF successfully html l3, but Lu Juan will face greater dangers and hardships next.
Lu Juan during pregnancy
For high paraplegia, her blood pressure is lower than that of ordinary people. Once pregnant, her blood pressure will begin to rise as the fetus grows, and she can hardly move. After long-term pressure, it is easy to form thrombosis , which is very dangerous for both adults and children. Moreover, in the late stage of pregnancy, she will have to bear the bigger belly. She was unable to move and couldn't sit still.
Even if there was such a great danger, Lu Juan still faced the difficulties. No matter how difficult she was, she insisted on going through it. Finally, a few months later, she ushered in her own dawn. successfully gave birth to a pair of twin boys .
Twin sons
hugged her two cute children. Lu Juan felt that the crime she suffered before was worth it, and He Shoukui also hugged his wife and children excitedly. .
Then the couple took care of the two children every day, and the family was immersed in the joy of the children.
But bad luck once again came with the laughter of the family.
When the child was two years old, one of the children had problems with their physical problems. If they wanted to be cured, it would require a huge surgical fee, and they really couldn't get it out.
by chance, They saw the program " Departing for Happiness " broadcast by CCTV. They were so ill that they also applied to this column.
on the program
Unexpectedly, they really received invitations from the program and went to the TV station to record the program. After publicity, they received donations from all walks of life from . Soon the surgery fee was almost collected. they immediately sent the child to the hospital for treatment. Fortunately, they were not afraid of it. , the child did not miss the best treatment time. After a series of treatments, the child recovered successfully .
After this incident, Lu Juan's family thanked the program team and many kind-hearted people for their help. They had no choice but to repay. often taught their children that they must study hard when they grow up and repay the society in the future.
Since having these two cute children, wife is busy taking care of the child Zi, I couldn't work for a while, so He Shoukui had to work harder to make money , but in his spare time, they would post daily videos of children on the Internet platform, but unexpectedly attracted the attention of many netizens .
All
However, some netizens questioned their family: "Adults are disabled and have to have children. Is this approach responsible for the children? "
Someone else said: "I have this family conditions, and Is it worth it to have two more? ”
Regarding netizens’ doubts, Lu Juan responded to everyone, The couple will do their best to give the children the best and be qualified parents.
In addition to netizens' attention, Lu Juan even earned some income. Everyone expressed their agreement when they looked at the optimistic life of this family. With more and more netizens' attention, Lu Juan began to recommend the specialties of her hometown to everyone on the live broadcast platform, which are all green and pollution-free. As the popularity becomes more and more popular, it has also attracted some local companies to cooperate with them , and the sales are very considerable.
Lu Juan and her two children
Their family's life has become fulfilling and happy unknowingly. Parents and children are healthy, they have a busy career, and their family income is stable and considerable. Isn't this the birth state that everyone expects?
Lu Juan and her husband did it, and in the family's positive attitude.
Looking at their happy family, I couldn't help but sigh that fate is unfair, but fate is fair. Working hard is not distinguishing between high and low, and success is the same.
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