Although there are so many, many original partners are unwilling to listen to it and think this is a criticism of you.
But this is the reality that all the cheated original partners must understand and accept.
Marriage is never as simple as two people in love getting married together.
The essence of marriage is actually value exchange. Your value determines your position in the marriage and also determines the loyalty of your partner to you.
What kind of original partner is the easiest to be cheated on? Low value original partner.
The value used to exchange with the partner in marriage is mainly divided into two aspects.
on the one hand is the value of interests, how much money you make, how much help your family can give, what connections and resources you have, etc.
does have a love mind for men, and they do not consider the conditions of their original wife when they get married.
As long as you like it, you are willing to get married, but these will still be mentioned again after marriage.
The original wife has no independent economy, and you don’t make money by relying on cheating men.
You don’t have a strong family yet, and you can’t give any substantial help to cheating men.
No matter how much you want it when you get married, sooner or later you will be disliked by a cheating man.
Because you are low in value, compared to those mistresses who can bring him benefits, you are the one who is easily abandoned.
On the other hand, it is emotional value. It is also important whether it can provide positive emotional value.
Many original partners have good conditions, but they will still be cheated and disliked by cheating men.
is because of the low emotional value, and cheating men may get married to their original wife simply because of material conditions.
After getting married, he began to dislike the fact that the original wife could not give her emotional satisfaction, so he cheated secretly.
For example, the original wife has feelings, but the trivialities in marriage have worn out the original wife's yearning for love.
The original wife is busy with all kinds of things in life and has no time to care about her feelings. If a cheating man feels that his feelings are not satisfied.
. Most mistresses have poor conditions, and the ability to maintain extramarital affair depends on their emotional value.
How should the original wife make herself a high-value woman who will not be cheated on?
On the one hand, the original partner must maintain his high value and continuously improve his value.
Original partners must not have that kind of mentality, increasing their value is to please their partner.
If you have this mentality, you are not improving your value, but lowering your low position.
Even if your value really increases, it cannot change you in the eyes of men, and it is still a low-value reality.
So improving yourself must be for yourself, and you are really making yourself better.
The original wife should learn to enhance her value from both emotional and interests.
should give yourself the ability to make money, an independent economy, and build a network system.
Whether the mother’s family is powerful is not determined, and making money and connections can be created later.
Although it is difficult, it will not be more difficult than being cheated of by you, and you have to not divorce for money and have to pester a cheating man without self-esteem.
So learn to improve your value, and you must persist in doing it no matter how difficult it is.
On the other hand, you must be able to let your partner see your value.
Many original partners are actually in good condition in all aspects, so why are they still disliked by their partners?
Because you didn't let him see your value, you over-condure your partner at home.
or if you feel that you have been giving silently, you are considered true feelings. You are unwilling to put your own contributions and your own value directly in front of men.
This will cause you to be fine, but he can't see it, or he pretends not to know it even if he sees it.
So you need to learn to let him see your value and let him recognize your value.
You need to learn to show your value, besides how much money you make and what connections you have, you can see.
There are many other things like your efforts to your family, your value to this family, etc.
Don’t do things that touch you but cannot touch others.
What cheating did you do need to know and recognize your value, and you can continue to do things.
He does not recognize your value, so you should not continue to do it, so that he will face it if you don’t do it or give.
Only in this way can he know that he is the beneficiary, he does not recognize you, and he cannot continue to benefit, so he can see your value.
The last aspect is that you must also learn to have requirements for your partner, and you also ask for his value. The value of
is also based on comparison.
Many original wives will cry after being cheated. The cheating man is not very good. He has been patient and never thought about cheating.
How can a man cheating on his original wife? Why can he cheat?
No one makes you patient. You think that a cheating man is of low value and he cannot satisfy you.
you have to raise it, don’t be patient, don’t give a cheating man, you are not worthy of him.
No matter how he matches you, he feels more than enough, you have to let him know.
Many times, it is not that the cheating man is not a big gap between a man and his original wife, which leads to a cheating man seeing the original wife clearly and daring to cheat.
, the original wives have too little demands on cheating men and will not compare them with cheating men.
The man who cheated on him should think that the original wife's behavior is because of his high value.
The original wife needs to let the cheating man see the reality clearly. What is he? You need to let him understand.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that compared to the method of managing marriage, the original wife should learn more about
's method of improving herself and controlling her partner.
Because of one-sided management of marriage, no matter how you do it, you will appear to be at a low level.
Only when you make yourself outstanding and can you hold on to your partner can you become the dominant part of your marriage.
Only if you dominate the marriage and your partner has a sense of awe of you, you will not have extramarital affair.
