I, I am studying in Ukraine at the age of 24. After graduation, I married my wife and had children and stayed in Ukraine to start a business. Now I am unable to return to China. I am telling you that I am going to be aware of my life. I have no choice but to return to China. I have a chance to compile: Mr. Xiao Han. I have a picture: From the Internet, delete it if infringes
My name is Wang Kun, I am 33 years old, from Xiangyang, Hubei. Nine years ago, I had graduated from university for two years, so I chose to study abroad in order to improve myself. However, my family's financial conditions were not good and I didn't save much money after working for two years. So I did not choose to go to developed countries such as the United States, Britain and France, but went to Ukraine.
Before going to Ukraine, I promised my parents that I would study hard and would return to China after two years of getting my master's degree, but in the end I broke my promise. Because during the two years I studied in Ukraine, I was not only fascinated by the beautiful urban buildings here, but also fell in love with a beautiful Ukrainian girl. We were in love and got married after I graduated.
After marriage, my wife and I opened a Chinese school in Kiev . Although it is not worth making much money, we can live a difficult life. My wife is not a very materialistic girl. We gave birth to a lovely daughter the second year after marriage, which made me firmly believe that as long as I work hard, I will definitely live a happy life here in the future.
But who would have thought that 2022 is destined to be an extraordinary year. Now Kiev is suffering from being in trouble. I want to return to China but I can’t bear to leave my parents-in-law behind. For the sake of my parents-in-law, our family is stranded in Kiev. Now, thinking of neighboring countries having no chance to live temporarily, I just hope that the world is full of peace.
In 1989, I was born in an ordinary family in Xiangyang, Hubei. My mother is a factory worker, my father is doing some small business outside, and my brother and I live with my grandparents. When I was young, my family was in very bad conditions. My grandparents were in the mountains of Nanzhang County. Whenever it rained, the door was covered with mud. It was extremely inconvenient to go to school at that time. Crossing mountains and ridges was just walking in the mud. This kind of life lasted the entire elementary school life.
When I arrived at junior high school, my parents took me to the county town, which made it much more convenient in all aspects. When I arrived in the new environment, the teaching quality in the county was very good, and my academic performance was getting better and better. Since then, my parents have begun to focus on cultivating me. As long as it is about learning, my parents are willing to do so. On the contrary, my brother who doesn’t like to study dropped out of school and went to work after graduating from junior high school.
Enter high school. I was among the top few in the grade. The heavy study tasks every day made me feel a little breathless. I watched many of my classmates’ parents buy various nutritional supplements, and I was very envious, but my parents only care about asking about my academic performance and never pay attention to my physical health. The nervous study and make-up classes in the third year of high school gradually became a little overwhelmed.
Just after a mock exam, I fainted on the desk. The teachers and classmates worked together to send me to the hospital and said that I lack nutrition and had some hypoglycemia. It was also this incident. My parents felt that the requirements for me were too harsh. Since then, the living expenses per week have doubled compared to before. I also felt that learning is not the whole of life, but also my own fun.
But after a moment of relaxation, the results declined significantly. After all, there were only a few months before the college entrance examination, so I gritted my teeth and persevered.
The moment the college entrance examination results came out, the whole family was nervous. After all, for our family, there has never been an intellectual for generations. In my generation, I am the only seedling. It can be said that I hope it is all on me.
Fortunately, I was shocked when I saw the results and got admitted to a good university.
My parents also attach great importance to which university I choose, asking relatives and friends everywhere, what major I choose, where I study... However, they didn't ask what I like to study or where I study. Maybe my parents and I always go against each other's ideas.
In the end, my mother didn't want me to study in a city that was too far away, so she stayed in Wuhan. The four years I spent in Wuhan studying in college were relatively happy, and my parents couldn't control it. I also felt the charm of big cities. In addition to learning knowledge, I also met friends from all over the country.
After graduation, everyone went their separate ways and looked for their own future. I was no exception. I did not choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but started working, hoping to reduce the burden on my parents. But the pressure at work is no easier than studying. In addition, the company's graduate degree is 2,000 yuan higher than mine. After working for two years, I suddenly felt that I still had to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and it would be best to study abroad.
But I had no money and had never been abroad. I consulted my classmates who were studying for graduate school abroad and found that it was actually very simple. In this way, everything was ready, so I asked my parents for money. My parents were very supportive in their studies from beginning to end, but I still wanted to save money for my parents. After all, my brother was old enough to buy a house and a car, and he didn't want to add burden to the family.
After thinking about it, I finally went to Ukraine. Compared with the United States, Britain, France and Germany, studying in Ukraine saves a lot of money.
When I arrived in Ukraine, I continued to study my major in college, and also began to learn Ukrainian and Russian. Although it is taught in English, I may not be able to use it after learning one more language. Usually, I go out shopping with international students from many countries, eat and drink, but I am not restricted at all when I am abroad.
In the second year, we met Wagsha. We fell in love at first sight, began to get to know each other, and slowly became familiar with each other, and then we became passionate about each other. The Ukrainian girl has a good personality and is simple and generous. After I graduated, Wagsha took the initiative to marry. I didn’t have much money at that time, but Wagsha didn’t mind and simply held a wedding, without asking for a bride or a house.
After marriage, with the support of my wife and my family, Wagsha and I opened a Chinese school, and also sold some daily necessities made in China, such as pots and pans, and many snacks. In fact, life can be lived in sloppy. The next year, Wagsha gave birth to a daughter, and my pressure doubled. I started a business with some friends in China. With money, Wagsha was also very happy.
If I were in China, I might only have one child, but in Ukraine, there is relatively less pressure. When the child was two years old, he gave birth to a second child and was a son. Now he has both children and wants to work hard to make a career and let the whole family live a good life.
The peaceful and happy days did not take long, and life changed. We were delayed by a comedian for the rest of our lives. In Ukraine, many people choose to leave their homes, and my father-in-law works in the municipal government, so he couldn't leave. In order to overcome the difficulties together, Wagsha and I decided to stay.
Actually, Wagsha and my children had the opportunity to return to China, but we gave up. After all, we thought in our hearts that none of the whole family could leave without it. Since it was not done, we should overcome the difficulties together.
