A friend cried to me and said that she knew her husband had cheated on him and wanted to get a divorce. I subconsciously advised her not to leave. Because since ancient times, it is impossible for a person to love only one person in his life. Even if he divorces him, finding another person may not necessarily be loyal to the marriage. Since there is the same uncertainty about your future husband, it is better not to divorce directly. You will be much happier if you treat your husband as a tool to make money instead of treating him as your lover.
Hong Kong star Gigi Lai
My friend is very beautiful, a bit like the Hong Kong star Gigi Lai, especially when she smiles, she has two dimples, and is cheerful and generous. To be honest, her husband felt that he was not good-looking for the first time when he saw him. He was short and ordinary in appearance. He thought to himself how could a friend find such a husband, and he didn't look worthy of it. I can only say that love makes people blind. She and her husband are high school classmates and are in love on campus. Her husband did not get into college. After graduating from high school, he went to work in the provincial capital. His friend was admitted to college. After four years of college, there were better boys who pursued her, but she kept her true heart. After graduating from college, I got married after working for one year. The young couple bought a house in the county town with a loan. Her husband works as a sales betel nut, but he couldn't make money at the beginning. Later, my work was stable and I could earn tens of thousands of yuan a month. Not long after marriage, my friend became pregnant. Her husband gave her 5,000 yuan a month to pay the remaining living expenses for the mortgage, and her life was very difficult. My friend is a very motivated person. While resigning while he was pregnant, he took the civil service examination . He was lucky enough to go ashore and was assigned to the municipal prison in the township. She majored in college and studied law. She also passed the lawyer qualification certificate exam and obtained the A-level lawyer certificate . Later, she worked hard to get a better unit, and encountered another policy and became the leader of the department.
I just want to explain that my friend and her husband are better than their work and appearance, whether they are working or looking. In this way, my friend never thought that her husband would cheat and dared to cheat. If you are shocked and angry, you must divorce. I asked her how she found out that her husband cheated on her and if it was a misunderstanding. I didn’t believe that the man had such a good wife and even cheated on her. She said that she had been hanging up after talking on the phone recently and asked him to come back to see me and my child, but he also refused to be busy with work. I said I went to see him on the weekend, and I said I was sick by car and was too lazy to run away, so I would come back to see us when I had time. Anyway, it sounds nice, but I don’t meet each other. The more I think about it, the more I feel something is wrong. I went to his place to find him without saying hello. I asked her, have she caught the scene? She said no, but his attitude was very problematic, a panic-covering attitude. Then I checked his phone and saw ambiguous information that I had no time to delete. He spoke sweetly to others and asked about his well-being. I said it is normal for you two to separate men to act out on occasions. As long as you are still a Gu family, it’s fine. Besides, the child is still young, what should I do if I get divorced? She said he didn't have a good job in the provincial capital, and I don't know why he just refused to come back. He could live a life by running a breakfast shop or farming crayfish at home! Since he is so reluctant to leave the colorful world outside, let him go. I said you are just angry now. The current Civil Code does not regard cheating as a big mistake. Besides, even if he cheats, he will not want to divorce you. According to reality, if he divorces you, it is completely impossible for him to find another wife with such conditions. He was just lonely and was playing outside. My friend said angrily, I don’t care about him so much, I feel disgusted when I think of him, and I have to divorce.
At the end of the story, his husband admits his mistake in tears and keeps her. She didn't make up for the divorce, but she no longer had any sense of trust in him, and she also had denial and doubts about herself.
Alas, in today's society, whether it is a big city or a rural area, whether it is heard or seen with your own eyes. Men and women always look for lovers outside of marriage, and they take pride in this, thinking that they have infinite charm, but they don’t know that they are disloyal to their marriage, which has seriously hurt their partner. Perhaps only if a scumbag is paired with a scumbag, and an honest person is paired with an honest person, can world peace and no one is hurt.
