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Since you have chosen to break up, you should keep a distance from your ex. If you can, don’t contact me again. Don’t be connected with your ex after starting a new relationship. It is best to wait until you really let go of your ex before choosing to start a new relationship.
Deng Yao (pseudonym) still fell in love with her ex after getting married, and kept in touch with her ex. She also insisted on sending her ex abroad despite her husband's dissuasion. After Deng Yao sent her ex home, her husband had already prepared a divorce agreement .
2Deng Yao and Tang Jun (pseudonym) were originally a couple with very good relationships, but because both parents disagreed, the two were forced to break up. After the breakup, Deng Yao's parents forced Deng Yao to go on a blind date.
Deng Yao met Li Hai (pseudonym) during a blind date. It happened that Li Hai and Tang Jun were somewhat similar. Deng Yao felt that she couldn't marry Tang Jun anyway, so it didn't matter whoever she married would marry.
Deng Yao married Li Hai like this, although she didn't love Li Hai. After getting married, Deng Yao was not willing to delete Tang Jun's contact information and still kept in touch with Tang Jun. Although the two people occasionally chat, they did not act any more than the rules.
Since Deng Yao got married, although she and Tang Jun have occasionally contacted each other, they have never met each other again. Two years later, Tang Jun and Deng Yao said that he was going abroad and might never come back, so he settled abroad.
After knowing that Tang Jun was going abroad and might not come back in the future, Deng Yao made a bold decision. Deng Yao wanted to hide it from everyone, see Tang Jun again and send him abroad to make up for his previous regrets.
Deng Yao originally wanted to give Tang Jun away, so she forgot him and manage her life well. But Li Hai accidentally discovered the chat records between Tang Jun and Deng Yao. Although the chat content of the two people was not ambiguous, Li Hai was still very uncomfortable when he saw this chat record.
Especially after knowing that Deng Yao wanted to send her ex to his ex abroad, Li Hai was even more angry. Li Hai looked at Deng Yao who was choosing clothes and was furious. He opened the chat record directly and placed his phone in front of Deng Yao.
Li Hai asked Deng Yao if she really wanted to go to the airport to see her ex. Deng Yao put the clothes in her hand on the bed and took a deep breath and said that after Tang Jun went abroad, she might never return to China. She just wanted to say goodbye to the past.
Li Hai pulled Deng Yao up on the bed and asked Deng Yao to face him. Li Hai gritted his teeth and said, "Deng Yao, you are married? Do you know that you are going to the airport to send your ex? What do you think of me? Do you take my husband seriously?"
As Li Hai kept asking questions, Deng Yao cried and said, "I didn't do anything, I just wanted to send him off. Before he went abroad, it was that simple. Do you have such a fierce reaction? It seems that I did something that I'm sorry for you."
Li Hai said that since he knew about this, he absolutely did not agree with Deng Yao going to the airport to send his ex. Deng Yao said that Li Hai has no right to restrict her personal freedom, and that what she wants to do is her business, and no one else can control it.
Deng Yao's stubborn eyes hurt Li Hai's heart, making Li Hai feel that Deng Yao didn't take him seriously at all. Li Hai angrily hugged the pillow and quilt and went to the second bedroom to sleep.
By the second day, it started raining, which made Deng Yao feel even worse. Deng Yao got up early and started putting on makeup. After putting on makeup and changing clothes, she was about to go out.
Li Hai stood in front of Deng Yao when she was about to go out, grabbed Deng Yao's arm and refused to let her go. Deng Yao broke free and looked at Li Hai with a begging look and said, "Tang Jun will go abroad today, I will send him one last time."
Li Hai said that Deng Yao would really dare to send Tang Jun, so she divorced her. Deng Yao did not take what Li Hai said to heart and was going out directly.Li Hai grabbed Deng Yao and said that he really wanted to choose Tang Jun between him and Tang Jun?
Deng Yao said helplessly: "I just went to send Tang Jun to see him off, and I came back after the delivery. I didn't want to go abroad with him. Do you have to understand me? I just wanted to say goodbye to the past. You can't agree with this. Are you so narrow-minded?"
