Some people say that middle-aged men are too "crawling" and cannot tell whether they are decisive or perfunctory.
In fact, women who are used to thinking too much and are sensitive don’t know whether middle-aged men really have a true love for you or just have fun, and the details won’t lie!
Middle-aged men really have a clear understanding of you, and they won’t say much, but do more. Appropriate sweet words are a plus for the child to determine his behavior.
Middle-aged man, showing his true love: three "knows"!
Don't underestimate these three "knowledge", each of which reveals "recognition". After reading it, you will understand:
First: Your attitude will be very special
Middle-aged men treat feelings rationally and deeply. He will not do everything in order to please you like a young man. When the freshness passes, the sudden cooling of feelings makes it hard for you to bear.
Once a middle-aged man has a true love, it will be manifested as a gradual increase in warming up, allowing you to gradually adapt and have a "confirm" perception of him.
When facing women you recognize, middle-aged men will give completely different attitudes towards others:
For others, they may be dull, but when facing you, they appear to be very talkative!
is because he wants to find the "common things" between two people in the right amount of interaction with you, and use it as a prelude to mutual understanding.
3 He may be very domineering to others, but he seems particularly patient and gentle to you. That's because he doesn't want to scare you away with a machismo in front of you.
To others, he may be very cowardly, but when facing you, he always gives you the most masculine protection.
This is how men and women love each other. When you meet someone you recognize, you can make a coward bold, but you can call a warrior a coward!
When middle-aged men truly recognize you from the bottom of their heart, their attitude towards you will be very special. That kind of special attitude from a middle-aged man will make you feel at ease what "preference" is!
Second: Getting with you will care about your feelings and care about your thoughts
Two people are together, and the management of relationships is the business of two people. Once determined, arbitrary and self-centeredness will not exist.
Generally speaking, middle-aged men’s recognition is a decision that only after they have recognized each other’s inner and external matching.
Of course, it is impossible for two people to be together to truly achieve a "suitable" that is evenly matched.
The key is that as long as the difference between two people is not too great, they can tolerate and accept each other's flaws and pay more attention to each other's strengths. The combination of relationships is inevitable.
And middle-aged men have more rational and clear thinking about this. Once they are determined, they will naturally connect the rise and fall of each other's life.
So, when a woman who loves you interacts with you, she will care about your feelings and put your thoughts and suggestions first when making any decision.
In the face of your misunderstandings, he will also give you positive guidance based on the actual situation, rather than preaching and vulgarity.
On the contrary, men who just play with you will only consider their own feelings, and their words and deeds are mostly unifying.
Most of the time you will only feel his selfishness, rather than truly feeling that you are loved!
is determined to be connected by the fate of the rest of your life. Just play with it, and you don’t care about your sorrows and joys!
Third: It will give you the future, ignore your past
In this open current, most people will have emotional experiences before the arrival of the people they have been with for the rest of their lives.
Some men, under the banner of emotional cleanliness , for the sake of thought and spirit, the control above both will make you humbly cater to and be controlled by him!
I believe many people are not unfamiliar with the harm caused to women on some platforms.
Some women do not know that this kind of "caring" that keeps in the past is a distorted control, so they regard themselves as a person who makes mistakes. In this unhealthy emotional relationship, they are extremely humble.
Is this love? Of course not!
No one is waiting for someone to appear. He must keep his heart and affection until the designated person appears, and open his heart to welcome whom he enters his life.
Men who don’t love you will be particularly harsh on you, lack tolerance and empathy for . Instead of being with you, you will feel that someone who keeps saying that you love you will always make you suffer.
Those who truly love you will not care about your past, but about your present and future!
The man who truly loves you will only feel sorry for the suffering you have suffered, love you well and cherish you in the present moment!
yu Qiuyu once said this sentence, which was deeply loved by people:
I cannot participate in your past, and I will accompany you to the end.
. Is a middle-aged man really loving you? It is far more direct than young people.
Women should always remember:
Emotions are real feelings from the bottom of the heart, not from seeing and listening with their eyes.
Men will not change when they reach middle age! Give you a unique preference, care for your feelings, care about your thoughts, don’t care about your past, only your present and your future...
Remember, if a middle-aged man does this, just marry!
The man who truly loves you may never say he loves you, but all the determinations for the rest of his life are in the detailed actions!
Everyone has negative emotions. When you are willing to put negative emotions aside, you can not be bound by it. In the end, it depends on whether you are willing to do that!
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