Hua Yuhan/Wen
"Seven Years Itch" is a hurdle for men and women to fall in love. If you have been in a marriage for 7 years and have not entered the palace of marriage, 80% of the relationship has already had problems.
If a man refuses to get married, he will either not love him deeply enough, or he will have a secret of having to, or he will not want to get married at all.
If a woman refuses to get married, she still doesn’t love her deeply enough. Perhaps a man is just her spare tire, otherwise she would not waste her good years.
TV series "The Heart Rippling" Wei Xiaochen and Wang Jun have been in love for seven years, but in them, I can't see any trace of love.
In order to break up, Wang Jun actually asked his brother Yang Wanqing to "seize" his girlfriend to cheat in order to achieve the purpose of breaking up. Can a man like
still want it?
I don't think it's necessary.
When a relationship has problems, it may not be the reason for one person.
After talking for seven years, I haven't broken up. Maybe love has become dull, maybe it's a person's wish. After learning about Wang Jun’s plan, Wei Xiaochen ( Lan Yingying decoration) took advantage of the plan and wanted to use Yang Wanqing to stimulate Wang Jun, but he did not control the scale.
Yang Wanqing really fell in love with her, which led to many Shura fields later.
From the woman's perspective, Wei Xiaochen wants to create jealousy to win back her boyfriend's heart, but it seems that he can understand it, but he can't.
Wang Jun (He Peng decoration) Since I want to break up, I think Wei Xiaochen must first understand the reason why Wang Jun wants to break up, rather than creating jealousy.
If it is not solved from the root, there is still a deep gully between them.
Does Wang Jun love Wei Xiaochen?
There is always a feeling that Wang Jun and Wei Xiaochen are just in love to give their parents an explanation, not really love her.
After 7 years of getting along, Wei Xiaochen is on a strong side in her relationship. She treats Wang Jun like a subordinate, and like a younger brother, asking for it here and there, always "monitoring" it.
Under this kind of "control" , Wang Jun's pressure became increasingly greater and he developed a psychological "disease".
As Wei Xiaochen's career is getting better and better, Wang Jun's psychology is becoming more and more distorted.
On one hand, it was parents' urging them to get married, but on the other hand, it was because it was not interested in the temptation of their girlfriend, so the idea of breaking up naturally appeared.
Why didn’t Wang Jun directly propose to break up?
One is: Maybe he didn't dare, because he was afraid of Wei Xiaochen's forced questioning, so he chose to compromise.
The second is: After talking for so many years, he can’t say the word “breakup”.
3: His parents are in poor health and are very satisfied with Wei Xiaochen. He hopes that he can start a family and start a career as soon as possible. His filial piety makes him unable to break up.
No matter what the reason is, it is wrong for Wang Jun to seduce his girlfriend.
Why does Wei Xiaochen still want to save it?
Wei Xiaochen is so good at sales. She has contacted many customers and has at least a certain understanding of people. Why do she become confused when facing love?
She saw the photos sent to her by her friend and suspected that Wang Jun liked men. She immediately recalled many of Wang Jun's behaviors and thought that he might have fallen in love with men.
Between sadness and doubt, she decided to find the truth.
If Wang Jun really likes men, she has to find a way to break him back, because Wang Jun talked with her for 7 years and she doesn't believe that he doesn't like women.
I was confused when I saw Wei Xiaochen like this.
Maybe it was because she loved Wang Jun too deeply, so she worked so hard to win back Wang Jun.
To be honest, if Wei Xiaochen chose to show off with Wang Jun directly, so many things would not happen later. For example, her ambiguous relationship with Yang Wanqing made Yang Wanqing ( Wang Guanyi decoration) fall in love with her, which successfully aroused Wang Jun's jealousy and waited for the proposal.
But is this really what she wants?
After Wei Xiaochen and Wang Jun reconciled, the two of them always felt that they were so bad.
Before getting married, they are like living together. Isn’t it sad for a woman to choose such a love?
More importantly, Wei Xiaochen's mother does not bless them.
Love that cannot receive the blessing of parents often ends with unsatisfactory ending.
Write to the end:
A man like Wang Jun is not suitable for Wei Xiaochen.
No matter how much Wei Xiaochen hypnotizes himself, how important Wang Jun is to her, and how much he loves Wang Jun, it is actually very pale.
If Yang Wanqing hadn't disturbed the situation, she would probably have really gotten married to Wang Jun.
Will she be happy?
I think Wang Jun can’t give her happiness.
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