Author: Swan Yixiao (Columnist of Fushu)
British philosopher Bacon once said: "Habit is a tenacious and huge force, which can dominate life."
Habit determines the future.
It can not only determine the direction of life, but also reflect a person's true abilities.
A person is very powerful. It is often not because he can be very good at making big deals, but because good habits are superimposed to bring good luck.
What habits do you have in life give you extra points?
Today, let’s share 6 good habits that are worth our persistence. Persistence will benefit you for the rest of your life.
Perhaps reading
Reading, although it cannot make you stronger immediately, it can improve your cognition and broaden your horizons.
Reading will not help you solve the current problems immediately, but it can make you a warm and profound person.
Many times, the reason why people are worried and confused is that they read too little.
People who read a lot rarely worry about the status quo and worry about the future, and are often determined and at ease when encountering things.
In the entertainment industry, there is a music poet who maintains the habit of reading a lot all year round, and the bookshelf is full of books.
Many of his musical inspirations come from the books, and the lyrics in their writing are even more gentle and poetic.
He is Li Jian.
Bi Shumin said: books are not sticks, but they will make people strong; books are not feathers, but they will make people fly.
In this society, the bigger the ability you have, the bigger the cake you can eat. Only by reading can you support a person's soul and let you still turn the tables against the wind when facing the rampant life.
Action now
Someone said: Everything can solve 80% of your troubles beforehand.
After graduating from university, Kazuo Inamori entered a company that was about to go bankrupt, and the company was filled with negative slacking off.
Because salary depends on loans, late payment has become commonplace, and Kazuo Inamori often complains with his colleagues.
Many colleagues left one after another, and because he had nowhere to go, he had to stay.
Faced with the harsh reality, Kazuo Inamori gradually realized that no matter whether he stays or leaves, if he does not abandon his attitude of complaining about the world, his life will not turn around.
So he devoted himself to research and development and gradually felt the joy of work.
even felt troublesome when he went back to the dormitory to sleep. He simply moved all the pots and pans to the laboratory and buried his head in research day and night.
When he was busy, he no longer had troubles, and his research results began to appear continuously, thus making great contributions to the company's comeback and laying a solid foundation for his subsequent establishment of Kyocera .
The body and mind must always have one on the road, living busy and difficult. Although it is hard, many people will still choose that kind of hot life. Only in this way can the value of life be realized.
zweig once said: "Every gift given by fate is secretly marked with the price."
action can make people resurrect. As long as you withstand the test and can persevere, you will definitely reap gratifying results.
Life is a river rushing forward. Only when it flows can it not dry up.
Like to be alone
There is a saying: Low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude.
Stay away from the hustle and bustle and right and wrong, to find a time that belongs only to you and to understand all the emotions in your heart.
Being alone is not necessarily lonely, but to see yourself clearly and be yourself.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang was devoted throughout his life to building a world that belongs only to him. She said: "The graceful scenery of life is not the affirmation of others, but the calmness and calmness in his heart."
Because, the loneliness deep in his heart cannot be eliminated by relying on contact with others.
Being alone is a carnival for a person, a calmness and freedom that is not trapped in the heart and not confused in the feelings.
Muxin is a person who likes to be alone.
He was locked in a dirty and wet air raid shelter, and three fingers were broken. Every day, only rotten rice and leftovers were fruiting.
Despite this, he did not indulge in grief or complain.
In the dark days, he used peace instead of resentment and faced injustice with peace. In the noisy environment of the prison, he actually created a "Prison Manuscript" of nearly 650,000 words.
When he was released from prison, many people thought that Mu Xin would be cynical if he suffered all the torture.
However, Mu Xin lived every day of her life with a calm and composed attitude.
It is precisely because of his loneliness that strengthens his heart, and loneliness has trained his will that he can live a clear life.
Zhuge Liang wrote in " Commandments for the son ": "A gentleman's behavior is to cultivate oneself in peace and to cultivate virtue. Without being indifferent, you cannot show your ambition, and without being quiet, you cannot achieve far-reaching."
