text丨The West Chamber of affection
Time has not been long, I hope you will meet in my words!
Women look different in love, there are very clingy little girls, big sisters who are very good at taking care of others, and more independent career types.
No matter which one it is, women will want to chat with you because of love, have a strong desire to share you, and will show their care and care at some moments.
Not only that, a woman who cares about you will take your words to heart, understand your hard work, and think about you all the time.
But this love also requires you to cherish it. If she is disappointed and unwilling to continue, then all the beauty of the past will be broken instantly and disappear without a trace.
In fact, women just seem weak. They also have a strong heart and the courage and courage to leave and never look back.
So, even if the moment you decide to leave is painful, the woman will grit her teeth and prevent herself from being embarrassed. By then, you will understand that this is how women really let go!
When a woman no longer loves you, she will gradually stop looking forward to your news.
When a woman loves you deeply, she will be full of joy for you and is willing to cut herself open and present it in front of you.
tells you all the deep thoughts that are not often mentioned to others, whether they are sad, sad, kind, or dark, or just pour out bitterness.
Because, she thinks you are reliable and will understand her, and it is worth mentioning.
She has an endless desire to share you, and maybe she will talk to you from the sunset to the aurora of the universe. It's not limited to a nice song, a book, or a movie I just discovered.
or even, it is just a kitten I met, lunch for lunch...
In short, I never get tired of it. She likes you, so I am willing to tell you. In her opinion, talking to you is the ordinary happiness in ordinary days.
But if you don’t listen to her carefully, you often don’t reply to the message you have read, or you are busy playing games and have no time to chat.
Then your disregard will make her feel that she is not valued and loved.
In fact, women all understand it, and there is no high demand. She can give you enough personal space and allows you to have a "bad memory". she just hopes to get your attention.
As long as you can give her more company in your spare time and truly care about her feelings, her heart will be warm.
However, many times, even such small requirements cannot be met. Therefore, after a long period of neglect and neglect, women finally gave up.
As the saying goes, "There is no greater sorrow than death of the heart." Over time, how you treat women, women will also treat you.
When she really lets go, you will not be able to arouse her desire to share, nor will you let her have any expectations for your feelings.
Slowly, she will find her own fun, and your information will slowly accumulate in the chat box and will not be valued by her.
At this time, no matter how you look for topics or send messages to her frequently, she won’t care.
So you have to understand that when a woman gradually stops sending messages to you frequently, no longer expecting your messages, and no longer replying to your messages, it means she has really let go.
When a woman no longer loves you, she will have her own focus in life.
When most women fall in love, they always focus on their beloved man and often revolve around them.
She is happy or unhappy, always comes from this man and can never find the fun she creates for herself.
Whether the man replied to her message, whether he accompanied her, whether he took her affairs to heart, whether he chatted with other women...
all affected her, and she revolved around these things every day, in pain or happiness.
Or, she hasn't traveled alone for a long time, and hasn't been together with her friends for a long time, and she doesn't follow the TV series she once loved to watch.
That's it, she was floating and rising while pulling with the man. The man's actions affected her, making her extremely happy and painful. It was her who laughed loudly and she cried.
Ximei often says that love has its limits. Once love is frequently consumed, no matter how stupid or stupid a woman is, she will have a day when she will be lost.
At that time, women will put away their former love brains, no longer regard men as the center of the world, and begin to know how to create happiness for themselves and live their own life well.
She will have her own ideas, start a new journey, meet more interesting friends, and concentrate on improving herself every day...
Slowly, she, who was once hurt by love, will find that this world is really big and big. Although love is beautiful, it is not the whole of life.
She began to understand the joy of her life, no longer envy other men and women in love around her, and began to enjoy a life alone, was happy with high quality while being alone.
In short, when a woman really lets go, she will treat men rationally with love, and even if she is single again, she will not rush to find the next relationship.
Many people think that when a woman really lets go, she will either cry or be generous and carefree. But in fact, women’s real letting go is plain, quiet and simple.
This is a kind of awakening after a long period of disappointment and accumulation of awakening. she doesn’t say it, she just says goodbye to you step by step.
However, when she really let go, although she seemed very calm and calm, she must have made up her mind and left no matter how you try to keep her.
So, you must cherish the person in front of you so that love can blossom and bear fruit.
