Uncle Zhang pulled me to sit down on the stone bench and said, "I'm not sick, I'm worried, I feel so empty and uncomfortable. In the past, my three children all went through the exams and worked in big cities in other places, and got married and started a family. The eldest is in Hangzhou, the second is in Fuzhou, and the third is in , Qingdao , and they have good careers and high incomes, but they are busy with work. I used to feel very happy and glorious. I am happy when my children are promising. So I praise my children everywhere I go. So I praise my children everywhere. "
" At that time, I looked at Lao Wang in a building. His family also had three children. They didn't have much time to study. They also had to spend money to study in the health and technical schools. After they finished their studies, they found a job locally or went to work or work in the pharmacy. He was worried at that time, and I was happy. I was only in my early sixties at that time, and I often made him not understand the way to educate his children. "
" But in recent years, my three children have come less and less, especially during the epidemic, and they only met once every two or three years. There was a child from I haven't seen it after the epidemic. Although I often chatted with phone videos, I learned that they were busy with work, and my grandchildren also had to go to school and study, and the company was busy. Although their house was not small, I couldn't stay for a long time when I called me to live there. It was okay for a few days, and I was not used to living there for a long time. Look at your aunt and I have lived in our hometown for the past ten years. "
" A few years ago, I was always stumbled against Uncle Wang, and Uncle Wang also said that I was lucky and my baby was much better than his family. His family was squatting at home, squatting at home. When I drank a few times, I Everyone laughed at his children for being ineffective. Lao Wang said at that time that I was a real blessing and that my merits in this life were fulfilled. I laughed a little at his children who would rely on their parents in the future. "
" In recent years, Lao Wang's children have bought houses nearby. It is very convenient to move around each other during the Chinese New Year and holidays. The children help each other. The two old people don't have to worry too much about the two. During the Chinese New Year and holidays, it is very lively. I also heard that his children are doing well now. In this small city, their lives are pretty good. Several families often drive to have dinner at farmhouses nearby. The young lady farm invited Lao Wang and his wife to travel to nearby attractions. When he was sick, several children took turns to take care of him. The ward was very lively. Even other patients felt that seeing a doctor was like recuperation. Lao Zhang really enjoyed his happiness. "
" Now the older I am, the more I think my children are always around, especially when I have a little bit of illness and pain. At this time, I can only envy Lao Wang. He is a bowl of soup, and the happiness of family at any time. Unlike me, I sometimes feel very desolate." After saying that, Uncle Zhang said a little bitterly and said, "When is the epidemic going to happen? It's a big deal. There are not many opportunities for the family to get together. But even without the epidemic, I envy Lao Wang now. I was sick and hospitalized twice, lacking children by my side, I found a nurse to help, and I was really uncomfortable to spend money. I laughed at him for not being satisfied back then, but now I am suffering. It's not necessarily a good thing for children to have a future."
so I had to comfort him and said, "You are sighing now, like his Lao Wang's family, it's very ordinary, and the whole family is gathered together Being a close neighbor, you have more lifestyle. For the elderly, it is better. But you have to think about it. Everything is not satisfactory. His family is a bamboo that grows roots underground and silently clings to the ground. You are dandelion flowers floating on a few hillsides, blooming branches and leaves. This is called everyone has their own good, everyone has their own destiny, just be at ease."
In the sun, the dandelion flew away
Uncle Zhang smiled bitterly again and said, "Where is sugarcane It can be sweet at both ends. I used to laugh at him, but now I want to cry but I smile at him."
In the bamboo forest, the roots are so lively.
Then he looked at me and said, "How is your kid studying? It's okay to take the college entrance exam." I thought about it and said, "Now my generation, only children, can't compare with the older generations before. I'm afraid that I can only go to nursing homes in the future. The times are different and the situation is different. Children have the blessing of children, and it's not worth worrying about too much."
Uncle Zhang stood up and said, "Your metaphor is good. promising children fly away like dandelions, taking root in various places. The parents who stayed there are getting more and more unhappy as they grow older. Those children stayed by their local parents. If they develop together and be filial to their parents, it is also a blessing. It is the blessing of the future, and the sea of blessings is boundless. As parents at different stages, their moods are really different. ”
Uncle Lao Zhang finished speaking and left slowly. I sat on the stone bench, watching the sky getting darker, thinking about dandelions and bamboo shoots, and fell into deep thoughts.
As parents, family heritage, do you think that children are as good as Uncle Zhang and his children are promising, or do you want to stay together like Uncle Wang like Lao Wang, and don’t leave your hometown. Please reply to comment.
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