What is life? Different people naturally have different understandings, but the simplest way is "Born, live" . Yu Hua The Fugui in the novel " Living " tells us this simple truth with his bumpy life.
Who doesn’t want to make life fun? But there are a lot of suffering and joy in life, which change our mood and affect our methods and attitudes to see the world.
Xiaoyu is gentle and beautiful, smart and capable. After graduating from a master's degree, he teaches in a second-level college. Since giving birth to the second baby, I feel extremely tired. My family is in good financial condition. The elderly on both sides live close to each other. I have a retirement salary and can help take care of the children. My husband loves her very much. After thinking about it, he decided to quit his job and concentrate on taking care of the children.
Just the first year of resigning, I felt very happy. I didn’t have to get up early and go to school late. I lived a very comfortable life at home. I managed Dabao’s study, told stories with him, coaxed him, and occasionally did some housework. The day passed quickly. On weekends, the whole family is basically traveling or shopping, and the joy is really intoxicating.
But the good times didn't last long. A year later, she began to doubt whether her choice was correct. Although life is leisurely, it is really monotonous and boring. I feel that the distance between me and my husband and my former colleagues is getting farther and farther away. I occasionally want to read books, but I can't calm down. I can't help but think randomly, and my efficiency is extremely low.
She wants to continue like this, and she will be eliminated by society sooner or later. If not, I still have to teach. So, she actively participated in the recruitment exam. After layers of selection, she finally came to an vocational and technical college .
The original feeling of loss is now filled with a full sense of accomplishment. If raising children is hard, but what children may bring you may be shocking.
One day, when the four-year-old Dabao vividly told her an idiom story in full, she was shocked. After all, she told the child that idiom once. In other times, she asked him to use to read to study.
The child's strong desire for knowledge prompted him to read and remember repeatedly, so the changes were amazing. I can't help but feel ashamed when I remembered the time when I wanted to lie down. It turns out that people who are persistent and exert their strength can discover and feel happiness every day. Even if they are a little child, they can truly feel this.
Since then, Xiaoyu feels that her perspective on problems has become richer and more peaceful, and she is more energetic and at ease when working.
Xiaohan is a senior high school girl, enthusiastic, generous, optimistic and cheerful. One day when she got home, she said to her mother angrily, "There are four girls in our class who have a good time, and only four sisters. One of them brought a large bread to the school today. I thought she would give us more food, but I didn't expect that it would be a little bit and I finished it in one bite."
She didn't understand, but then she said to her mother: "Mom, you helped me buy four large breads this afternoon, just the one I bought from my classmates. I will take them to school tomorrow and share them with them, one for each one, and see what that classmate would think."
The understanding mother obediently did it. The next day, my daughter happily set off with four bread on her back, and the book could only be carried in her hand because the space for her schoolbag was too small.
Usually, we always hear stories about adolescent girls fighting each other. Unexpectedly, Xiaohan is so cheerful and generous, and her mother admires her from the bottom of her heart.
Life is like a mirror, it laughs when you laugh, it crys when you cry. If you compete with others every day and can’t get along with yourself, do you think you will be happy?
Suffering and joy are actually relative. It is precisely because of the suffering and joy in life that life has a little more fun. Being busy is a kind of happiness. When you get busy, you don’t have time to feel pain; sharing is a kind of happiness, which allows us to truly feel the value and meaning of life.
Life can be of extremely high value or useless. The right to choose is in your hands, and your attitude determines success or failure. Some people say that pessimists see difficulties in every opportunity, while optimists see opportunities in every difficulty. No matter how good or bad the situation is, you must be positive. When you replace depression with enthusiasm, happiness will not be far from you.
