text: The most romantic thing Picture: From the Internet
1.
When I got home from get off work in the evening, I made a few dishes that Wang Wei liked, poured the wine he loved to drink, and reached out to his hand and shook it a few times in front of him with a smile.
Wang asked puzzledly when he saw me looking flattering: What's wrong with your hand?
"Husband, what do you think I'm missing on my hands?"
Wang Wei took a sip of wine and ate the dishes, casually saying that there was a lack of hand cream.
"I'm talking about rings!" He clearly thought about it, so I just pointed it out.
A few days ago, I went shopping for vegetables with Wang Wei's cousin-law. My cousin said that she just wanted a ring, and my cousin immediately spent more than 2,000 yuan to buy her a 5 grams gold ring.
The bright ring on my cousin's hand made me feel uncomfortable. I asked Wang Wei several times, but he never let it go.
This time I picked up the ring again, and Wang Wei put down the chopsticks "pa": I have said it many times, and when I buy the house, I will buy it for you. You can choose whatever you want!
always buys a house first. He uses this sentence to block me from all kinds of things. No time I didn't listen to him, he turned red with my eyes.
It seems that we only need the money for this ring when buying a house. People buy it when they say they want it, but they have never seen anyone with great business and they still need whatever they want.
"Buy whatever you think, don't even think about the house. Can you be more peaceful and live a good life!" Wang Wei couldn't tell me, and his face was cold, and the volume was higher again.
"Why is it not a good life to buy a ring?" I was so angry that I stood up suddenly, and with a "bang", I knocked the wine bottle on the table to the ground and broke it.
Wang Wei simply threw the wine glass and threw the chopsticks, and I rushed to the door and entered the room angrily.
2.
Wang Wei's sting makes me almost become an internal injury.
At that time, we worked in the same factory. I had long noticed that this king is the king who does not smoke or play cards and only eats one bun for each breakfast.
By chance, Wang Wei helped me correct a big mistake in work. In order to express his gratitude to me for treating him to dinner, he rushed to pay for me. Later, he took the initiative to treat me to dinner. I saw that he was always frugal and did not dare to order more.
After several contacts, I realized that it was really not easy for him.
As early as when Wang Wei was ten years old, his father died of illness. His mother worked alone inside and outside, which made her body exhausted, but she still insisted on saving all the money for medical treatment and medicine to pay for Wang Wei to go to school.
Wang Wei felt sorry for his mother. At a young age, he followed his neighbor's grandmother and tied up the vegetables picked from his own fields in small handfuls. He went out to the street to sell vegetables early to make money, and then carefully wrapped the money earned with a piece of cloth.
The first thing he does after school every day is to pick up eggs, which is the only nutritional supplement in the family that can be used to nourish his mother's body.
However, when he was in junior high school, Wang Wei's mother's condition worsened, and the family couldn't afford to pay more money to treat her mother. Wang Wei took the initiative to drop out of school and went out to work. In order not to hold back, the mother finally gritted her teeth and took the money sent back by Wang Wei to see a doctor.
After my mother recovered from illness, Wang Wei worked hard to make money and thought about buying a house so that her mother could live a good life. Wang Wei like
made me feel inexplicably sad. Every morning afterwards, I took the initiative to bring him a breakfast.
3.
Only after we determined the relationship did I know that he had a relationship before. The girl was very beautiful and always liked to buy a lot of beautiful clothes, wearing them every day; she also had to buy various cosmetics, and changed her bags from time to time.
Wang Wei, who has always been frugal, could not tolerate such consumption by girls, so the two of them had constant conflicts and finally parted in disagreement.
Wang Wei said I am different. I never ask for leave at work, nor do I buy any cosmetics and new clothes.
He also said that I can live a life, which is very suitable for life. I was happy about this sentence for a long time at that time, and I was praising me!
We all like each other's down-to-earth situation and decided to get married after half a year of dating.
I told my family about the situation of Wang Wei’s family. My parents didn’t want the man to owe a lot of debts and let me suffer in the past, so I didn’t mention the matter of Sanjin .
Wang Wei’s mother reduced the bride price from 50,000 to 20,000. My family agreed without saying a word, but Wang Wei still put on a bad face in front of me for a few days, which made me very uncomfortable.
After marriage, whenever I went shopping with Wang Wei, I was as nervous as if I was facing a big enemy. He didn't count on bargaining, but he also forced the store to bring some ginger and garlic. I blushed and didn't dare to look at the disgusting look handed over by the store owner.
Sometimes I also want to buy a few clothes willfully. Seeing his face gradually getting darker, I felt the illusion that his ex-girlfriend had been on his body, and I swallowed it back when I said something.
What's more excessive is that when he even saw my shoes off, he would say it was not raining and let me wear them again. I was so angry that I really wanted to throw my shoes on his face.
As long as he is by my side, I dare not buy anything, for fear of going against his will and making him unhappy.
In order to buy a house, I can save as much as possible, but this kind of life that I want to buy but dare not buy makes me feel very depressed. In fact, as long as he can buy me a little thing I like, I will feel that life is not that hard.
This time I insisted on buying a ring, and what I wanted was clearly just his intention.
4.
The salary was paid that day. I excitedly went to buy a ring as soon as I got home. On the way home, I regretted it.
