Sometimes, you share something you encountered on the road with the person you love, but for a long time, he did not reply to you.
You go and ask again, and after half a day, he sent me a few words. There have been more than once such scenes as
, and every time your interest is extinguished by his coldness. You comfort yourself in your heart, maybe he is upset, or he is busy, or maybe he makes a mistake in his work...
Until the end, you can no longer make up a reason to deceive yourself, and he no longer cares about you so much.
Is it really necessary for your love to be so humble? Why should I hang myself hard on a tree when dealing with someone who no longer loves me?
When a person dislikes you, there are signs, and he will reply to you on WeChat.
1 No time
Nowadays, life is fast and economic pressure is high. Most people are busy and diligent in order to gain their own place in society.
However, no matter how busy you are, you always have time to have free time. It is impossible for a person to spend all his time in his career and always have his own private life.
Even in your spare time, you will look down at the information on your phone or answer a call.
However, you sent him a lot of messages, but he never replied to you. Only when you get angry will he lazily reply to the three words "no time".
Don’t doubt it, you are not that important to him, this is clearly a perfunctory tone.
No matter how busy you are, you have to eat and go to the bathroom. Nowadays, many people need to use WeChat at work, so you can see new information when you look at them.
doesn’t have time, it doesn’t mean that he really has no free at all, it just doesn’t have time to face you.
2 Cumulative
It is not easy to live.
Work, study every day, and deal with various interpersonal relationships. Everyone will feel exhausted.
But, why do people fall in love? Why do you need love?
is just for this complicated world, where some people share joys, sorrows and sorrows with you, and some people always stay behind you and become a solid support.
However, when you send him a message, he is indifferent. If you say a few more words, he will reply to you with the word "tired".
In fact, he just thinks you are too annoyed. If you say one more word to you, you will feel tired.
If you are someone who really cares about you, you won’t use this word to send you. Maybe he won't reply to your message in time, but he won't pass on bad emotions to you either.
He said "tired" to you because he didn't want to be with you anymore. He would feel "tired" when facing you, and he would feel "tired" when thinking about everything you have...
The relationship has reached this point, there is really no need to persevere.
3 Just like you
Once a friend said that he hated asking the other person what he wanted to eat when he was eating, but he replied "just like you". It felt like you were full of enthusiasm and hitting a cold wall.
Indeed, the meaning contained in these two words makes people feel uncomfortable.
especially among lovers. When you bara bara and him sent a bunch of messages, he simply replied "Whatever you want", and the perfunctory meaning is very obvious.
Maybe he didn't read the content you posted at all, and he felt that you were too long-winded.
People who often say "you can" to you actually don't care about you.He doesn't care what you are thinking, whether your emotions are fluctuating, and he doesn't care what you will think after seeing these words.
Because you don’t care, you can go whatever you want. What you are willing to think has nothing to do with him.
include you can't stand his indifference and can't help leaving, and it will not have any impact on him.
4 What's wrong
A few days ago argued with his boyfriend, and he said, "You started doing it again!"
was furious at that time. What does it mean to be "again", it has obviously not been arguing for several months. As a result, a small conflict ended up in an unhappy way and is still in the Cold War.
The most hates to hear the word "分", as if the ones who are unreasonable are themselves.
When you just said goodbye to the other party and suddenly thought that there was something else you forgot to remember, and then sent him a message, waiting for him to reply with anticipation, he sent him "So what's wrong".
What will you think in your heart? I am afraid that no matter how much sweeter you are, it will be ruthless by his words.
is here to bother him again? Come and disturb him again? The word "分" contains a lot of boredom.
And is he thinking, stop disturbing me, let me be quiet for a while, I really don’t want to talk to you so much.
When a person dislikes you, there is no more warmth in his language.
In love, there are always people who think that they should take the initiative and contact each other more so that they will not be alienated from each other.
But in fact, people who really care about you won't always let you take the initiative.
As I have seen in a movie, in this world, passive men do not exist at all. When facing the woman they like, no matter how dull a man is, he will take the initiative.
The same is true for women.
Lu Sihao said that the phone number should be called to someone who will answer it once, the information should be sent to someone who will reply at a glance, the feelings should be left to the person who will not leave, and tenderness should be left to the person who is worth it.
If he always lets you read the disgust in your message, then there is no need to stick to it.
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