Sometimes I feel alone, what's wrong with people? When I first got together, I was inseparable and always wanted to taste something, but in the end you will find that couples 30 years later are not willing to sleep in the same bed.
As our children grow up, our middle age quietly comes. Although the pressure of life has been much less, the marriage life has ushered in a period of weakening. We don’t deal with each other, ignore each other, and sometimes we are still annoyed when we see it. We have no feeling of holding it in our palms when we were young, and we are afraid of falling off, and we hold it in our mouths to melt, and we also feel helpless. So at this time, the marriage management seemed a little overwhelmed, and gradually the differences between the two began to appear. When sleeping in separate rooms, it became common for middle-aged people to become popular among the middle-aged people, so many middle-aged couples followed suit, and their relationship naturally became dull. Of course, sleeping in separate rooms cannot be generalized. There is still a difference between having discussions and endless debates. How would women feel when sleeping in separate rooms, and how long can they last? Let me like it and listen to what these three beauties said.
1, Zhang Damei said that her relationship is not very good. He likes to snore. Sleeping separately will not be disturbed and you will be less angry. We are all rural people. With matchmakers, we are familiar with each other. At that time, we were a little shy. As long as we liked each other, it would basically be true. We never consider whether we can say anything else, because girls don’t have to worry about not being able to get married, and the boy is a bit miserable. It was okay when I got married, but I gradually realized that there was still a gap between them. For example, I like to be beautiful and clean, and my house was spotless, but he was not particular about it. He threw his clothes and shoes casually, and he spent money without any attention. I like to spend money where I should spend it. Therefore, I always quarrel with countless big things, and they don’t understand each other. Besides, he always snores when he sleeps, which makes me almost incorrect. The split room sleep also started after he got drunk once. Later, he didn't say anything about it. It was strange that there was really less noise. Do you have to talk about your feelings? It’s just that one of me is very satisfied with me. Because he never has ambiguous relationships, of course I agree that he sleeps together, and I can't stand it if it takes too long.
2, Cheng Damei said, if he and I were not for our children, we would have separated long ago because of his cheating. I really didn't expect that I was still very old. He has been working outside all year round, and phone calls and videos have become the only comfort for our relationship and we are also very content with each other. Just two years ago, he suddenly rarely contacted him, so I proposed to visit him. Unexpectedly, he used various reasons to make me vain. Do I need it after all, so I insisted on going. The result was very different from what I imagined. Not only did he not want to, he called me on his back. Could it be that he had it? I didn't dare to think about it at that time and would come whatever I was afraid of. I really came to the door. I was so sad that I really wanted to slap him in the face, and in anger, I went home. I know that I am not excellent either. I did not calm down and deal with the problem, but chose to blame and blame, which caused our relationship to be very tense.
is entirely for his children, otherwise I would have been away long ago. I am deliberately neglecting him and sleeping separately. I don’t know how long I can last, it mainly depends on his attitude. 3. Beauty Lu said that we were voluntarily sharing the house, and the relationship was OK. Although we were introduced to each other, we have always had a good relationship after marriage. He knows how to take care of my emotions because I don’t have strong requirements for sex. However, if my husband needs it, I will cater to it. This should be the reason why our relationship has always been good. It is not easy to get to know each other and accompany each other until now. Although the sex life is weak, it will not be gone. My husband may feel sorry for me when I sleep separately. I usually sleep lightly and easily suffer from insomnia. Sometimes I feel bad during the day, so we agree with each other. In this way, the quality of sleep is indeed much better. However, if you need it, you can sleep together at any time and sleep in separate beds. We are not under much pressure at the moment.
Actually, I think it’s better not to be apart at this age. There is no skin kinship between the two and no communication, and their marriage will definitely have an impact.When people reach middle age, they do sleep in separate rooms due to their personality, habits and physical reasons. The editor believes that most of them are acts of evading responsibility. No matter what, doing so will do more harm than good. If there is a disagreement between husband and wife, or any unpleasantness, they should be honest with each other and resolve together, and do not let their relationship be hurt. If you want to be fresh, it is not bad, but you should stop when you see it. As ladies, do you agree to sleep in separate rooms? How long can you last? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area. I am Zhang's emotions, follow me, and I will not be lonely on the road of love.