When you are alone, it is the best period for a person to gain value, accumulate in loneliness and surpass in solitude.
Have a good attitude
Bill Gates said: "Success has nothing to do with IQ. The ability to control emotions determines whether a person can succeed."
The more outstanding a person is, the more he can control emotions rationally.
When Dong Yuhui participated in a recruitment for New Oriental , he once questioned: Why should you bear such a lot of pressure if you have a salary?
The entire process is divided into multiple rounds of trial lectures. Each trial lecture is so tragic that "10 minutes of trial lectures, and one hour of scolding."
If the trial lecture is not effective, or if you can't withstand the interviewer's criticism, you will be eliminated.
Although it was very painful, Dong Yuhui persisted again and again.
was the last trial lecture. He felt very good, but he was scolded for an hour.
The grievance that had accumulated for a long time suddenly broke out, and Dong Yuhui immediately wanted to rush out of the classroom.
But when he saw the words of Yu Minhong on the wall, "Find hope from despair, life will eventually be brilliant", he suddenly felt that he should persevere.
In the end, only 2 out of 1,400 people got an offer, one of which was Dong Yuhui.
Mo Yan wrote in " Sandalwood Penalty ": "The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers.
To make his life worth and colorful, you cannot care too much about grievances, and you cannot let them tighten your heart and disturb your life. "
Cultivating a good attitude is a crucial matter for a person to grow and mature.
mentality determines destiny, a good mentality makes life successful.
Closed-loop thinking
The so-called closed-loop thinking is "everything has an explanation, everything has a conclusion, everything has an echo."
A friend once shared his experience on Zhihu.
Once, the leader asked him to make a statistical form for a certain job. He quickly finished it. Without thinking too much, he sent it to the leader's email and went to do other jobs.
Before getting off work, the leader called him to ask about the form. He said that it had been done for a long time and had already sent it to the email at noon.
As a result, the leader blamed and said, "Why didn't you notify me immediately? I originally wanted to use it in the afternoon, but now it's delayed."
has no closed-loop thinking and does not understand the importance of closed-loop. He suffered a lot.
Saying that a person is reliable is the greatest reward for a person.
and can only make others feel at ease and feel at ease.
Upgrade circle
Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
What kind of circle do you are in is what kind of person you are in.
Only by knowing how to break the circle and constantly develop upward can you truly make your path wider and wider.
Luo Zhenyu said in "Home Friends of ":
" A person's wealth basic base has two components: first, your own ability; second, your ability to connect with others. "
If you want to squeeze to the top, you can grow by yourself, learn from the good, break through the circle, and grow towards the sun.
Writer @ Li Yueliang talked about her experience of going to Taobao headquarters.
When employees were having supper, the focus of their communication was on the company's business and industry situation, and even the wording of the press release of the press conference and the placement of mineral water at the meeting site.
They care more about whose ideas are more clever and interesting, and they are more keen on discussing the current situation and changes in the industry.
In contrast, many employees of ordinary companies are just living every day.
They are all focused on fishing and chatting about gossip, and they are exhausted when it comes to meaningless things.
They just want to do less work and do less work, and worry less if they can.
Confucius once said: "Housing with good people is like entering a room of orchids, and you will not smell the fragrance for a long time; living with bad people is like entering a shop of abalone, and you will not smell the smell for a long time."
Don't underestimate the subtle and intoxicating power, people are slowly shaped in this power.
What kind of people you are with will become and what kind of life you have.
If you want to become a powerful person, make friends with excellent people and upgrade your circle, and you will go further.
written at the end
Jobs once said: "In the first 30 years of your life, you have developed a habit; in the last 30 of your life In the middle of the year, your habits determine you. "
Mrs. Thatcher also said: "Pay attention to your habits, because they will become personality, and pay attention to your personality, because they will determine your destiny."
Your behavior and actions are connected to your habits, and your cognition and pattern are also the sum of your habits.
I hope you live seriously, do your best to develop good habits, and let your future have a beautiful transformation.
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