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Someone said: "Men and women in extramarital affairs are generally acquaintances."
In fact, this makes sense. If you observe carefully, you will find that those who come into extramarital affairs are often acquaintances around you.
For example, male and female colleagues who get off work together every day, male and female neighbors with very good relationships, have always been involved in their exes, and friends of the opposite sex who frequently date with friendship, etc.
Once these men and women are together, once there is no boundary, they can easily upgrade from ordinary relationships to lover relationships.
It can be seen that extramarital affairs start with these acquaintances. Both parties have a certain emotional foreshadowing and are easily trapped in the whirlpool of their relationship.
For women, they generally do not accept teasing from strangers to the opposite sex, but their alertness to the acquaintances around them is very low.
Once they meet men with ulterior motives, they are easily tempted, thus breaking through the bottom line and unable to extricate themselves from outside marriage.
Observation found that women have extramarital affairs, which are mostly related to the following types of "acquaintances":
1. The teasing of colleagues of the opposite sex can easily make women lose their vigilance
At work, there must be all kinds of male colleagues around women. Once they meet a man with bad intentions, they will make women lose their vigilance.
The reason is very simple. In women's hearts, male colleagues are all working partners, and they will not doubt the motivation of such men.
When a man comes to tease him, the woman just thinks he is joking and will not take it to heart, which gives the man an opportunity to take advantage of it.
Some men understand women's psychology in particular. They pretend to maintain work relationships with women and always use the convenience of work to play affair with women.
Once women are not rejected, they will take further action and slowly break through the women's defenses.
Many women are not prepared for it. When they are teased by a man, they find that they are deceived, but everything is too late. This is a very regrettable thing.
There is a girl named Ms. Yang next to her. After giving birth, she went back to work. Because she is beautiful and her figure is still very charming, many men are very moved.
So, many men took advantage of their work to flirt with Miss Yang, and their relationship was very ambiguous.
However, Ms. Yang felt that this was a common thing at work, and chatting between the opposite sex was nothing. Besides, she felt that she was married, so there would definitely be no one to make a bad idea for her.
That's it. Miss Yang did not refuse in the face of the man's teasing, and her relationship with them became more and more intimate. Finally, after a dinner party, a male colleague took the opportunity to confess, which suddenly made her at a loss.
At that time, both parties drank some wine, and the atmosphere was a bit ambiguous, and they unexpectedly had an intimate relationship.
Therefore, women generally do not guard against colleagues of the opposite sex who are familiar with at work. If they meet a man with ulterior motives, they are prone to having an extramarital relationship.
2. A particularly enthusiastic male neighbor makes women unable to guard against
In reality, some women will enter extramarital affair, and are mostly teased by a particularly enthusiastic male neighbor around them.
For women, neighbors living in the same place are almost unprepared and always dating them with friendly attitude.
Because, in a woman's subconscious mind, she always feels that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and can maintain a good relationship with neighbors. When difficulties occur, she can quickly find someone to help.
But, they ignore that many men are unreliable. Men who seem decent on the surface are often disrespectfully insincere.
Therefore, when a woman meets a male neighbor with ulterior motives, she is easily teased by them. Once she cannot withstand the temptation, an extramarital affair will occur.
Colleague Ms. Zhang is very beautiful and has a good figure. In addition, she is dressed in a delicate manner, so she looks more beautiful and charming.
After she got married to her husband, she had not been to work and took care of her family and children at home. She gradually became familiar with her neighbors around her.
In the third year after marriage, my husband was transferred to another city and came back only once a month, which made Miss Zhang very lonely.
Especially in life, once she encounters difficulties, she can’t solve them and has to ask her neighbors for help.
In this case, she met a particularly enthusiastic male neighbor, Mr. Wang. The two usually have a happy chat. Whenever they have difficulties, she is happy to go find him.
It’s like this. The two people have more contact and their relationship becomes more and more intimate. In the end, they accidentally have an intimate relationship. Later, Miss Zhang woke up and decisively broke off contact with him.
Therefore, women are often not wary of enthusiastic male neighbors around them. Once they are given the other party, they are prone to extramarital affairs.
3. Friends of the opposite sex who have a strong relationship are the weaknesses in women's relationships
Women are generally not prepared for friends of the opposite sex. They always think that they have found a confidant and are particularly prone to immersed in this relationship.
They regard men as their best friends, or have a very strong relationship. When dating, they act very generously and do not have much reserve.
Therefore, two people often make ambiguous jokes and even have a lot of physical contact, but women always think they are friends and don’t have to think randomly.
However, men will not do this. Once they have the opportunity, they want to get women and don’t care about the so-called friends of the opposite sex at all.
In other words, women will treat men as buddies, confidants or best friends, but men will only treat women as objects of ambiguousness , which is the essential difference.
When the relationship between the two parties develops to a certain level, it is easy to cross the line and eventually fall into an extramarital relationship.
This is true for her friend Xiaoya. She has dated a good friend, and both of them are usually called close friends.
Sometimes, she would treat him as a male best friend, give him certain privileges, often go out to eat with him, and even travel far away.
When both parties are together, they have no scruples. They always chat generously, make ambiguous jokes, flirt with each other, and even hold hands and hug them.
Many times, when Xiaoya and him were tired from going out, they would lean on his thigh to rest. In this way, their relationship became closer and closer, and eventually, they unexpectedly had an intimate relationship.
Fortunately, Xiaoya's husband loves her very much and has never doubted her. This made Xiaoya gradually wake up and finally cut off contact with her buddy.
So, Many women have extramarital affairs, which is actually the that starts with acquaintances around them. Those confidants of the opposite sex often use friendship to play affair.
is visible. The safer the relationship is, the more risky it is. I hope that men and women in reality will pay attention to it.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Summary, women have extramarital affairs that are related to the following types of "acquaintances":
The teasing of colleagues of the opposite sex can easily make women lose their vigilance; especially enthusiastic male neighbors make women unable to guard against; friends of the opposite sex who have a strong relationship are the weaknesses in women's relationships.
This requires reminding women in real life that when interacting with these acquaintances, they must be depressed and don’t believe them rashly.
Only by staying vigilant, actively distance yourself from the opposite sex, and decisively rejecting the teasing of the opposite sex, can you avoid falling into the whirlpool of extramarital affairs.
It is easy to love each other and it is difficult to stay together. In marriage, women must abide by the bottom line of loyalty, protect their marriage, and cherish the man who loves you, so that they can get true happiness.
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