Everyone has their own beautiful imagination of love. People who are trapped in love for the first time have mostly sincere attitudes towards love, and the love they yearn for does not contain any impurities.
But in this world, not everyone can be lucky enough to be a couple with the person they like. Under the pressure of real life, many people will forget their beautiful imagination of love and choose to marry a person with the right conditions.
In such a marriage life, we may obtain happiness in the secular sense, but we may not be able to obtain true happiness in our hearts. Once we feel unsatisfactory in the ordinary and trivial marriage life, we will think of our former lovers and our initial beautiful imagination of love.
As the writer Zhang Ailing said, every man will have a red rose and white rose in his heart. If he gets a red rose, the white rose will become an unforgettable white moonlight in his heart; if he gets a white rose, the red rose will become a cinnabar mole on his chest.
As time goes by, some people who are getting older will always appear pessimistic and negative when pursuing love, and they will gradually forget their beautiful fantasies about love.
Only those who have persistent character and never give up pursuing their dreams can meet beautiful love.
In the novel "The Moon and Sixpence" by the writer Maugham, the protagonist Strickland is a person who never gives up pursuing his dreams.
Although Strickland is a financial worker, he has his own artistic dream in his heart. For Strickland, ordinary life is as practical as sixpence, and the painful artistic ideal in his heart is like the moon hanging in the sky. Although it is far away from him, it has always illuminated himself.
Strickland has a family that seems happy to outsiders. He has a virtuous wife and a lovely child. In the eyes of ordinary people, a happy life cannot make Strickland feel happy.
The life Strickland wants is a life where you can pursue your artistic dreams. The love that Strickland yearns for is also able to find someone who understands his heart.
Only those who do not give up chasing their dreams can obtain a happy love.
1. People with dreams will not be willing to live a mediocre life.
Do you still remember your dreams when you were young?
When everyone was young, they had their own dreams and plans for their lives. However, under the heavy pressure of real life, many people would consciously or unconsciously go further and further away from their dreams.
In this process, some people's pursuit of dreams gradually becomes dim, but some people are always unwilling to give up their dreams in ordinary life.
In the literary work "Moon and Sixpence", Strickland is a person who is unwilling to give up his dreams in ordinary life.
Even though Strickland has a happy life to outsiders, he knows that everything he has now is not the life he really wants.
It is precisely because Strickland has a dream that she is willing to let go of everything she has and pursue his ideal life.
2. To pursue love, one needs to have a persistent spirit.
To pursue love, we need to have a persistent quality. Many times, the love we meet is not what we really yearn for. If we choose a lover we don’t love, our lives will be depressed.
In "The Moon and Sixpence", Strickland and his wife are two completely different people. Strickland yearns for artistic dreams, but when he learns that his wife wants a happy life in the secular sense.
It is under this persistent mentality of dreams that Strickland is willing to let go of everything he has and pursue his own love and ideals.
If you want to get an ideal love, you must have a persistent spirit.
3. Only those who do not give up on their dreams can meet beautiful love.
In the process of Strickland pursuing his dream, he once met a woman who loved him. The other party hoped to keep Strickland by his side and spend a dull life with Strickland. But Strickland was unwilling to live an ordinary life, so she finally chose to leave the woman and live alone on an isolated island.
On the island, Strickland met a simple and simple girl, Aita. Aita has no secular desires. She only has simple worship and support for Strickland, which made Strickland feel very pleased and felt that Aita was the lover she had been looking for.
It is precisely because Strickland never gives up her dream that she finally found her own happy love.
The novel "Moon and Sixpence" tells us that only those who are obsessed with dreams have the spirit of never giving up and it is easier to gain their own ideal love.
If Strickland did not have a persistent heart to pursue ideals, perhaps he would be accustomed to ordinary life and become a mediocre person.
But Strickland chose to pursue his dream, which made him finally fulfill his pursuit of art, but also found the love he had always dreamed of.
People who do not give up chasing their dreams will be more likely to obtain happy love.
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