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Chat with outsiders. When choosing a topic, be sure to seek profit and avoid harm, and strive to be silent in time.
1. Don’t talk to outsiders about the length of others
Even if outsiders know others, they are not intimate. Therefore, when you chat with outsiders, it is best not to talk about other people’s topics. If outsiders deliberately guide you to talk about other people’s topics, you’d better control your tongue. At best, while saying some good things from others, change the topic as soon as possible to avoid losing your words. The reason why outsiders talk to you about other people's topics is because they deliberately provoke discord. In the future, they either tell others directly or spread what you say until they indirectly let others know. In addition, outsiders who talk about the right and wrong of others will still talk about your right and wrong with others behind their backs, allowing you to experience the fear of people's words.
2. Don’t talk to outsiders about pensions or deposits
Pensions or deposits are different in every household, so you have to keep silent. Even if outsiders ask, you need to avoid talking. If you talk about your family’s pension or deposit with an outsider, your pension is far more than yours or yours, you will most likely look down on you and even sarcastically; outsiders who are lower than your pension or less than yours are very likely to be jealous of you. Besides, there are ears in the partition walls. Whenever outsiders who have leaked the news and have made up their minds, they either prepare to steal or think about it every day and night after they know it. Violating the principle of not revealing money will lead to hidden dangers that will attract wind.
3. Don’t talk to outsiders about prejudice against your family
Even if you have prejudice against your family, don’t talk to outsiders. Many outsiders only care about you on the surface and do not want you to live a good life in their hearts. When you talk about prejudice against your family, whether it is prejudice against your children, or prejudice against your daughter-in-law or son-in-law, outsiders will like it. While they are secretly happy, they will not forget to stand on your side and fan the flames. Therefore, if you have one on the surface and another on the other behind the scenes, outsiders are very likely to be ruthless. When you talk to outsiders about family prejudices, it will sooner or later spread to the corresponding family's ears. External troubles will aggravate internal troubles. As your relationship with your family gets worse and worse, it will be consistent with the thoughts of outsiders, and outsiders will build greater happiness on your greater pain.
4. Don’t talk to outsiders about the privacy of couples
The couple has been running a marriage for decades. The privacy will only be more, not less, and outsiders will feel curious. Whether it is the privacy related to the body or the privacy related to the psychology or physiology, outsiders want to satisfy their curiosity. You must keep your mouth shut. If outsiders know it clearly, even if there is no negative impact on the couple at the moment, it will become an uncertain factor that harms the couple.
Conclusion: When talking to outsiders, you must be careful when talking. It is best to only say three parts to everyone. Speaking is a verbal action, so you need to think twice before you act.
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