Li Hai said: "You go to send your ex, where do you let me be my husband's face? If this is nothing, will it be counted when you put your cuckold on my head? Do you have to make me a joke in the eyes of others?"
Deng Yao didn't say anything, but her eyes were full of impatient. Li Hai looked at Deng Yao with annoyance and let go. Deng Yao took an umbrella and hurried out.
Deng Yao and Tang Jun had a meal together, and the two of them were sighing when they talked about the past. Tang Jun and Deng Yao stayed together all morning, and Tang Jun and Deng Yao also bought a necklace for Deng Yao as a souvenir. After Deng Yao took Tang Jun to the airport, Tang Jun hugged Deng Yao tightly and it took a long time to let go.
Deng Yao kept crying on the way back, and she burst into tears with her makeup. Deng Yao wiped away her tears, but after returning home, she saw a room full of relatives and friends. Deng Yao was very shocked and didn't understand why.
When Deng Yao was confused, Li Hai took out a divorce agreement and asked Deng Yao to sign it. Deng Yao said she was just going to send a friend, did Li Hai create such a big battle?
Li Hai said whether he was a friend Deng Yao knew it well. He was a man and couldn't stand his wife going to send her ex. Deng Yao felt that Li Hai was simply unreasonable. Looking at the relatives, Deng Yao felt her face burning.
Deng Yao told Li Hai to stop making trouble, so that there would be no divorce in such a small matter. Relatives and friends around him were also persuading Li Hai to calm down, and Deng Yao's parents began to scold Deng Yao. The family was in chaos, which made Deng Yao, who was already in a bad mood, even more annoyed.
But Li Hai still insisted on divorce. He looked at the newly worn necklace around Deng Yao's neck and said that a man could not stand this, and today's marriage must be divorced.
As you and I said to each other, Deng Yao agreed to divorce Li Hai in annoyed manner. Li Hai and Deng Yao left behind a group of relatives and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.
3After breaking up, you must correct your mindset and not let your life be disturbed by a broken heart. Since you have chosen to break up, you must properly handle your relationship with your ex and keep a good distance from your ex.
Through the above story, we can understand two truths:
1. If you break up, keep a good distance from your ex and don’t be connected.
After the boyfriend and girlfriend broke up, it is impossible to become friends again, because they have loved each other vigorously and cannot become ordinary friends again. It is difficult for men and women to have pure friendship, let alone a breakup of boyfriend and girlfriend.
After breaking up, keep a good distance from your ex and don’t be in the name of a friend anymore. If you still love each other without being able to do so, don’t break up and face the difficulties ahead together. But since you have chosen to break up, you must be able to take it and let it go, and don’t disturb each other anymore.
Since you have chosen to break up, try to divide it cleanly and neatly and don’t leave any room for anything. Otherwise, it will be bothered and difficult to get rid of the shadow of broken love, and it will be difficult to start the next relationship.
After breaking up, be sure to keep a distance from your ex. If you can, don’t contact me. Try to block and delete friends and let your ex disappear from your life. This way, we can better let go of our ex, no longer feel depressed and start a new life.
2. After you really let go of the previous relationship, start a new relationship.
Don’t start a new relationship casually because the last relationship ended in failure. This is both disrespectful to oneself and disrespect to the other party. There is nothing wrong with the other party, why should it be regarded as a tool to forget another person?
It is not scary to have a love affair, what is scary is that you can't get out of it. Learn to really let go and start another relationship.Don’t start a new relationship, and think about your ex in your heart.
What has passed has passed. Since you can't start over, learn to forget. After you completely forget and don’t care, start a new relationship well. This is to be responsible for the beginning and end of the previous relationship, and to be responsible for a new relationship.
Since you are separated, you must come out decisively and not be trapped in the shadow of a broken heart. This can only get deeper and deeper. Don’t try to rely on others to forget your ex after you get stuck.
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