When Wang Wei arrived at home, he really turned dark and threw the bowls and chopsticks in his hand.
I quickly reached over and explained, "Look, a very small diamond is only a few hundred yuan."
"It's only a few hundred yuan! I buy another bag tomorrow and buy a few more clothes the day after tomorrow. The salary for a month will be gone. You were not like this before!" He was almost angry. A ring worth hundreds of yuan, and he actually called me a prodigal girl!
"The ring is really that important? What's the difference between you and her!" He knocked me open with his shoulders and walked straight out of the door.
After that day, Wang Wei ignored me with a stern face all day long, and my heart was also filled with coldness by him.
And the next thing pulled the crack between us even bigger.
That time I was washing the dishes, and Wang Wei was answering the phone with my cell phone, his face as dark as charcoal, but he said, "I just bought a ring of 8,000 or 9,000 yuan for Li Mei and sent it to my house again. I don't have that much now, why don't you let my brother get some first?"
I didn't know what happened at home, and I snatched my phone. I heard that my father fell. I was so scared that I asked my mother to take my father to the hospital as soon as possible and never delayed the treatment time. After hanging up the phone, I turned around and went to get the bank card. Wang Wei immediately stopped me and said calmly that he should let my brother take care of it.
"That's my dad, what if I get hurt my bones?" I pushed him away and ran out with my bank card without looking back.
"I only gave 20,000 yuan to get married last year. They couldn't have no money on their hands!" He chased him and said angrily. I stared at him coldly with tears in my eyes, and he finally let go of my hand.
Fortunately, my father didn't hurt his bones, he just needed to rest for a while. I felt relieved, but couldn't help crying.
5.
From this time on, we have become more and more embarrassed to get along with each other, and no one wants to speak first.
For him, in order to avoid me and have dinner, the king was taken to play cards. I felt uncomfortable during this period of time, and my diarrhea has not improved for more than ten days. It was too late to talk to him.
When I was working that day, Sister Fang on our assembly line had a minor operation some time ago and finally got well in cultivation and came to work. After she complained, why did I lose weight, she said with great gratitude: Fortunately, I have a benign tumor. If it is malignant, my breasts need to be removed! I was frightened by hearing it.
She sighed like a lifetime after the disaster: This person can do anything, but he can't be sick; it's not scary to be sick, but he is afraid that it will be troublesome if he delays it as a serious illness.
I was shocked and told Wang Wei about this when I got home. Wang Wei disagreed and said that I scared myself. Whoever has nothing to do with it, let me wait and see it again, maybe it will be fine. I thought so too, but when I said it from his mouth, I felt very uncomfortable when I heard it. What if there is something wrong?
He asked me to prepare some antidiarrhea medicine at the pharmacy, but I refused and went to the hospital by myself. After gastroscopy , the doctor said it was chronic superficial gastritis . Fortunately, I checked it in time. If I didn’t pay attention, it would be troublesome to turn into chronic atrophic gastritis. It is very likely to become cancerous in a few years.
I went home with the medicine prepared by the doctor. I felt scared. I really listened to Wang Wei's words, but just bought some medicine to take it casually, and my health will be really over.
After returning home, I didn’t get any words of comfort from Wang Wei.
He looked incredible: How is that possible? Nine out of ten people have gastroenteritis , and gastric cancer ! If you listen to the doctor, you will tell if you are not sick, and even minor illnesses will become serious illnesses. Just talk about my cousin's wife. When she gave birth to a baby, the doctor said that her fetus was too big and she wanted to have a caesarean section. She insisted on giving birth to it herself. The hospital just wants to charge more money!
His indifference made my heart fall to the bottom in an instant. I trembled with my lips and asked: Then what would you do if I was the case?
He said that natural birth is good for children and breast milk is enough. He said casually, and I felt so heartbroken.
I can't imagine that he has experienced the fear and panic of losing his loved ones. Why does he care so much about it when he comes to me?
In the final analysis, my life and death are irrelevant to him.
6.
After seeing all this, I no longer worry about his ignorance. I follow my own feelings and no longer live a life of twist. As long as I want to buy, I will buy it back without hesitation. So, our quarrel was staged again, and the two of them lived a physical and mental exhaustion.
When I filed for divorce, Wang Wei was stunned for a moment, but he still nodded and agreed.
After divorce, I quit from the factory and had no intersection with Wang Wei anymore.
I learned to make up the colors of clothing and cloth, and formed a team with several sisters in the same industry, running in various clothing factories in groups. The manufacturer that didn't have time to go directly mailed the clothing express delivery. We then expanded our team and rented an office warehouse, and the efficiency became higher and higher.
After two years, I gradually had some savings at hand, so I paid for a down payment for a house, and my life has really stabilized. Later, when I heard my former colleague talk about Wang Wei’s current changes, I couldn’t help but feel sad.
Wang Wei has been very lucky since he became obsessed with playing cards. After winning for a while, he lost his mind to work. He always absent from work and plays cards day and night.
colleagues all said that he must have been trapped. Everyone advised him, but he refused to listen. He lost all the money he saved a few years ago and owed a lot of debts. Those people heard that he lost his job and now come to collect debts every day.
Although I have no relationship with Wang Wei anymore, I still feel very uncomfortable seeing him like this now. The person who is determined to hold the money in his hands will eventually lose everything.
