When the opposite sex gets along, women have a true love for men, want to stay with men, and be loving to the point of being old. At this time, women want to be a smart woman, not to be a fool, want to master the "remote control of love" by themselves, want to grasp the "bargaining chips" for this relationship, and want to accumulate more power to manage this relationship.
At this time, women will dress themselves up with care, improve their knowledge, do their job well, and always want to leave a good impression on their beloved man and not let their favorite partner look at them in the eyes.
In the process of interacting with men, at the beginning, women will pay attention to strategy, pay attention to implicitness, maintain reserve, play hard to get, and refuse to greet, sometimes cold and sometimes hot, sometimes close and sometimes distant, giving men hope, but not allowing men to get her quickly, deliberately hanging the man, women want to "keep a high posture" and let men pursue themselves like a warrior. Women have these tricks, and it seems that she doesn't want to be a fool, she wants to be a smart woman.
However, when a woman is really conquered by a man and has real feelings for a man, at this time, the woman is unable to be independent of love, and even the most rational woman will be influenced by her emotions, becoming more and more "silly", and finally do something that she thinks is stupid.
Women who truly love you deeply want to be smarter but always be stupid. Do you know everything?
1. I don’t want to spoil you, but I always spoil you.
When a woman is interacting with you, she will not have too many ideas. She will keep a distance from you and will not get close to you. At the same time, when you pursue her, she will directly make you give up and you will receive a clear signal: you have no chance.
Just when you show your love to her, a woman will directly say to you: "I don't like you. You are not the type I like. I hope you don't bother me, and I won't give you a chance to disturb me. I hope you don't make things boring."
On the contrary, when a woman has a true love for you, at this time, rationally tell her: "Men cannot be substituted, men should be strictly required."
However, she always spoils you and always keeps lowering her requirements for you. When you do something wrong, she originally wanted to care about you so that you don't make the same mistake in the end, but she is afraid that too much will make you boring and disappoint you. In the end, she may choose to calm down and spoil you again and again.
2. I don’t want to pay back, but I always give silently.
When two people are together, if a woman has no feelings for you, she will not have too many ideas. She just wants to be ordinary friends with you, and she will also be polite to you, but adhere to the boundaries between friends. She will not take the initiative to show kindness to you, nor will she give silently for you, and your friendship will often be very shallow.
On the contrary, when a woman really falls in love with you, at this time, she wants to keep a high attitude, stay cold, and be a "happy woman pursued by her beloved."
However, she felt very uncomfortable and thought too much. She was afraid that her high attitude would make you feel stressed, afraid that her aloofness would make you feel cold, and afraid that her "passiveness" would blow your enthusiasm for pursuing her. In the end, she always wanted to give you some compensation to alleviate her conflicts and silently contribute to you. As a result, she seemed to love her humble and proactively.
3. I want to examine you for a while, but I agree with you.
If a woman feels that you have no chance and does not want to hold hands with you, at this time, she will not give you the opportunity to get close to her at all. You make a request: I hope she will be inspected for a while and then talk about it if it feels appropriate. Women often flatly refuse and will not give you any hope.
On the contrary, when a woman has a true affection for you, likes you from the bottom of her heart, wants to be with you, but is afraid that she will meet the wrong person and find the wrong person, she has concerns and wants to examine you for a while before going to have further interactions.
Women have such awareness and look very smart. However, when a woman is deeply in love, the strong love in her heart forces her to follow you desperately, just like Zhuo Wenjun will elope with Sima Xiangru , and she will ignore anything. A woman wanted to examine you again. When facing your proposal, she would always be unable to help but agree and would be willing to make a promise. She had long forgotten the plan to investigate you.