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people, only by truly calming down can we discover that there are more possibilities in life. Not pursuing too much wealth or caring about temporary gains and losses is great wisdom.
Life is a process of constantly giving up. As the saying goes, "The old ones don't go away, the new ones don't come." If a person always clings to the past, then his life will only be filled with endless confusion.
"Laozi" says: "There is less, and the more, the more confusing." It tells us that when there are fewer options in front of us, people will take it seriously and cherish it more. Once there are too many choices, they will inevitably be dazzling.
Therefore, if you want to live a life clearly and profoundly in this life, you must learn to give up.
appropriately gives up, and it will not cause the final loss. On the contrary, those who are greedy often achieve nothing in the end.
As a person, you must understand that life is your own, and how to position it depends on wisdom, not greed. We should strive to achieve what we want, not what others give.
The more things a person can give up, the richer he is.
Putting down the material is truly free and easy
People living in rural areas should have heard of such things. Every spring and autumn harvest season, there will always be things around you to compete for the edge of the land.
At that time, I was young and couldn't understand why farming was so hard and tiring. Adults still had to fight for the land desperately, even if they were just a few centimeters of edges and corners, they could fight red and even fight.
It was only after I grew up that the reason I was competing for it was because for a family, almost all the sources of income were arable land, and even if I harvest half a bag of grain, it was a meal for a few days.
As we all know, grain has never been expensive. Not to mention the small area of lunar land, even the grain harvest of a whole piece of arable land in one season is not as good as the monthly income of an ordinary person in the city.
People living there will be no choice but to tear their faces and break their heads, and they will also compete for the poor and pitiful survival resources. The reason behind
is about to emerge, but in fact it is just one word: poverty.
The poorer people live, the more tired they become, the more stingy they live. Poverty will limit people's actions and will also cut off the growth of their thoughts.
Only by actively letting go of matter from the bottom of your heart can you truly be free and easy.
is not afraid of the future, and gains and losses are passers-by
People who are afraid of the future, not only are their current life not very satisfactory, but they are also very concerned about future gains and losses.
Everyone will encounter unsatisfactory things in life. For most people, the past will disappear with the past, and a small number of people will always hold on to the past and are reluctant to let go.
Shakespeare once said: "All the past is the prologue." Life is like a passing cloud. Don't let your thoughts get entangled in past events for a long time.
The past is gone after all, and the future may be affected by it, but it may not be affected.
Be a brave person and let go of the past.
Human fear always comes from experience, and this situation can also be interpreted as conditioned reflex. Although it is only a kind of self-protection, it is not really feasible. Sometimes you should make yourself braver and don’t imagine the future path of life too hard.
The richer the heart, the more courageous a person is. He neither is sad about the past nor is he worried about the future. He understands that gains and losses are passers-by.
Looking back at the past, it is all passing clouds and smoke
The sea can turn into mulberry fields, and the passing of time in life cannot be avoided.
The past is clouds and smoke, so don’t worry about it.
We cannot deny that people who recall the past are so affectionate, because they are reluctant to leave, and because they look back frequently because of nostalgia.
But life does not allow us to spend too much time and energy to pursue the past. Life must eventually move forward. People who are deeply trapped in memories will only make their lives worse and worse, and the more they feel, the bitterness it becomes.
People in the spiritual world who are rich will only feel that the rest of their lives are not enough. If you want to know too much, it will be difficult to have a lot of time to nostalgate for the past.
Letting go of the past is not indifferent, but giving yourself decent.
Knowing that regret is useless, don’t chew the memories over and over again, and then sigh “regret”.
Those who have the courage to say goodbye to the past will always have a better future.
Socialize with the flow, leaving the real self
The reason why the relationship between people changes over time is not that one or both parties have changed their hearts, but that it is the passive change brought by growth.
No one can be unchanged. Life is full of variables. Every experience will more or less change a person's cognition. When there are too many changes in experience, interpersonal relationships will naturally change.
There are too many things in our lives that we cannot control ourselves, and that feeling of powerlessness will make people confused and anxious.
Socialization can only be done with the flow. If you get together, you will get together. If you don’t get together, you won’t be at ease no matter how hard you try.
Fellowship will not disappear, it will only be diverted. When a person takes his attention away, it will be difficult for the person who is left in the same place to repair the relationship no matter how hard he tries.
Rich people in the spiritual world are not afraid of loneliness, but prefer to be alone. If socializing makes them confused, they simply turn around and walk away.
Give up people who don’t engage in socializing just to leave their true id.
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