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In this busy society, in this bizarre secular world, some people are struggling hard, and some are drifting with the flow without doing anything, but there are still a large number of people who are eager to meet someone, a person worth staying with for life.
Love is hard to come by for many people. After all, in this busy time when everyone is, even if the wind and flowers are beautiful, they are not a necessity of life. Therefore, many people are discouraged from love and dare not get involved.
However, although love is not the whole of life, it is not a reason to turn a blind eye to love. You should know that a good relationship can help you gain joy and also help you grow.
Furthermore, love is hard to find. If you have the opportunity to seize it, you must cherish it and not just escape, because in this way, some of the things you miss may never be retrieved in your life.
So if you have the opportunity to encounter love, you might as well try to slow down and feel it well.
Of course, if you find that you fall in love with someone, don’t be cowardly for a while, feel that you don’t deserve love, or are worried that the other person doesn’t like you, you must know that you have to try it out and explain the best feelings to yourself.
Of course, there will always be some regrets in the journey of life, and love but not being able to be loved is one of them.
You must know that love must be in two directions to be valuable. Whether it is wishful thinking or parting feelings, they are not the most perfect.
-02-
It is true that pursuing love is not a bad thing, on the contrary, it should be more encouraged, but not all the people you love will love you, and you will inevitably experience failure on the road to pursuing love.
You have to understand that your sincerity is precious and cannot be ruined and ignored by others, so if someone doesn’t like you, don’t please. It is really hard to like but not get a response. After all, many times, secret love is a mess of a person, but you have to know that your sincerity is precious, and this true love is no distinction between high and low.
So you can try it. Maybe your sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity. If you find that you are not entrusted, you can stop the loss in time.
Furthermore, people who love each other may not be together. After all, when the freshness of love passes, the biggest question before lovers is whether you still love each other when the passion fades.
Under the grinding of life, in the face of the reality of food, rice, oil and salt, how many people can guarantee that their love will last?
In love, both sides need to be evenly matched. The compromise, concession, and will of either side will change the essence of this relationship.
Of course, you also have to understand one truth. At any time, the first thing you have to do is love yourself. You cannot let yourself be sad to the dust for anyone.
Perhaps you need to pay in the process of pursuing love, but this is not a reason to please. People should know how to stop losses in time. When your relationship cannot be responded, the balance of the relationship between two people will tilt. If this continues, it will only bring about one person's sadness and two people's helplessness.
So sometimes if you ask for it but don’t get it, you can let it go in time. Even if this process is unforgettable, it is better than being entangled for half a lifetime of entanglement and not being able to get a response.
After all, the feelings that each other like each other are the purest and most beautiful. If the people you like don’t like you, even if you come together, you will not experience true happiness and happiness.
all say that a forced melon is not sweet. If the person in front of you doesn’t take you seriously, why should you hang yourself on a tree, clean up your mood, and give yourself a certain amount of time and space, so that you can suddenly become enlightened and meet new people and new things.
-03-
people will have many regrets in their lives and will lose a lot of things, whether it is sincere feelings, people who are sincerely good to you, or the past that is difficult to give up.
But you have to understand that your life is moving forward. Being blindly obsessed with the past and entangled in the present will not bring you more and better meaning.
In life, you should be a person who can take it and let it go. You should have your own pattern and not be bound by temporary gains and losses and successes and failures;
In interpersonal communication, you should be sincere and brave, because only if you are sincere can you get the sincere treatment of others;
In love, you must learn to respect yourself first and love yourself first, so that you can better meet your feelings.
There are many difficulties in life, but time has changed, things are human-made, no one's life can suppress perfection, but as long as you are full of hope, you can be invincible.
It’s still early, and the wind passes the ringtone. No matter what stage of life you are in now and have gained your own happiness or not, you must know that life belongs to you, and only you can decide what it looks like.
Finally, I hope that everyone in this world can meet a lingering relationship, meet someone who holds you in the palm of your hand, and meet someone who is willing to accompany you forever.
Even if time changes the initial passion between you and the two of you, even if there are too many ups and downs happening in front of you, this person will be willing to accompany you, wait for you, and spend the rest of his life with you.
