When a man gets along with you, he feels that you are not important to him, he does not take you in his heart, and he has never thought of dating you for a long time. At this time, he will be willful, he will act freely, ignore your feelings, and cannot listen to your opinions.
He dares to break his promise to you, dares to embarrass you, dares to disappoint you, dares to break your heart, dares to make you fall in love with you, obviously he doesn't care about you and has no feelings for you.
The man who truly loves you deeply wants to live a down-to-earth life with you, treats you as the pearl in his heart, cherishes you very much, how can he dare to ignore your feelings and do something that hurts your affection? In fact, after a man gets into love, there will be "four dares not". Do you know all of them?
1. I dare not walk too close to other opposite sex behind your back.
When a man is interacting with you, he is also having an ambiguous relationship with other women, saying love words, and being kind to each other, fantasizing about the blessings of all people, not abide by the morality of love, not abide by the oath of love, boldly acts, and doing things that make you sad.
You can't bear to leave him and ask him to "choose one more", but he is always unwilling to make a choice, which makes you doubt your life and doubt whether the relationship between you is real. At this time, there is no need to doubt it anymore, let it go sooner. If a man dares to get too close to other opposite sex behind your back, he obviously doesn't take you seriously.
The man who truly loves you deeply does not dare to have too close contact with other opposite sexes behind your back. The reason is that he has you in his heart and can no longer hold on to others.
2. I dare not embarrass you in public and do not give you face.
A man always criticizes you, suppresses you, and makes you useless, and plays you in opposition to you, which makes you embarrassed.
You said, "Can't you give me some face?" He said, "No." A man doesn't take you seriously and doesn't consider your feelings at all. It's obvious that he doesn't care about you and has no feelings for you.
If a man has deep love for you and takes you to heart, he will not dare to make you angry. He will care about your feelings. He will not dare to embarrass you in public. When you have a dispute, if outsiders are present, he will always give in to you, put you first, and leave you with enough face.
3. I dare not break my promise, it will disappoint you and make you sad.
When a man interacts with you, he will often lie to you, and he will often break his promise to you, and he will never be able to do what he promises you. At this time, please believe: he doesn’t care about you.
A man dares to disappoint you and make you sad. At this time, there is no need to have too high expectations for him.
If a man takes you seriously and really values you, he will care about your evaluation of him and his opinions. He will not dare to break his promise to you because he does not want to make you sad and afraid that you will be disappointed in him.
4. After making you angry, you dare not not to make you happy.
When two people are together, there are inevitably times when conflicts arise, and there are times when they say the wrong things and do the wrong things. At this time, you are in a bad mood and hope he can coax you.
But men are always unwilling to coax you, and often bring up old accounts with you, embarrassing you, and accuse you at will. Or, men will neglect you for a long time, not afraid of you being disheartened, not afraid of leaving him after you are disheartened. If a man dares to treat you like this, obviously he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
If a man really loves you, he will not dare not coax you after making you angry, because he still wants to live with you.